We have been dating for 1 year and 6 months. I cut my self leaving four lacerations (I did recieve medical treatment) on my left arm. I'm only 17. I think I'm lost, does anyone know what to do?
2007-06-16 02:48:59 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm sorry man. But 1st of all you need to make sure that she did you have to ask her unless you know what you seen. Dont just be insecure and jump to conclusions you had to have witnessed 1st hand that she wasnt cheating on you. You didnt really give enough information for me to really give you advice. But look at your options assuming she did cheat on you. Either you can stay with her and love her just the same but then your sending the message to her that she can cheat and be forgivin for it leaving nothing to stop her from doing it again. Or your other option is to tell her you love her but you cant be with someone who isn't faithful just because you caught her doesnt mean its the 1st time. She could have been unfaithful since the moment you started dating her and unfortunately some people are like that. But dont let it make you insecure. Personally i think that if your sure she cheated then you need to break up with her. Cheating is never okay if she did it once shes done it more then once and will keep doing it. If you keep her around dont be suprised when it happends again.
2007-06-16 02:58:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mr1NCR3D1BL3 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stop hurting yourseil because she cheated it's not worth u doing any damage to ur self. She's not the only girl when u found out she cheated the first thing u should have done was to cut off the relationship not cut ur arm or any other part of your body.
That only makes u look foolish, u say ur lost well find ur self and move on to a girl who will not cheat on u. And if this should happen again in the future NEVER cut and or harm to yourself again just end the relationship. Because u don't have to put up with anyone cheating on u
U do know that whenever u do things like cut ur self or any other harm to yourself when u hurt over something u can be put away. If ur put away because u handle things by hurting yourself it makes it hard for u to heal and go out and met other girls.
She's a fool for cheating on u knowing how u must feel about her but since she did that means she didn't take ur relationship as dear and serious as u did so she's not worth the blood u lost.
Ur young and u shouldn't be doing this to yourself because u will met other girls. Beside if she knows u did tis to yourself it could scare her and she may blab to others what u did and u will be the talk of the town and u don't want people looking and pointing at u when they see u.
So the next time your hurt go talk with someone who may be of help.
God Bless and Good Luck
2007-06-16 03:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did cutting yourself accomplish? Medical bills for your parents?
Honey, this is a part of growing up, I'm sorry to say, and you have to learn to deal with these things maturely. This isn't the last girl you'll ever date. This probably isn't the last girl who will cheat on you, either. In life, you'll run across all kinds of people. Some are going to hurt you. Some will let you down. You'll become a deeper person because of it.
For now, just let yourself feel the pain and know that it won't last forever.
2007-06-16 02:59:49 · answer #3 · answered by Laura 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. First, don't physically harm your self (or anyone else) over a silly thing like that. I'm not saying that its easy, its not. But you are young and those things happen less frequently as you get older. Talk to her about it. If she doesn't want to, you may need to move on. Its hard but its part of life.
2007-06-16 03:07:59 · answer #4 · answered by Click 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I am really sorry to hear about your gf betraying you. I know you must care about her very much, and it hurts to know she did that to you. You need to move, on as much as it hurts to hear that. Why would you want to be with someone who did that to you. That means they can do it again. She had to have considered you right before she cheated. Thats a girl whos not worth your time. Your a good person and dont waste your time on someone that can betray you like that. Lifes to short and it will go on. Trust me I am going through a rough situation right now too.
2007-06-16 02:59:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey. she want always be your girlfriend you are so young.
don't hurt your self because of someone like that. People will always come and go in your life time and when they go let them only your true friends will be the ones to stay.
2007-06-16 02:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by panda 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
self inflicted pain isnt the way to go..trust me.I KNOW from experience...if she cheated and u were in love then maybe it wasntmeant to be..there are plenty people out there..
2007-06-16 02:52:33 · answer #7 · answered by ann 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a *****, I'm sorry. Girls just suck sometimes. You need to get passed her, she isn't good for you. Just hang in there things will get better.
2007-06-16 03:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by hollywoodundeadluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well to start stop punishing yourself! I'm sure you will find someone else soon enough.
2007-06-16 02:59:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she isn't worth it...forget about her...and make sure she sees you hanging out with another girl...she'll go crazy!!!never trust her again!there is plenty more fish in the sea...:) take care honey!
2007-06-16 02:58:12 · answer #10 · answered by lily s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋