need help with girl?

Question

well you see i like this girl and im nearly positive she likes me back i just need a little help because im her friend too. so if i ask her out and its a no would it ruin our friendship and if it does how would i get her back (you only have to answer part of this) or all

Answer 1

Ask her out but don't make it seem like a date if you are worried she'll say no. Friends often go out in a group or in two's so don't make it a big deal. This way if she says no, you won't feel bad and you can ask again some time later on. Tell her there is this really great movie you want to see and if she would be willing to see it with you. It does not have to be the movies but I'm sure you get the idea.

Answer 2

if you are her friend, how well do you know her? because some friends don't like to go out with friends,when they know alot about each other, that is what ruins friendships, but at the same time, when you are together or if you get together,you end up being the persons best friend anyway.so if you really like her ask her out ,if she says she only cares for you just as a friend. then you'll know ..

Answer 3

it wouldnt ruin a friendship if you asked. it is just curiosity, not something that would kill a relationship.
win her back?.....well, you would have to prove that you only wanted her back as a friend and your intentions were entirely honorable. AKA: dont go overboard buying her flowers or candy to prove that you are the greatest friend in the world. just show her what a good friend you can be by treating her like a FRIEND.
i hope this wasnt too confusing!
best of luck!!!
:)

Answer 4

well, i'm a girl, and i almost did the same thing you did. i mean, i didn't ask the guy out, but my situation was somewhat like your's. the guy i like, is one of my best friends. and because we are such good friends, even after i told him i like him, he still kept the friendship there. and he told my friend that he doesn't want it to be awkward with us because i'm really one of his best friends also. so, if she's a good enough friend of your's. like, really good. and she cares about your friendship as much as you think she does, if it's a no, she will STILL keep the friendship there and not let things get awkward. just remember, no matter what, don't let things get awkward. it will hurt 10 times more. talk to her normally. just don't get awkward. it'll hurt you, and it'll hurt her.

Answer 5

Dont do it trust me once you actually get together it wont be as fun and you wont have that bond you had as a friend anymore. Itll be kind of weird being around her. Email me at [e-mail] and tell me which choice you pick

Answer 6

tell her how you feel and act normal be yourself. Who knows she could be secretly liking you too...............If I were you take your chance because you 'll never know what will happen. You should tell her before its too late and you might regret everything if you don't tell her right away. If she can't accept your feelings apologize. Tell her you can't help yourself but love(or like) her. You just want to be honest with her right? Go for it. You could do it.

Answer 7

just try and talk to her and see if you can trick her into talking with you about you.or talk to some of her close friends just don't make it seem like a date,but if your positive she likes you why don't you try asking her out for coffee and take it on from there.but hey it's your life :~}

Answer 8

you can't tell no matter how much you think you know.. you don't. it happened to me. i asked her out and the whole friendship went out the door. wait for her to ask you out unless if your willing to lose the friendship.

Answer 9

Ask her out and talk to her about how if you break up you will promise to be friends after. I did that with my ex and we are still great friends.

Answer 10

Just get a date with her.....and break the touch barrier. Let her know you're interested, but don't just come out and say it!