Family & Relationships - 16 June 2007

How can the lady on tv tell so much about ppl on that MATCH MAKING show?
She just told one guy he's gay and she might be right.
She told one guy he was in love with a twinky. Right.

I'm 42 and never found anyone I would really keep in my life. I did date one guy for a year and a half, but he couldn't hold a job. Didn't own a car. Pitiful. But he looked good!

There have been others, but not the quality I'm looking for.
I have never found a guy who held a job that paid much more than minimum wage or else they quit a lot.

I couldn't keep them if we couldn't afford to make a decent living together.

Have I just had a string of bad luck with men or is it getting more like that since good jobs and good men are tough to come by?

What advice would the tv lady tell me?

2007-06-16 20:30:21 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend that is getting abused physically by her boyfriend. They get in a argument, then he hits her, and then he makes up for it by saying he loves her and by buying her things. The 3 cycles of abuse.
He's now saying he wants to marry her and have kids with her. I know the abuse is likely to get worse then better.
So my question is can a man who hits a woman ever change.

2007-06-16 20:25:25 · 6 answers · asked by Rhett butler 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-16 20:21:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

**This isn't a joke, Im being for real. Please help!*

My friend and this girl went to this old small building. It has a small bottom floor, and one top floor. It is a very very old building. (It is an old train place or something, and we found news papers and documents from the 40's in there before.) So anyways, they went up there and had sex on the top floor... As I mentioned the building was very old. The floor fell through and both of them were killed.

My friends girlfriend was devistated when she found out he was dead... And it became even worse when she found out that he was having sex with another girl when it happened. *We are all ages 14 - 16.) They were together 2 years, 2 days after this accident happened they would of been together for 3 years. I dont know how she can live with him gone, and espically since she found out he was having sex with another girl when it happened. I cant even begin to imagine it.

So what are some things that I could do to help her? Thanks.

2007-06-16 20:20:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't understand this. Why? If you like him back, why do you do this? Is it to test his heart?

2007-06-16 20:18:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 5'10 and my girlfriend is 5'7 and she always makes fun of my height . I asked a lot of girls and they all said that i'm short . I never considered myself short so this is very weird because i'm taller than a lot of guys and none of my male friends ever made fun of my height . Am i really short ?

2007-06-16 20:16:01 · 16 answers · asked by the_only_one 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband. He works his butt off for me and the kids.
I stay home and watch the kids. We have 3 teen girls.
I feel that my marriage is boring, but I don't want a divorce. I love my husband too much. I have tried talking to him about this, but it always ends up in an argument.
I was just want more excitement in my life, and NO cheating is out of the question.
Thanks for the help!

2007-06-16 20:12:06 · 16 answers · asked by ILuvTJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Real fist fighting... this happen to me the other day

2007-06-16 20:12:06 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just having fun, lets see the most stage place someone has shared a first kiss.....I'm a BK parking lot LOL

2007-06-16 20:11:54 · 11 answers · asked by fighterworldwarplanes 2 in Singles & Dating

i've been telling my friends and people on myspace i dont even know these people on myspace but some girls on there hurt my feelings i tell them how i feel about my boyfriend. i love him with my whole heart they say disrespectful things about him whitch really makes me mad they think hes going to hurt me or hes not good enough for me they don't even know how he really is

2007-06-16 20:03:07 · 11 answers · asked by snookie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 19:58:01 · 17 answers · asked by anjan m 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend of 6 years just broke up and I'm finding it hard to get over him. He was my world and he hit me from left field with the breakup. We have gone through stuff like this before, and in a month or whenever we were back together, but this kinda seems final and shady from my point of view. I need some help from people that have went through this experience. Most of what I think about is him and I need him to stop running through my brain!

2007-06-16 19:51:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm dating this guy and i guess you could say we have been
"hooking up" but i was wondering if there are like any spots or places that can make him have the goose bumps or make him feel good without just touching his penis. Any ideas?

2007-06-16 19:49:14 · 12 answers · asked by Heather 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 19:47:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i need to know because i dont think i love him nomore he dont make me happy and i feel like its somebody else for me out there waiting on me

2007-06-16 19:43:26 · 12 answers · asked by hylinda h 1 in Singles & Dating

on my bottom lip

im the white kid

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2007-06-16 19:41:29 · 4 answers · asked by Zachary T 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 19:37:18 · 19 answers · asked by Misha 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 19:14:14 · 7 answers · asked by sonalirawal 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-16 19:13:27 · 5 answers · asked by grisha 1 in Friends

he a real social person, likes to go out to clubs, bars. Basically he loves to dance and have a good time,and its been two weeks in a row and I havent said a thing about it yet. I really don’t have a problem with him going out, I want him to enjoy him self. but is that bad?

2007-06-16 19:12:15 · 9 answers · asked by britt-britt 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 19:11:00 · 3 answers · asked by ? 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Just wondering.. would you wait for him if your boyfriend went to jail for 2 years. why or why not?

2007-06-16 19:07:34 · 13 answers · asked by starryeyed 5 in Singles & Dating

at my job there is this guy who is 20 and i think i like him. i am 17 and i know it sounds weird but i mean when i am older a 3 year age difference wont even matter. right? i really got a strong connection from him and i don't know what to do. and i am not like most 17 year olds i act like a 40 year old. i need advice on what to do. as soon as i saw him i felt like i was attracted to him in a strong way. help me please

2007-06-16 19:05:30 · 12 answers · asked by wintennis91 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 19:02:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 19:02:12 · 6 answers · asked by CHICAGO 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex is trying to deduct the cost of keeping me on his medical insurance during our now 2.5 year seperation from the settlement proceedings. Is this even legal in CA especially when it took him a year to even file seperation papers and another 1.5 years to get to the settlement paperwork? Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thanks in advance

2007-06-16 18:55:54 · 2 answers · asked by leo_leora 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I had to go out of town for work and my wife had an "emotional"affair. I found out about it. We started to work things out and I had to go back out of town for work.
When I get back home she is cold, unaffectionate, and doesn't want anything to do with me. She says her "fling" is over, but I have my doubts.
Now she wants a divorce and to take our three children (ages 8, 6, & 2) away from me. I have never been abusive or would never think to strike my wife or kids. If she leaves and takes the kids, I will be devastated. I really love my wife and our children. She says she loves me but is not in love with me. what does that mean? What do I do next?

2007-06-16 18:53:53 · 9 answers · asked by harticat 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do you tell your parents to F*** off when you want to go do something? and they wont let you cuz they dont know the people but their your friends? im 16 and they dont let me do anything! i hate it... i just want to walk away and do my own thing. how do i tell them to let me be..

2007-06-16 18:53:02 · 8 answers · asked by ilove you 1 in Family

well you see i like this girl and im nearly positive she likes me back i just need a little help because im her friend too. so if i ask her out and its a no would it ruin our friendship and if it does how would i get her back (you only have to answer part of this) or all

2007-06-16 18:49:12 · 14 answers · asked by lordofthebooks95 2 in Singles & Dating

A 35 yr old man wants to date me I know him from around, he has dated alot of women he has a good job which allows him a pretty good life. but my red flag is that he says it has been six years since his last relationship. IS THAT STRANGE OR WHAT IS POSSIBLY UP WITH THAT??

2007-06-16 18:47:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating