i work in a call centre and she is a C.A.
my salary is around 30 to 40 thousand her salary is 2 lacks a month.
i am 30 she is 35 she is elder to me by 5 years.
we had an affair for the past 3years. i love her she also loves me.
her reason to break off was: she doesn't see this working out to be a successful realation hence for the better of the two she decided to call it off now. we saw a movie in the morning everything was absolutely fine all of a sudden she came to my office in the eve and called it off.she is very ambitious.. career oriented.focoused. i am not as intelegent and as focoused as she is. we both gel very well. yes , we do fight but we resolve as well. i am all alone and in debts as well she was helping me to come out of as well.. but then all of a sudden she decided to walk off. i have become a complete zombie.
2007-06-16 08:34:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry. When us girls just 'suddenly' break something off, it means we've been thinking about it for awhile and letting it stew before we got the guts to tell you. She thinks you're a good guy and has a high opinion of you..
But us girls look for the future. "Is this someone I can picture myself with for the rest of my life"
If not, fights, resentment, everything else builds up.
She's gone I think.
2007-06-24 07:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be 35, but understands more than you want to believe. She didn't just "suddenly" decide to end it, she'd been thinking about it for quite some time. How do I know? Because I know women enough to know they mull things over until it drives them crazy, especially someone as obviously mature as she is. You two had a good run, now let it go. You have debts, take care of them, she is not, and should never have been a pocketbook, so step up and move on.
2007-06-24 03:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to this. If you really love someone, let it free, if it goes and never is back was never really yours. Try new activities, new places, make yourself up, open to relations with other girls meanwhile, that can even make you stronger when she is back, if she is back. U can say to her, I am with someone I love now, that does not mean you do not move my heart around, it means to be, you have to wait a while, and I am not totally sure it will happen, It just a maybe.
2007-06-24 13:07:40 · answer #3 · answered by Jesús Ernesto Miguel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesnt sound like she "loves" you to me! And please dont think she (or anybody for that matter) is smarter or anything else...get some self-esteem and confidence about yourself. Anyway, I think youre way too old to be so hung up on someone who obviously isnt that into you. Sounds like she may have used you if all you have left after her is debt. Suck it up and turn the page to the next chapter.
2007-06-23 22:44:55 · answer #4 · answered by Debbie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Matters of the heart are really tough.....Sometimes you can love with all your heart and they choose to walk away....you are left in love all by yourself..It hurts I know...Let her go for now, in giving her space you are doing her and yourself a favor...Use the time to know yourself again...You owe it to yourself`...TO BE HAPPY WITH YOU...You sound like such a great guy...know that again....If you two are meant to be it will happen, if your not...well that means there is someone out there more amazing for you....Stay focused and happy..you'll be fine.....
2007-06-24 12:49:24 · answer #5 · answered by petitentan 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but she has flown the coup my friend. Move on. She will not return to you.
2007-06-17 02:38:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋