i've liked this guy for so long since 6th grade and well i love him so much and he liked me too but i know that its not right to share him with another girl aka his girlfriend. So please help me go on without the direction of finding another guy cause most of them seem to not treat girls right so i dont think I want that right now! Thanks so much for taking the time to help!
2007-06-20 12:33:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know that we have heard this word over and over again, but it takes time. The Bible says that there’s a time for everything, a time to love, a time to live, a time to have, a time to loose, a time to rejoice, a time to mourn, a time to let go, a time to hold on to…etc…time doesn’t really heal all wounds, but it does make you stronger and able to deal with the hurt. If you really like him, let him know how you feel. I had to make the same choice to either let my prospect go or try to make things right with him, and choose between moving ahead with my friend. Ask yourself will it work, ask yourself is it something that you really want or something that you want because some one else has it. If he won’t spend time with you, don’t waste time on him. My prospect came to me, while we were trying to be together and told me that he was in love with another. It hurt me so bad, didn’t know how to take that. I freaked out. Just remember that time doesn’t heal all wounds, but it will make you stronger. I pray that I’ve helped because I understand that a person’s feelings in not something to take lightly. Just let him know how you feel, see if he feels the same, and if not…just move on. It won’t be easy but there is a guy for you out there. Sometimes, we want things that God never meant for us to have, and when we get it, that’s why it doesn’t work out. Don’t shut yourself off because you can’t have one person, bc you just might shut out whom God has for you. God Bless
2007-06-22 03:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by missinterlectual 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to leave the life you have to be with the love of your life then i personally don't think they are the love of your life. You may love them but i don't think it is like thing if you get my drift. But if it really is the love of your life then maybe giving up the life you love is a small price to pay for being happy and in love for the rest of your life
2016-05-21 02:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to immerse yourself in things you like, such as your friends, hobbies, school, etc. Make yourself busy and learn to do new things and the most important thing is to learn from from this experience so that you don't make the same mistake again. Good luck and good for you for seeing that what you are doing is not the right thing to do and wanting to better yourself instead of jumping into a new relationship.
2007-06-20 12:43:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want help, you are going to have to accept help.
You might not like the idea of finding another guy but that is the only way that you are going to get over this one. There is no use moping over him. He is gone! Believe me there are plenty of fish in the sea and you will find one you like better.
2007-06-20 12:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you love him and he likes you, did he just like you. If he has another girlfriend he does not feel for you as you do him. Do your self a favor and give yourself time to find someone else who loves you. Good Luck !!
2007-06-20 12:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have is a strong case of infatuation, if he already has a girlfriend, then let him. You are more than that( second) whether you know it or not. You have to love yourself enough to, not want to be second in anyone's life. My sister if you are a Queen than be JUST that
2007-06-20 12:44:48 · answer #6 · answered by mitchell m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to forget him is to replace him. Cut your hair, do your nails, and get a few new outfits. Then just be yourself, and see if something new doesn't pop up. But be sure, like you said, to get one that treats you right. You deserve that.
2007-06-20 12:38:44 · answer #7 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time for yourself. Don't go thinking that you have to have someone else in your life to be complete. The only person you need is you.
FP
2007-06-20 12:36:30 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allysa, Its always painful and lonely to loose someone you love but you are young and time will heal your heart with a little help from you,,and remember..,the pain goes away in a little while but the memories are yours to keep.good luck to you.,,I know how you feel..
2007-06-20 12:56:50 · answer #9 · answered by Stretch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can give you advice but know that no one can help you but yourself, your in control of when you want to move on, and who you want to be with. be yourself all the time, and no matter how many guys you are with, eventually you are bound to get it right, and stick with one guy in the future.
2007-06-20 12:37:49 · answer #10 · answered by hello. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋