why do most women go for looks alone?

Question

let me be clear i am not saying all men do or dont but i know i dont i go for the inside then to the out not outside in.

and i mean maybe its just the younger women 18-25 that do.

or maybe i am so ulgy and fat it scares them?

Answer 1

Younger women will choose looks for the controlled urge to have someone on their arm who makes them look well as a couple, and the uncontrolled urge to make pretty babies.

More mature women won't do that. They have a game plan for the man they want, and they will execute that plan. Looks aren't as important, though health is still a part of the overall idea. Security and comfort are the top draws for a mature woman.

Answer 2

Be fair not only to the women folk but to yourself as well. People (both men and women) are first attracted to what they see before even what they hear. What a person can offer, though most times is the determinant to how long one stays with them, it is secondary. It doesn't mean there are people who are not interested in the inner beauty of a person. You sounded like one who's fat and not comfortable with it. then do something about it. Look good and fit. It also helps.

Answer 3

Different strokes for different folks. Personally, though, I think that it's dumb that women overlook important qualities like intelligence, integrity, honesty, and respect, both for himself and his partner. Many women fail to realize that over time good looks will fade, but the aforementioned qualities will stand the tests of time.

Back to your question though. Good looks are the first things that jumps out at you. You can't see intelligence, integrity, and the other qualities that I mentioned--these qualities have to be learned. Sometimes when women learn of these qualities, they fall in love with them. (Trust me, I know of this personally.)

To me, a good looking man without the qualities that I mentioned is like a really sharp car without an engine. Some women soon learn that some men like this are of very little or no good.

Answer 4

I think you are talking about self centered women. Don't generalize us. That's like a girl calling Dan Marino just another football player (I'm not a sports fan, pick your favorite sports player). Women that are young, naive, shallow, insecure, depressed, bitchy, whiny, over-dramatic, or suffering from any other female only ailment can and will only go for looks. I assume their mind works like this: well I'm pretty and I'm shallow so if he's pretty then he must be shallow too so he probably will be too stupid to realize how shallow I am and if he does notice, I can just hold up a mirror and he can stare at himself in the mirror and forget what he was thinking about how shallow I am. Or something simple-minded like that. Personally, I've dated shallow guys and I got sick of how self-absorbed they were. I will not watch a guy try on concealers in a department store.

Answer 5

i am not like other girls so i can only guess i think it is because they think of popularaty 10 times more often that whats inside the hot body
now when i met my boy friend i was all raggady with week old danderuff in my hair and no shower because the pipes were frozen and my cloths were written on and stained while he was in a button up and blue jeans
i was walking in to my class with a bent up book and was wondering if anyone knew how to fix it he told me to use something heavy and bend the book back
we saw eachother again 3rd period he aked me to lunch and the next day we were dating

Answer 6

They don't just go for looks alone. But you have to have a little bit of physical attraction to even consider going out with someone. And remember that looks are subjective. I've dated guys that I know my friends don't think are attractive, but I do and that's all the matters.

Answer 7

I think its more men that do that... but I feel its an I'mmaturity thing... I used to be like that, but as I'm getting older im realizing that looks only get you so far and you have to have a great personality to take you all the way... Now personality is so much more important to me than looks!

Answer 8

Don't you think this is kind of a sexist question? Anyway.... Most women don't go for looks alone, it only seems that way. And what is physically attractive to one woman, may not be attractive to another.

Answer 9

Why do most men go for looks alone?...

It's just human nature, in general...People go for looks because there's a better chance of sparking initial attraction....that initial attraction provokes the desire to further get to know that person...Honestly, most people wouldn't bother to initiate conversation with someone that they had no physical attraction to...(fyi, good looks don't equal a physical attraction, and a physical attraction is possible even without "good looks").....Physical attraction draws you in...the deeper things keep you hooked...

Answer 10

Some women do, but not all of us. We like a guy for who he is,or what is inside of him, and how he makes us feel special.
If you just be yourself you will find a woman who likes you for those things, looks are not everything, but sometimes they can be a bonus.