me and my bf broke up 4 over the summer hopefully well get back 2gether but i really miss him and cant stop thinking about him I wont even call him cause he wont call anymore we use to talk 5 times a day I dont no wat 2 do someone help!!!
2007-06-20 11:54:28 · 17 answers · asked by Emilie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he says we might go back out in 7th grade and we cant really do anything 2gether!!
2007-06-20 15:08:26 · update #1
Emilie, I think that you need to get involved with other interests to keep your mind off your ex. You have the entire summer, to meet new friends, do lots of fun things, and just enjoy yourself. I would NOT call your ex. Personally, I think that he has a lot of nerve, saying that "maybe you will go out again in 7th grade". He sounds WAY too sure of himself, and If he broke up with you for the summer, then HE wants to be single, have fun, and enjoy the summer. I would not give him the satisfaction of paying any attention to him, or give him the time of day. I know you are sad, but you are young, and will meet lots of fun guys over the summer.
2007-06-28 10:56:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could be wrong, and this will be something you don't want to hear, but if he stopped calling you, then chances are HE's not thinking of YOU as much anymore. But, maybe he's just too busy hanging out with his friends and having a good time.
I recommend you do the same. Ya, since it's the summer, I'd deffinately stay busy and hang out with your friends. Go to the pool and work on your tan! Just do anything all the time to keep your mind off of him.
Oh, and another thing, I've found that love comes when you're not looking for it.
Good luck!
2007-06-28 17:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something else. Volunteer somewhere. Get a summer job. Find another guy friend to hang out with. Ask your mom to hide your cell from you so you are not obsessed with it. It sounds like you want what you can not have. WOrk out. clean yoru room, so anything that will get rid of your energy and get you moving. Turn up the music and dance. you will live. Beleive me.
2007-06-20 18:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think that you should give him a call and talk to him and tell him that you still want to be friends and hang out with him now and then. And maybe he still has the same feelings for you, and he is waiting for you to make the first move and tell him how you feel and if he doesnt want to get back togeather then tell him thats ok but you still want to be friends.
Good luck,
Kelly <3
2007-06-20 19:01:45 · answer #4 · answered by just.the.girl <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, If this guy is really important to you, then you need to tell him that. Don't act helpless, because that just makes them feel like they have all the power, like most guys don't usually fell that way already! You need to tell him that he is important to you, and I don't know why you guys broke up, but you need to tell him that you'll change. Tell him you miss talking to him. Make him feel good about himself, without (like I already said) making him feel power full. Honey (I call everyone that), if he is worth anything, then he'll come back, but if he tries to make you feel worthless or calls you anything bad, then he's not worth it. Trust me on this one, I have a lot of experience in this department.
2007-06-20 19:04:00 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
I dont know what to say-you have to decide what is best for you-true love will come yet I suggest you see the big picture=true love is the answer, yet most people look for it first in the wrong places. what helped me most as girls do like me is to know who I am from within=persue it cautiously-dont let your heart go out -let true friendship grow and see where it goes
this helps too to think about ahead of time
there is no set way to build a friendship- everyone is different and every circumstance is different-care is a needed. realizing that one doesnt need another to be happy, and in truth if one can not be happy within themselves they will never stay happy outside of themselves.
what helped me the most-was the help of Jesus to my heart and soul-and letting him build my self esteem to know within that true happiness comes first from him. John 3 repented of my sins (even one lie) and born again with Jesus in my heart as my best friend once I asked him in (Revelation 3:19&20) "I love you and ask you to repent of your sins, Behold I knock on your heart door to come in and deliver from sin and be your friend, when you ask me in."
so I prayed-"Jesus I am sorry for my sins (even one lie is a sin) come into my heart and help me, be my friend, amen."
praying for you, relax life will go on, and soon you will see it is better than ever, and that there is importance in a guy who will honor you in Jesus -and as Jesus promises "once you believe, I will never leave you nor forsake you." Hebrews 13
prayin for you-for Jesus perfect will, David
2007-06-20 19:00:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do is act like your over him and go on dates with other people. If he really wants you back it will kill him to see that you are doing fine with out him and he will come back. Good luck
2007-06-28 18:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by Steph 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you are probably hearing this... but you don't need to get involved with this kindof drama @ your age. but i'll hope for the best and say that you need to talk to him and not us b/c only he can answer your questions and he'll tell you how he feels. if he likes you as much as i think he does, he'll respect you and listen. :0)
2007-06-28 16:53:03 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Random 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him how you feel!!!If he feels the same way, go with him,if not then hes not worth it and (as hard as it sounds) try to move on!!!I hope it works out with yall!
2007-06-28 17:47:12 · answer #9 · answered by jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well asking for help here is a good idea. hey you could find what and where everything went wrong and ask if he wants to get it another try!
2007-06-20 19:01:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋