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there's this one guy, we met last christmas at my church
and then he was always fooling off, and everything
and we talked, and he took my hat and made me chase him and everything
but when christmas ended he stopped coming for a while
then he came back, and we barely talked or even made eye contact, but we texted a lot and talked on myspace,
then we had a 'lock-in' at my church, something that my youth group does occasionaly, he was there
so, it was after praise and service and he was like to me 'come here' and i did, he tried lifting me for some reason, and girl was like 'stop flirting' he blushed a little, and talked to me for a while and left
now all we do is say 'hi' have a small conversation and he leaves
so does he like me?


he's also 3 years older than me,
but im not sure...haha
does the age change the fact if he likes me?

2007-06-16 08:57:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

23 answers

No, he doesn't like you, he is just amusing himself with attention from you.

Go to the library instead of church once in a while; I hear there are better guys there.

2007-06-16 09:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0 0

Maybe, but a boy that meets you at church is going to be more careful. He may have realized that the lifting/flirting thing was leading to a place he didn't want to go with you or with anyone 3 years younger.

Either he doesn't like you that way or he's waiting for you to grow up some and for his feelings to be clarified.

Don't ask him how he feels about you. (Grown men married for years can hardly answer that question!) Don't wait for him to come around or do outrageous things to attract him. If he comes to you more seriously later, great; in the meantime, keep looking.

2007-06-16 09:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Sarah C 6 · 0 0

Maybe. First, you need to find out whether he's really flirtatious. He could be an extreme womanizer. Also, how many ex-girlfriends does he have? Does he do the same things to other girls that he does to you? And I don't mean to make matters worse, but maybe he just thinks of you as a booty-call, if you know what I mean. Also, maybe he's really shy. Perhaps he's the type of guy who is a bit unsure of himself and prefers to have the girl make the first move. Or he might think that he himself has already made it obvious that he likes you, and he's waiting for some sign of love from you. I mean, instead of waiting for him to come to you, you should come to him.

2007-06-16 09:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by Joselyn 3 · 0 0

Age might matter, if you're under 18. It does sound like he's interested in you, but maybe the age thing scares him. You should text him or message him on myspace and say you've missed hearing from him. What he says next will let you know.

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2016-10-09 08:27:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Just wait and see what happens. He obviously has some types of feelings towards u. The age thing really shouldn't matter if u both like each other, that shouldn't stand in ur way of your possible relationship.

2007-06-16 09:02:10 · answer #6 · answered by :) 5 · 0 0

I think he likes you.
He is probably embarrassed, or lacks confidence and maturity. You need to wait for him to grow up a little bit, he is acting like an adolescent.
Or, maybe he IS an adolescent.
In that case, it doesn't matter if he "likes" you because what are you going to do, get married?????????????
Yeah, I know you want somebody to like you and you feel like a crush, and you wish you could call somebody your bf....but really, at your age it isn't going anywhere, so don't stress about it.

2007-06-16 09:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by greengo 7 · 0 0

It sounds to me like maybe he does like you, but some guys can be kind of dense so if you really want to know, just ask him. He may not realize you like him. It seems scary but really, what is the worst that can happen? You may be embarrassed for a couple of days but embarrassed temporarily isn't as bad as regret for a lifetime.

2007-06-16 09:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

if you ask me yea he does like you, but maybe he is confused about how you would react or maybe he is seeing some one else so he might just want to be calm with you!! but by the way he sounds and the way he acts with you yea i think he does...the only way you are going to find out is by asking him out for a drink, a walk or even asking him what is going on wih the two of you...only time will tell..

2007-06-16 09:02:34 · answer #9 · answered by laura p 2 · 0 0

once i've heard that age is just a number and it doesnt matter or break a relationship.. anyway.. he might like you or else he wouldnt have blushed.. maybe he thinks you dont like him and is trying to get over you right now y not talking to u that much..

2007-06-16 09:04:26 · answer #10 · answered by Sandii<33 2 · 0 0

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