i was talking to this guy for a couple of months and we never made it official and he treated me real good, out of nowhere he just stopped giving me as much attention. seemed like he just started to drift away. he claimed it was bcuz he was a lil depressed. i got suspicious about it and i went through his phone and found out he was talking to some other girl. i got upset and he got mad at me bcuz I went through his phone and we stopped talking. lately we have been e-mailing back and forth i do miss his company and i dont know what to do. he's told me he miss me and i know i wasnt his girlfriend since we never made it official but he did say i was the only one he was talkin to. he lied.when i was with him we didnt really have chemistry but i really did like him and wanted to work on it. i really miss him alot lately. He owns a club, he asked for my help, so I'm going to go bartend for him in a few weeks.what should I do. I want him back..but I don't even know if he wants me back? HELP!!
2007-06-16 08:15:55 · 4 answers · asked by Lady1234 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its just the fact that he lied to me and that hurt the most
2007-06-16 08:27:11 · update #1
he did say just that, that he "misses my company" ... whats the difference between missing me and missing my company?
2007-06-16 08:35:54 · update #2
Put on the Breaks sister. Take it easy, if you want this guy first thing you are going to have to establish is a solid freindship with him. Build a foundation of trust and continuity. Take a breath and make and effort to distract your self from him. When you bartend there let him see how you shine amongst all the other women there. Be curtious for goodness sake avoid flirting with him. Stop checkiing his phone and when you get onto MYSPACE, and see him on it, give it a few minutes and then sign off. Don't send him any more emails unless it's a response and respond late. The less you pay him attention the more curious he will become.
Best of Luck Lil Sister
2007-06-16 08:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by Goodie66 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he just misses your company, It seems that he was not ready for a relationship or your would have made it official the first time around. You do have some trust issue's and maybe that could be a problem for an open relationship which is what your had. If you do get involved with him again just make sure that no strings and feelings get attached. and just have fun!
2007-06-16 15:29:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've been 'hooked' by a 'playa' who will reel you in and play you out until you get tired, hurt, or suicidal.
I suggest you RUN, not walk, to wherever there are decent men who won't consider lies as sweet talk.
By the way, he may have played you simply to get you to tend bar for him. Nothing keeps a barmaid on time and smiling better than a crush on the Boss.
2007-06-16 15:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have trust issues, and that isn't healthy for any relationship. I suggest letting him go.
2007-06-16 15:23:41 · answer #4 · answered by twin3rd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋