Family & Relationships - 16 June 2007

i was talking to this guy that i really , really, really like and we were sitting nex to each other. we smiled a bit and then he put his hand on my knee/lap. it felt nice , warm and affectionate...only to wake up in my bed and find that i had just had a dream!!!

i know it sounds like nothing, but it meant soo much. it felt to loving!

its happed a few times before and ive never felt more depressed! empty, lonely! its like somone pulled my heart out and put it in a blender!

what am i gona do? i really like him and know he really likes me back! hes obvious about it, as in all the signs are there...staring, talking my things by accident, constant eye contact, lingering smiles, always saying hi..but both of us are too shy to say anything more!

i cant be with him coz my inidan culture and mum wont let me date!

im soo alone. 21 and never had a BF!

2007-06-16 07:41:24 · 17 answers · asked by girl 2 in Singles & Dating

i think that everybodys equal and were all the same but it seems like there are a lot or racists against blacks. they hate them!!

2007-06-16 07:39:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is away and he has apparently become really really close to this girl. So close that people think they are a couple in fact!! He did tell me about her and claimed that they were just friends but she was real upset the other day and he got upset as well. I don't know..I kind of feel a bit weird about this. I'm not normally a jealous type. Is this normal?

2007-06-16 07:38:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My bf I have been with him for 2 years, and when I asked for marriage he said he is not able to come, and also he started cheating on me. Then we broke up and I had to go through a death bed that time. after two months he came back and asked me if he can come back. he said he is not able to compromise there also. This is my life first serious relationship. I never slept before with any guy. He has done many things to me, how can I live with them. Now when I say yes, he is not saying anything. He is so cold, I have no idea what is he doing. Is he still talking to the other girl, I have no idea. Can such person be trusted again? Does he even feel how much I have been though. He says he is crying now also, his heart is crying for the other girl, but he is not able to compromise there also. What is happenning, shall I ask him to come back to me? or is he still cheating on me? I am scared to know the truth and I am scared to go through all again which I had been. He ruined my life,help plz.

2007-06-16 07:38:12 · 3 answers · asked by jenni 1 in Singles & Dating

made one of the worst mistakes of my life.I relocated to Los Angeles from the bay Area, and I wound up getting involved with this guy at my college.He's what you would call "Mr.Popularity" he's in a fraternity, school president, etc, so we had a brief sexual relationship, It wasn;t planned or anything, but he's friends with this girl I know, and I also know his sister, they both happens to be part of an organization I want to join.Anyhow, a few months go by, and I sent tim a text message saying good morning the guy I was involved with told me not to call him anymore, and also went on to say that I if i called him again he would get a restraining order, and that he did not like me...so I said fine "no problem" I never called him again right, so the very next day I get a voicemail from his friend inviting me to an event "that he invited her too" I returned her call three days later, and she's tells, me never mind" the event is over, "take care" so after that I would see her at school

Additional Details

14 minutes ago
I see her at school she ignores me, i;ve called her a few times to wish her happy holidays, and to wish her congrautlations on winning a show at my school she just ignores me, when I see him at first he ignored me, but a few months back he called me over to him saying he wanted to talk to me, but I told him i had to get to class, and so now he doesn't speak to me anymore,so I just feel so bad about te whole thing..now none of the members speaks..

7 minutes ago
Umm, no he did accuse me of playing on his phone...he said someone was calling and playing on his phone, and he heard my voice in the background, and there fore he didn;'t want to be friends with me, but the bad part I did was call him after that to try to talk to him and convince him it wasn;t me...

6 minutes ago
And we had sex after that...but I did ask him..if it was okay to call him again and he said yeah...and he even call me..and I felt like if really thought I was crazy..or playing on his phone why did he give me his new address...

2007-06-16 07:33:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-16 07:33:48 · 28 answers · asked by hot_chica 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

24 yrs. my husband and i have been together since 14, married for 6 years, and we still have stares everywhere we go. I am white, he is spanish ( and muy caliente'), he is very proffesional and we are pretty well to do, but people still stare like we are the scum of the earth. will this ever be accepted?

2007-06-16 07:27:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to other parents or to their boyfriend/girlfriend?????????
parents why would you do it?

2007-06-16 07:22:58 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-16 07:22:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Hi I'm Billy Goose and I think that I am a Gay. I never thought of myself as a Gay before and am not attracted to men. However, I tend to like to watch some movies classified as chick flicks, like to sing Broadway tunes, and don't wear jeans. I tend to wear cotton or woolen slacks. I have been asked if I was a Gay before. I don't know if it was a taunt or if they were serious. Also, when calling call centers I have sometimes been mistaken for a woman. Ah...the curse of a Tenor.

Should I see a MD to be tested to find out whether or not I have the estrogen level of a Gay man? Since, I'm not interested in men is there anything that I can do to correct this?

I have been to the drugstore to look for pain killers but there aren't any over the counter painkillers for psychological pain. I don't want to be a Gay. I am attracted to women.

2007-06-16 07:20:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys, can tell me why would u ask the same one girl questions such as "what did u do for today?", "how's today?" every night online? Is it just a way of getting conversation going or there's more to it?

Or gals, do u get such qns from a guy who's only seeing u as a friend?

2007-06-16 07:18:27 · 7 answers · asked by Gemlim 1 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone have any idea on how to go about on getting a Prenuptial Agreement in the State Of Arizona?

2007-06-16 07:14:49 · 5 answers · asked by ♥KayKay♥ 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He's adorable, funny. smart. cute, and you can talk to him about anything for hours. But he has this opinion... he hates people outside your race. Would you still stay with him?

2007-06-16 07:13:17 · 11 answers · asked by Ting 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 yrs old still in college and hubby is 25 yrs old works for insurance company only been married 3.7 months before he filed for divorce.Long story short we took 4 month break before marriage his idea(i am sure he was not innocent during the break) and i had a fling ex.bf and got married unaware i was pregnant w/ ex.bf child.Curently we are going through a nasty divorce since i told him the truth.Some of my close family are aware of the details but None of my friends or anyone else is.As of now i am already beeing snubbed or a pity case just because i am showing i am pregnant.My soon to be ex.hubby has said nothing but as of now most people are assuming its his?

2007-06-16 07:12:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

During my marrage i was the perfect subrban soccer mom always trying to please everyone(especially my cheating husband) and appear perfect. Well needless to say my "perfect" marrage has ended and now i'm ready to go out and party party party!!! I had been married ever since i was 18 and never got to live wild when i was younger. But..... some people frown on this because i have kids at home. The are 12, 10, and 8. I think that's old enough to stay at home by themselves.... right? It's not like i don't spend time with them or anything we hang out in the afternoons, but they understand that at night mommy has got to go out and party. They even help me get ready sometimes. People always try to make me feel guilty for this, but just because your a mom dosen't mean you can't have a life does it? I'm not a bad mom am i?

2007-06-16 07:12:28 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-16 07:08:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had phone sex with a submissive married women last night for about 30 minutes. gonna probably do it with her again tonight. Anyone have ideas of things i can make her do? I 've had her bark like a dog and pant also. Looking to humilate her in general.

2007-06-16 07:08:25 · 6 answers · asked by MHSlaveslut M 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 07:05:54 · 10 answers · asked by WalkTheLine 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 07:04:19 · 13 answers · asked by Seymore :] 3 in Singles & Dating

Obsessed with it, his ex used to have the same kinda dog. He's obsessed with it, buys it treats all the time, will stay in to play with it, spoils it rotten, cannot stop talking about it.

He's a 27 year old man, lives with his mum (and his dog!) does anybody know why people tend to act this way? Is anything psychologically wrong? Any opinion will help my worried self!! Thanks!!

2007-06-16 07:00:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 06:53:50 · 8 answers · asked by CJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I think i am bi sexual but only when i see 2 women touch/kiss if a very atrractive woman did kiss me i would kiss back what do you think??

2007-06-16 06:52:46 · 9 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

This guy is ready to date again, maybe more with the right gal. i'm 42 never married Single White male, in very good shape and have been told nicely handsome also
Only been on about 10 dates in my life, get bit nervous, and have been taking care of my elderly parents the last 8 years , while working hard at job 10 hours a day until the last 4, Now just taking care of dear mother who is diadnosed as blind, she will be 86 his july, but you would think she is 70. i take great care of and for her, but i need someone for myself, and hopefully someday not for dating. Any thoughtful sugestions would be great. i'm ready to try the dating sceen again. I was almost married before she broke it off after 2 years. Lost my job on a Friday, and lost her on Saturday, She ws cheating on me for a couple weeks and decided to tell me 3 weeks before we were to get married. So i have felt broken down for last 10 years, and am very causious now. i'm the nicest man you will meet.

2007-06-16 06:52:05 · 1 answers · asked by kjokergo11 3 in Singles & Dating

kep, so i'm 18 and 5'8. i currently weigh about 233 lbs, but i hope to be under 200 by the end of the summer. my "goal jeans" are size 15 levis (i found the size ran small when i bought them because i was fitting perfectly into a pair of size 14s by another brand). do you think i can achieve this goal...and more importantly, do you think that size 15 at 5'8" would look proportional. i have a hormone disorder that makes it hard for me to lose weight, but my goal is to look like something smaller than a beluga whale. any advice?? what size should i aim for if size 15 is too large?

2007-06-16 06:50:58 · 14 answers · asked by *autumn*rustle* 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok yes i am gay... If you dont want to read this do not... but i need someones advice.. ok theres this boy we've been good friends for the past 2 years... But i have this wierd feeling in me that this guy is like a little different than a straight type of guy... im not sure if i should like mabey ask him..... Or should i not!!!!!

2007-06-16 06:49:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He manages to spend it all every month and is also in debt for a few thousand. He lives in a small rent free home, owned by the family . I have tried and tried to get through to him that he really should save some money now that he has few obligations, and pay his debts asap to avoid interest charges etc. Now his long-term girlfriend is getting fed up with his attitude. They are thinking of living together, having a future together, but she is dismayed by his attitude to money. It's always 'I'll start saving one day, now I just want to enjoy spending my own money" She, in the meantime is doing her best to save for their future! Any advice ? (He's in his late twenties and insists that he sees his future with this girl, but tells us both to stop nagging.)

2007-06-16 06:49:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Assuming you're not in love with this person. You're not friends either.

2007-06-16 06:48:52 · 22 answers · asked by an 1 in Singles & Dating

be jealous becuase I shared a tent with another guy? He's dissapointed that I didn't respect him? But I am of the belief that men and women can have many types of relationships. I didn't hide it from him, and I don't feel that I did anything wrong. The guy was a stranger, who I sort of became friends with, but within the realms of a mutual people to people relationship. How do I tell him to calm down, and trust me? I think it's because he's been hurt before. This is really screwing up our relationship. Please comment...

2007-06-16 06:48:06 · 5 answers · asked by little lump in my throat 1 in Singles & Dating

and im i have not done anything wtih him ( so no hes married dont cheat speeches please ! ) - anyways, like ive ben taling to him on the phone and thats it. well he always says he " might be able to hang out saturday " like the last 3 weekends. i jjust wanted to hang as friends. well every time he ditches then i find out the next week he says ' I couldnt go my wife insisted on going with me to home deopt or whatever so i coudlnt get away" well hes done it again 4th weekend in the row saying he ' MIGHT ' come over sunday. i wrote him real nice like i dont care and said that : basically id made other plans for sunday and dont want to hang out cause i dont want to get him in trouble with his wife. thats basically all i said even though i feel like reaming him a new A hole. he has a lot of nerve thinking im around on the back burner. im desprate right now at a time in my life where im desprate and thats y i even bother talking to him - i have no other freinds right now and going

2007-06-16 06:48:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

kep, so i'm 18 and 5'8. i currently weigh about 233 lbs, but i hope to be under 200 by the end of the summer. my "goal jeans" are size 15 levis (i found the size ran small when i bought them because i was fitting perfectly into a pair of size 14s by another brand). do you think i can achieve this goal...and more importantly, do you think that size 15 at 5'8" would look proportional. i have a hormone disorder that makes it hard for me to lose weight, but my goal is to look like something smaller than a beluga whale. any advice?? what size should i aim for if size 15 is too large?

2007-06-16 06:47:30 · 11 answers · asked by *autumn*rustle* 3 in Singles & Dating