Last year while at a rally some lady gave my old man her phone number and he put it in his wallet. I found the number, called the lady and then went to her house. She says she didn't know my old man and that if she had met him at the rally that she was drunk and doesn't remember giving him her number...... I showed her pictures and the number which she admitted was in her handwritting..... She completely denies knowing him.....
I then went home and asked him about it and he said she gave it to him at the rally and he didn't even realize he had it.... I questioned him as to why he placed it in his wallet since we have been together for several years. He claims he didn't remember doing that. He did though, or the number wouldn't have been there....
ANYWAY.... today my home phone rang and this woman's name and number came up on my caller ID. It was her daughter and come to find out my daughter and her daughter are good friends from school.
2007-06-20 12:05:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My daughter ask if her friend could stay the night... I said... NO... am I a total witch for saying No?
2007-06-20 12:06:01 · update #1
Your concern and confusion are understandable. You may be thinking that this friendship may bring your husband and this woman into contact. But do you really want to deny your daughter a friend on that basis? If he wanted to fool around, he would. Be glad that your daughter feels comfortable enough to invite her friends to your home. The child is not responsible for the sins (if any) of the mother.
2007-06-20 12:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it is an honest mistake. He might not have wanted to be rude and just toss her number, so he put it in his wallet. Guys keep stuff in their wallets for a long time, sometimes. I think if you have gone there, and she was rational, and he was rational, and both say it meant nothing, or don't remember. Take it as a compliment, someone thought your man was hott! Dont take it out on your daughter its not her fault. If your man was with this other woman, your daughter would not be friends with her friend, gauranteed. I think you are ok, but you should try to help yourself when it comes to those insecurities.
2007-06-20 19:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by missadvice411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one issue has nothing to do with the other if your kids are friends; it should not be their fault that two drunk parents messed up. and I think your hubby shouldn't be going to the rally if he doesn't know how to handle himself in a mature way. And if your children are good friends from school that could explain the number being on caller ID before you were aware the kids were friends.
And as far as him not remembering her number in his wallet; I know ther is alot of times a person is to drunk to remember what they do. Alcohol has broken up alot of homes. If you love him try to put it behind you and go on if you cant then leave
2007-06-21 09:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by kathy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT THE HELL is your question no your not a witch and if u have a daughter how old is your old man im confused anyway with ther witch thing no ur not u may have wanted to relax tell ur daughter tell her u never net this girl and u dont want her coming over
2007-06-20 19:12:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see - punish your kid for something your husband might or might not have done ?!!?
Can you say immature and insecure ?
Get over it - obviously if "your old man" hasn't had contact w/ this woman, then even if he DID take the number in a drunken stupor, he didn't follow up on it.
I'd think you'd be glad that he had the opportunity thrown at him and he walked away from it. But Noooooooo - you feel the need to treat him like his intent WAS to cheat AND to punish your daughter because of it.
Way to go - SUPER MOM !!!
2007-06-20 19:12:10 · answer #5 · answered by aa889d 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
So they may of realized that their children were friends and exchanged numbers and forgot about it. However, you found the number and had to look like a witch to find out what was going on.
I think you just look stupid.
2007-06-20 19:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say so because there was nothing going on and it seems to me that you wanted something to happen so you could have a reason to be mad. be happy that your husband and that woman were honest to you and stop looking for trouble because you might find it and end up really hurt and bitter.
2007-06-20 19:09:08 · answer #7 · answered by karamelchem_1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-06-20 19:17:01 · answer #8 · answered by Toosense2 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You got the answers you were looking for. Be happy that your man is faithful. Move on, and let the girls hang out.
2007-06-20 19:13:12 · answer #9 · answered by Ivy_Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not entirely but keep in mind that it wasn't her daughter or your daughter that put the number in your man's pocket. now if she tries to sneak nude pictures of him kick her @ss and send her home
2007-06-20 19:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋