Family & Relationships - 16 June 2007

there's this one guy, we met last christmas at my church
and then he was always fooling off, and everything
and we talked, and he took my hat and made me chase him and everything
but when christmas ended he stopped coming for a while
then he came back, and we barely talked or even made eye contact, but we texted a lot and talked on myspace,
then we had a 'lock-in' at my church, something that my youth group does occasionaly, he was there
so, it was after praise and service and he was like to me 'come here' and i did, he tried lifting me for some reason, and girl was like 'stop flirting' he blushed a little, and talked to me for a while and left
now all we do is say 'hi' have a small conversation and he leaves
so does he like me?


he's also 3 years older than me,
but im not sure...haha
does the age change the fact if he likes me?

2007-06-16 08:57:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

peacefully, getting hit by a car? whatever you want

2007-06-16 08:56:38 · 26 answers · asked by Breenee 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 08:55:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm getting hard ons when I'm treating attractive black girls. I do not get hard ons with white girls. I'm a married OB/GYN. I have been practicing for 13 yrs and my practice is in an afluent white neighbor. So I only have 4 black patients. I have always treated white women only for 12 yrs, because 99.99% of the residents there are white. In the last year i have my first 4 black patients. I get turned on when i look at them. I'm 41 yrs. I want to refer them to other doctors because it's the right thing to do as their doctor but i fear that i may be labelled as a racist. I can not tell them the real reasons why i do not want to treat them any more...

Doctors are supposed to stop treating and refer to other doctors patients that they are attracted to. How you think i will be labelled a racist for referring them to other doctors?

2007-06-16 08:51:10 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

someone sarcastically says "wow, nice comeback"

2007-06-16 08:49:37 · 8 answers · asked by charley 3 in Friends

would you rather ;put on your tracksuit bottom.s and watch t. v .or put your fav .underwere on .and hit the town .

2007-06-16 08:48:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy im in love with shows the signs he likes me. He even gave me a nickname and gets mad @ his friends if they call me that. Im not sure he likes me even though his friends say he does because when my friends of I ask he says no. Sometimes, in class our eyes meet and he used to look away, but now he just looks into my eyes and smiles at me. He stares usually until we have to do something and when we play sports (im a tomboy) he plays on the opposing team on purpose so he can block me. Next thursday is the last day of school and i heard he might ask me out but im not sure. Does he like me or not? Should I ask him out if he doesnt ask me? COnfused!!

2007-06-16 08:47:11 · 11 answers · asked by #10♥Eli Manning....my hero☺ 2 in Singles & Dating

I heard a saying that you'll only have one great love in this life time. Granted that there's such a thing like one great love and luckily you've found it but your dear bestfriend who has a weak heart ( one major heart ache can cause his/her life) felt about this with the same person and losing this person would mean death to your friend, would you give up that person, knowing you'll never have this kind of love again?

P.S.

The feeling of the person (your one great love) is not an issue here, the decision only lies on you. Being with this person would mean killing your dear friend.

One great love or a dear friends Life?

2007-06-16 08:46:22 · 7 answers · asked by Rein 2 in Friends

I am 25 years old, and still a virgin. I have yet to fall in love, or meet a woman I feel that I can trust, yet. I have been interested in what a woman’s reaction would be, and how she would deal with the situation.

2007-06-16 08:44:58 · 46 answers · asked by Shredder 2 in Singles & Dating

When someone tries to give what has been a pretty turbulent relationship another chance for the sake of their young child, does it more than often work out or not? If there is some sort of affection between the mother and father but the basis of the reunion is for the well being of the kid, can the relationship last in the long term?

2007-06-16 08:43:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I happened to drop by my sisters yesterday. She had an issue with a maitnence problem and wanted some company while waiting for the contractor to arrive. Well..shortly after he does show. Seemed like a nice guy. A lil old for me though. My sister is in her late 30's and is married. Not soon after he arrived somehow he& my sister struck up a conversation. In fact one of his first questions was if she was married. She says "yeh" but then goes on with "unhappily." I was taken back, because although it is true, this guy just met her. He went on to tell her that he is divorced w/ kids and at times dates. He even told her she was "A good lookin' woman." I dont want my sister to get hurt, she has been through alot. Next thing I hear is he is wondering if she would have a "friend" on the side and proceeded to give her his #. She is my sister and best friend. I am afraid he is wanting one thing only and she is at least hoping he sees more than that. How can I help her understand?

2007-06-16 08:34:52 · 12 answers · asked by italianprincess 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i work in a call centre and she is a C.A.
my salary is around 30 to 40 thousand her salary is 2 lacks a month.
i am 30 she is 35 she is elder to me by 5 years.
we had an affair for the past 3years. i love her she also loves me.
her reason to break off was: she doesn't see this working out to be a successful realation hence for the better of the two she decided to call it off now. we saw a movie in the morning everything was absolutely fine all of a sudden she came to my office in the eve and called it off.she is very ambitious.. career oriented.focoused. i am not as intelegent and as focoused as she is. we both gel very well. yes , we do fight but we resolve as well. i am all alone and in debts as well she was helping me to come out of as well.. but then all of a sudden she decided to walk off. i have become a complete zombie.

2007-06-16 08:34:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

a wht grl? i heard once you go black you don't go back...tell me why that is...

2007-06-16 08:28:06 · 12 answers · asked by sxclilwhtgrl 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to know if guys like to be chased by a girl, or prefer to be the hunters instead of the hunted. Men only please, I want to know so I'll know what to do when I like a guy (currently free from that right now).

2007-06-16 08:28:03 · 17 answers · asked by Star Gazer 88 3 in Singles & Dating

on YA from american women married to muslims, especially moroccans. We've decided it would be best for us to be married in Morocco. I'm curious did you have a moroccan wedding, an american wedding or a mixture. I'm not talking about the legal part of it, but the celebration part of it. Details are appreciated and might give me some good ideas. Thanks in advance for your answers.

2007-06-16 08:23:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

do you feel anything when you give O . Sex to a girl.

2007-06-16 08:22:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 08:22:01 · 9 answers · asked by hUMOR*mE 2 in Singles & Dating

i was talking to this guy for a couple of months and we never made it official and he treated me real good, out of nowhere he just stopped giving me as much attention. seemed like he just started to drift away. he claimed it was bcuz he was a lil depressed. i got suspicious about it and i went through his phone and found out he was talking to some other girl. i got upset and he got mad at me bcuz I went through his phone and we stopped talking. lately we have been e-mailing back and forth i do miss his company and i dont know what to do. he's told me he miss me and i know i wasnt his girlfriend since we never made it official but he did say i was the only one he was talkin to. he lied.when i was with him we didnt really have chemistry but i really did like him and wanted to work on it. i really miss him alot lately. He owns a club, he asked for my help, so I'm going to go bartend for him in a few weeks.what should I do. I want him back..but I don't even know if he wants me back? HELP!!

2007-06-16 08:15:55 · 4 answers · asked by Lady1234 2 in Singles & Dating

Im dating this bi guy, and he tells me he loves me and he would cross oceans/rivers/lakes for me. I sorta believe him and all. I mean I love him with all my heart and everything its just I have some doubts because on Myspace I sent him several messages and he hasnt wrote back Ive seen him get on so its not like he hasnt been on to message me back or anything. Ive told him to change his single to in a relationship many times but he hasnt done so. Oh and one of his friends that is a girl told me that he talks to her whenever shes on myspace so they talk while he never messages/comments me. What should I do? What should I think?

2007-06-16 08:10:18 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

confused about my best friend. She wants to hang out with me but I don't feel like it anymore. she prank called me last summer trying to get me to tell the truth about my boyfriend at the time but know he's my ex. my best friend call me up at my boyfriends ( my ex now) and said she was at her house hanging with my other friend. But I actually found out she was at my my boyfriends ( my ex now). They were asking me how I really felt about him. But when this happend I was going through the monthly girl thing ( period) so I was not thinking stright. should I still be friends with her or what should I tell her what can I do now? please help me.

2007-06-16 08:08:12 · 2 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

this is a question about age i am 19 an this girl that is only 17 likes me and wants to get together but she is under age so i want a little advice about this i dont think that i want to mailny becouse se is under age but i would like to get some advice

2007-06-16 08:05:34 · 13 answers · asked by jobuff_88 1 in Singles & Dating

I have found that in the last year I ve been having sexual fantasizing about ONLY white guys. In my life i had never found them sexually attractive. DO you think there is something wrong with me? Do I need to see a doctor? I seriously mean this. i'm not being funny at all.

The sexual fantasies are becoming stronger & stronger & more frequent. I'm married. I fear that I may act on them with the this hot white man I work with.

I spoke to my best friend about it & she think it's my curious about a white man. My friend says i should "just do it" with work mate(he's attracted to me) to satisfy my fantasies. This is crazy but i spoke to him(my co-worker).He said when i'm ready he will sleep with me to see if he lives up to my fantasies.

These fantasies are affecting my sexual life with my husband. Am I sick? I have not yet acted on them but I'm being consumed by them...Recently it has been my co-worker in my fantasies BUT before it was different white men I meet e.g my doctor

2007-06-16 08:05:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i had been eyeing this sweet looking girl in my class for sometime now.I also knew she was extremely choosy and cautious about dating and boys. I tried making friends with her, talk to her, ask her questions ,tell her things etc.she would answer in monosyllables and everytime it was me who had to start the conversation.one year of trying and I got so frustrated with myself , to add to this one of my friends told me that her friend said that I was certainly not her types. so I teased her ,threw stuff at her and passed mean comments at her in the class.she got put off and told me she hates me. but I can't forget her, now she won't even believe me if I tell her I like her.help

2007-06-16 08:00:16 · 11 answers · asked by Nicholas J 1 in Singles & Dating

thanx to every 1 that s answering my questions and if yall have answers and want to im me thats fine too. thnx

2007-06-16 07:59:52 · 7 answers · asked by Alex 1 in Singles & Dating

I told a girl how I felt about her a few days ago. Up until last week, one of my mates was joking around with her and said that we should just sleep together and she admitted that she really likes me alot, but knew that I wasn't the type of guy to which sex meant nothing. She sent me a message saying that I'm the most "wonderful guy" she's ever met but that she can't break up with her on/off boyfriend. I was taking the rejection well until I found out that everyone knew she'd been back with him for weeks. Now I feel like an absolute idiot but the signals are still there and the things she says to others and me led me to believe she was available and attracted to me. Do you think she enjoys leading me on? I think she is a genuinely nice person but doesn't know what she wants or is scared to act on her true feelings. Why would she get back with him yet continue to express her interest in me? I'm completely lost and blind to how her mind might be working. Any ideas?

2007-06-16 07:51:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this summer i'm going to work out my abs, biceps, and shoulder muscles. not TOO much like veins popping out everywhere or anything but still will it look bad?

2007-06-16 07:49:24 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 07:47:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 07:45:33 · 21 answers · asked by Tommy C 1 in Friends

i see him and email him so distance won't work

2007-06-16 07:45:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my daughters childern are being raised by my ex-son
in law he has remarried now we are having trouble trying to see them because of her

2007-06-16 07:43:31 · 7 answers · asked by eileen n 1 in Marriage & Divorce