and on what matter?
how do you react then?
2007-06-20 12:47:17 · 22 answers · asked by Jasmine 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
in-laws who always live you only
2007-06-20 13:07:28 · update #1
I live in Lforida, and during the hurricanes 2 years ago ALL of my in laws stayed with us. At first I idn't mind, but I hated that I cooked every meal, and I di devery load of laundry Ect Ect. Anyway I made him take me to a hotel for a few days and let them have the house, and it was fine after that. (There was 10 adults and 3 kids in a 4 bedroom double wide)
2007-06-20 12:58:23 · answer #1 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the in laws can be the root of all arguments in a marriage. There are two different families trying to decide and tell the family what is best. One sides with their family and the other sides with their family. It is best for all parents to stay out of the couples personal lives and just be family. This would make things alot better all the way around.
2007-06-25 12:07:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is natural and normal. The couple do argue (verbally fight) over issues ranging from ex to in-laws to household to meals to this and to that. The married life has to witness a lot of ups & downs and the basic reason is that we expect a lot from each other in marriage. We sometimes take our spouses to be guaranteed. This is a starnge kind of situation. We, surprisingly, do not give any room/freedom/liberty to the person we love the most because we believe that he/she MUST understand!
No reasosn to panic over this futile, yet aggressive 'fights'. The only important point is 'not to stick to your stands' on trivial issues. Always discuss/argue in a justified manner. If you are able to be agreeable - agree; if not agree to disagree gracefully and always make up with a kiss!
Good Luck!
2007-06-21 03:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U wives, particularly those who stay indoors and hubby an office-boss, R always suspicious...U think there is no work at office except having affairs with any lady !!...Some guys do that OK, but why straightway suspect him who is Ur life partner ?.....* Now about Ur hubby's in-laws, say Ur own sister, stays with U and U therefore doubt & fight...... Hi my good sister, watch them with a pure mind, discuss openly if U feel (never react wrongly), and say the in-law GOOD-BYE if Ur doubt comes true...Either she goes out, or U go...But then, seek apology if U were wrong.. But never allow Ur family to spoil. *** Be rigid & tough ...*** Be determined.
2007-06-25 10:46:13 · answer #4 · answered by (9) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this might be long...My in laws are out this week from out of state, they are renting the house 2 doors down from me. I have been home all week and only leave the house when they do with my kids. Well,last night hubby and I went out to dinner whileour kids were with the in laws. I never lock my doors (I know) well, when we came back, I noticed on all my web sites, I was signed out of them. I checked the history on the computer, and there were sites I never go to on there. Long story short, I found out that while we were gone,my father in law had come into our home and used our computer. He never asked, and never even mentioned it to us when we returned home. I do not have a good relationship with myin laws,and felt very bothered by the fact he just came on in. My husband thinks I am just over re-acting, which cause tension between us. Like I said, I have been home all week, he could have came and used the computer then, why did he wait for us to not be home to do it? Sneaky SOB. Well, I did not say anything to my father in law, because I feel my husband should, but he wont. They leave THANK GOD in 2 days. But you can be sure when I stepped out today, my house was locked up like Fort Knox.
2007-06-20 20:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by criley27 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of the fights women have with husband is because of third party staying with them.
On any matter, mostly what u consider immaterial
the husband reacts incorrectly, not knowing the reason.
2007-06-21 00:57:24 · answer #6 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Often fight in a family occurs due to the third family. but a fight can't solve the problem. It's fine if u come out with sensible answers
2007-06-26 07:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fighting or quarrelling does not make sense to simplify the matter rather complicating it.
Be quiet & reply them firmly with your soft voice after thinking the unsolved matters.
Best of luck!
2007-06-21 10:31:58 · answer #8 · answered by Gargi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mother-in-law lives with us because she has heart problems,yes my husband and I do argue about her sometimes.She is very hateful to everyone including our kids most of the time.We take care of her financially as well,most of the time we get into it because she won't get her dissability.She just lays in bed all day saying she does'nt feel good.She can take care of herself,but she won't,so yes we argue about her alot.
2007-06-28 08:38:33 · answer #9 · answered by tori 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is arrogant on our part to pick up a quarrel with a life partner.
Whether it is a man or girl same rules apply.be tolerant and considerate to all.how can you be good manager if you can't live with your own people.
See how prime mnister manmohan Singh lives happily with Mushruff,Bush and Sonia.
2007-06-23 19:34:35 · answer #10 · answered by murthyssr9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋