Family & Relationships - 16 June 2007

about 10 yrs ago my bf was on a swimming outing with his friends, so i said its ok you can go. coz my parents wont let me go with him only and its a night swimming. i didnt know that there are also girls there that are flirty. a friend told me that one of the girls who have a crush on him kissed him and i dont know what happened next. it really bugs me back then. Now were married for 9 yrs and then suddenly they have a communication, she's been calling him on his phone(i dont know y?) he just told me that shes asking for help if she can find a job here. My gosh way back then we just argue evryday bcoz of that incident, then suddenly now shes been contacting him. what should i do? any advice?

2007-06-16 03:35:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I went to the markt and i can not see babys for sale i see babys with thier parents only

2007-06-16 03:35:02 · 3 answers · asked by sawy75 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i bought my fiance 2 nighties last xmas, one was black and an xmas one is red and white. she hasnt worn them yet. do girlfriends and wives not wear these for their men?

2007-06-16 03:34:36 · 18 answers · asked by bobmelweber 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-16 03:34:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is wrong with africa , why do they have to go through what they are going through ? why is africa the poorest continet in the world, why does africa serve as a tool to enrich other nations and yet still impooveriched, why are african been deceived and and used in cruel way. does any one have ideal ?

2007-06-16 03:34:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My female friend, who I am attracted to, recently was sitting in the backseat of my car. I had some spare clothes in my backseat because I was going hiking the following day and bring extra incase of weather changes. They had been worn before but were still clean. She went through my clothes and I asked her what she was doing and she replied she was looking for a shirt to take. So, she picked out a Fender t-shirt and stuffed it into her purse haha.

I was wondering what this implies...is this something I should see as just a 'friend' action or something that could mean her feelings run deeper then just friends.

2007-06-16 03:31:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend an I are into trying new things, we want ideas of games, ideas or things to try in the bedroom to spice things up
without being really raunchy!
give me some good fun ideas, some can be naughty but nothing gross or like way weird!

2007-06-16 03:27:47 · 9 answers · asked by sparklechic2010 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm very handsome, distinguished looking, well groomed . and very, very clean. I am short (for a man) Nowadays, it's very hard to find a woman who's attracted to a short man. What's up??

2007-06-16 03:25:26 · 16 answers · asked by chris b 1 in Singles & Dating

please help i want to read a poem at my wedding next month anyone know where i can get anice one from?

2007-06-16 03:20:21 · 17 answers · asked by laura2911792001 1 in Weddings

2007-06-16 03:19:23 · 7 answers · asked by pola 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-16 03:19:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do women like to have sex. or do it very from person to person

2007-06-16 03:09:30 · 6 answers · asked by taz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

months..tell me if this is normal...should ihave to beg my husband to watch our child when i need to clean the house, or cook, or even take a bath basically if i want to do anything i have to bag him to watch our child....he would complain about how he already watch the child...when in fact he didn't watch the baby the baby was sleep and as soon as he wakes up he gives him to me. last night i had to clean the house with the baby strapped to me because he wanted to watch boxing and play his xbox. and he doesn't like to clean up everything is dirty and will stay that way unless i do it..but i have a baby and don't seem to have time to clean because my baby is woke most of the time now...and my husband expects me to cook, clean and do everything i need to do for my child and don't get me wrong i love my child and would do anything for him but am i wrong for needing some asstiance around the house. he works but **** i feel i need a lilltle help...normal or not

2007-06-16 03:05:48 · 11 answers · asked by Babygurl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am planning a anniversary in December and I need some food suggestions and anniversary cake suggestion.I would like to make my own cake.I really do not want a pure white cake.I want some color added to it.Food suggestions for party would be helpful also.

2007-06-16 02:51:12 · 4 answers · asked by shadowmonkeyblue 3 in Weddings

Love

2007-06-16 02:50:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for 1 year and 6 months. I cut my self leaving four lacerations (I did recieve medical treatment) on my left arm. I'm only 17. I think I'm lost, does anyone know what to do?

2007-06-16 02:48:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was living a happy life until my grandmother I lived with died I am very upset now and dont understand how something so precious can be takin without any signs

2007-06-16 02:44:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-16 02:38:08 · 18 answers · asked by geet2222 s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-16 02:35:03 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please don't get graffic - but what about it do you regret? Your age? Who you were with? etc.

2007-06-16 02:34:45 · 5 answers · asked by J C 2 in Singles & Dating

Say that you really love somebody, tries everything to go out with her (or him), and the result is not simply than she does not care more or less about you. Very frustrating, isn't it?

2007-06-16 02:34:11 · 14 answers · asked by jojorockman 2 in Singles & Dating

i know a social worker/therapist who treated my husband and i then myself and now my husband we are now filing for divorce friends tell me this is wrong it's called conflict of interest true or false.

2007-06-16 02:32:41 · 2 answers · asked by Lynda C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend, who for the past 6 months has been telling me he loves me and wants to get married and that he is 100% sure just decided he doesn't know what he wants out of life. Told me he is confused and didn't come home last night. What the hell am I supposed to think? We are not kids, I am 26 and he is 35...We both have children. What is he thinking?

2007-06-16 02:10:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think that if more couples went to counseling over infidelity and made more efforts to make the marriage work that the divorce rate would be lower? I know I'm making a lot of assumptions here, but I have a reason for asking.

I see a lot of questions on here about suspicions a wife or husband has about their spouse, and the majority of responses say, "Divorce him/her!"

Why are we so quick to divorce when a marriage CAN be saved from infidelity?

2007-06-16 02:10:39 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm about to turn 34 & never had a gf & a virgin. I've told women I knew that I wanted to have a relationship with them, and I get the "I don't feel the chemistry". Now I'm very angry & bitter toward women. I've read things about why women don't find guys like me sexy. One is, we have no life outside of wanting to be with them. And yes, I NEED love and a woman to make me feel attractive, important, and so on. Other than that there isn't too much I care about. In my ideal relationship, both our worlds would revolve around each other. I'm very insecure and would never tire of the constant attention. I would love to have someone's world revolve around me, so I don't know why they wouldn't want the same from me. Also, they complain guys like me haven't "lived" very much. I have very little life experience compared to most guys my age. I always preferred to stay home and watch tv, play video games. But to me that means I'm innocent. And how could that be a bad thing?

2007-06-16 02:02:19 · 27 answers · asked by egocentric_loner 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 02:00:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have a very friendly relationship and I thought he was really cool ,excatly like what I always dream of but things changed when he walked in with his wife,what now?

2007-06-16 01:59:57 · 32 answers · asked by yooooha_mastenger 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-16 01:59:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 01:53:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my parents have their 20th wedding anniversery coming up and I really want to do something special for them. But I'm completel stumped for ideas. The problem is I can't think of anything material that they would really like. Ideally I want to do something like pay to have them go away to a spa, or fly to greece or surprise them with a nice meal. The only problem there is that I'm a thouroughly broke University student, so money is a bit of an issue, and anyway its never a guarantee that they would both not be working on their anniversery, and would be willing/able to take the time off for a trip. If I were home I could do the whole thing of cooking them a really nice meal or something but I will be away at Uni when their real anniversary rolls around so no dice there. And I would fall back on the recourse of making them something but that stops being cute after about 13.
Anyway, if anyone has any ideas at all, please share them, it's much appreciated. Thanks in advance.

2007-06-16 01:47:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings