Why is it that every guy just wants to "hook up" and then leave you... Thats all I had in my past and it was fine then but Im almost 17 and want a "real" relationship. Is their something wrong with me???
2007-06-20 12:49:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing wrong at all Bella. Sounds like to date you just haven't had the good fortune to meet a like minded male. But keep the faith because soon enough your Knight will come along and then I hope that the pair of you will life happily ever after. But until that time comes please do not get yourself a reputation by "hooking up" with all these other phony young men. Believe in yourself and nothing but good will come to you.
2007-06-20 12:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. You just need to find the right guy. Try to take things a little slower and see if there is a real connection before you "hook up". If you build the relationship first it will be that much better.
2007-06-20 19:54:32 · answer #2 · answered by dhack567 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of answers about why guys behave that way (in general; there are always many exceptions), but my guess is that the real question you should be asking is why you're attracted to the ones who treat you in ways you don't want to be treated. I believe there must be some part of you that still wants that kind of brief encounter, or a part of you that doesn't want anything more lasting. Are you paying attention only to the Alpha Males who have the balls and self-confidence to hit on you but are only looking for sexual conquests? Why would you never consider that quiet guy who's president of the science club (or someone like him) who would like nothing better than to be someone's boyfriend, but can't compete with the jocks? Just a few ideas to think about.
2007-06-20 19:59:28 · answer #3 · answered by Dan H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possible. We can't really answer that unless we know you.
Having said that, guys around your age is more into hooking up than getting in a relationship. But they're out there keep looking. When I was at your age I just wanted to hook up with girls even if I liked them but I told myself, I'll only get in a relationship if she's perfect.
2007-06-20 19:59:27 · answer #4 · answered by moose 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with you. First of all you are too young to really worry about a serious relationship. Enjoy being 17 and single, you have your hole life a head of you. Besides they are just boys at this stage, not men. An sometimes you have to play hard to get, guys don't like when girls trough themselves at them. Guys like a challange. Like I said just enjoy being single, and when the time is right, you'll find that someone!
2007-06-20 19:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by TAMMI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. There's nothing wrong with you. When guys are young they tend to only have one thing on their minds. Not all guys but most. You've just fallen into the trap that men and women fall into. The types of guys you tend to be attracted to have one track minds because that's all you have ever known. Give the guy a chance that you don't typically go for and maybe your luck will change.
2007-06-20 21:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mad Man in a Blue Box 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
17 is way too young for a "real" relationship. Studies show that 80% of couples who get married before the age of 25 end up divorced.
Wait a little and have fun while you're young. Don't rush to grow up because once you do, you'll wish you were young again and you'll never be able to.
2007-06-20 19:53:22 · answer #7 · answered by odg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every guy just wants that. However, you can't really expect to have a life long relationship at such a young age. It's best to just date around and find out what you like and don't like in a guy, then when you get older you can settle with the one who has everything you want.
2007-06-20 23:10:14 · answer #8 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, at that age group all guys only want is the "hook up". There always a guy out there that not looking for the "hook up" you just have to wait and look for it
If you show guys that your not in to "hooking up" then they would know. Mostlikely they wouldn't ask for it
2007-06-20 20:01:31 · answer #9 · answered by mstout1988 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are at the age where guys are dumb and don't know what they are doing. It's just the age you're at and you will eventually get a little older, date older guys who know how to treat a woman and you'll be fine. Just keep your standards and wait for the right guy to come along. You can't rush this.
2007-06-20 19:54:08 · answer #10 · answered by David B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋