I am 25 years old, and still a virgin. I have yet to fall in love, or meet a woman I feel that I can trust, yet. I have been interested in what a woman’s reaction would be, and how she would deal with the situation.
2007-06-16 08:44:58 · 46 answers · asked by Shredder 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Very surprised for a start, but also impressed. There's no specific age by which people should stop being virgins, and the fact that you are still one shows that you're a very sensitive, genuine, level-headed type of man. There is a woman out there for you somewhere and when you find her she'll be everything you want her to be.
2007-06-16 09:20:43 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ Divine ♥ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with being a virgin. Unusual and suprising, but not wrong.
If she is the sort of girl you would want to spend your life with, she should be pleased that you are choosy, and she should be supportive, gentle and considerate in return.
If she laughed, she's an insensitive cow and don't waste your time on the ****.
I waited till I was 22, I just wish I'd had a lot less partners after I DID lose it.
2007-06-16 08:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Subic 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you are a virgin. I am a Christian, and I believe you should wait until you are married. So if you tell someone you are a virgin because of your convictions, they should respect that, or than you probably shouldn't be with a shallow person who wouldn't. Now, if you are a virgin because you can't get laid. I think that they may think there is something wrong with you. Anyone can have sex. I mean, you can pick up a prostitute or find someone at a low scale bar if you really wanted to do that. So, I'm assuming you are waiting for marriage, or you are waiting to be in a relationship where you want to feel emotions behind it.
2007-06-16 08:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
It should make no difference to anyone how long a person chooses to remain a virgin as there is nothing difficult in learning how to enjoy a sexual relationship with a partner.
Your problem lies in another area - men and women will wonder why you are still a virgin, whether or not you are a closet queen, whether or not you have enough interest in a sexual relationship anyway.
The most important parts of a relationship is to show interest in your partner, give them your personal attention, to put your partner at ease in your company, let your partner know they are special to you, and definitely not to say "eugh" when your partner discusses aspects of sexual intimacy with you.
2007-06-16 08:56:07 · answer #4 · answered by Roger R 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think women generally think they'd like a virgin but really that's a lot of perceived pressure or unnecessary effort to most. Personally, I think it's refreshing cuz it seems guys are looking for just sex these days. I would be happy to date a virgin cuz I would have the opportunity to develop a real relationship/rapport w/you and there wouldn't be the regular pressure to sleep w/you in 3 dates or less.
All the best...
2007-06-16 08:54:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy but let me make an obervation....
There was a time in my life when I was a virgin time and time again.. I used the story in an effort to make myself more appealing to a woman....
I think a lot of women will believe you are a virign and some will only think you are just saying it.... to invite sex.
If you are truly a virgin, don't bother telling women... but when you meet that one woman you want to marry, then it's ok to confess that you are so looking forward to giving her your virginty....
I am thankful that my deceit was short lived.... I quickly grew up and changed my opinion. But heck I was only 18 then. Now I really am a man....
2007-06-16 08:52:09 · answer #6 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that is awesome! That tells us that you will not just sleep around with anyone. Now that I'm single I get worried how many people someone has been with and how many their partners have been with. So I would LOVe to meet a virgin. Make it short... It is a good thing
2007-06-16 09:54:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy that he's not a man whore. Don't give in into the stereotypes that a man cannot be a virgin. That shows that you have morals and that you are one of the few good men that are left out there in the world.
Will you marry me lol j/k
Most women would probably be happy to teach you but I think it's better to wait for a woman that you truly love.
Good luck
2007-06-16 08:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by . 3 · 10⤊ 0⤋
I say your doing right by waiting for the right one. I know a guy who is 24 and is a virgin. It's good that he has waited. Just months ago he met the right woman for him. And plans on marrying her. She isn't a virgin. And respects and doesn't mind him being one.
2007-06-16 08:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sunset 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well when i meet my husband he was a virgin amd he was also 25 years old and every thing worked out for us. just don't be 40 hahahaha
2007-06-16 08:51:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋