Family & Relationships - 16 June 2007

Ok my boyfriend and i were dating at the time that he was sent to jail for a parole violation (dui) and we cant see eachother cuz im under 18 and my mom HATES!!!!!!!! him and he says that i can mess around on him but we are engaged, and i dont want to and he hasnt been able to send me any letters or he hasnt wanted to so what should i do (we have been dating for 2 years and 7 months and 3 weeks)

2007-06-16 18:00:59 · 9 answers · asked by Coles_Mommy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 17:58:27 · 14 answers · asked by kkmarie_RJAluver 1 in Singles & Dating

Walmart has endured some bad press lately, but Walmart has changed the very course of my life (for the better!)

I was estranged from my father 5 years when I got a job where he worked: Walmart. As he was walking past my jewelry counter, he said, "Hello" and I replied "Hi, Daddy" and my boss was in shock he was my dad. She immediately sent me on a break and insisted I eat lunch with him. We began our reconciliation that day.
Another way Walmart has changed my life: I met my husband over the jewelry counter! I remember reaching across and shaking his hand, and his father's hand.
Tell me your wonderful Walmart story...

2007-06-16 17:56:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do you like do when you have sex? I know the basics but what do you like...standing up laying down?

2007-06-16 17:53:59 · 15 answers · asked by lexi l 1 in Singles & Dating

I am 19 years old, i'm going to be a junior in college next year and my sister is 16 and is going to be a junior in high school. She is so spoiled! Since my parents are well off when it comes to money, they don't care if she spends a lot. They let her shop at Abercrombie all the time with their money. They let her talk them into letting her buy or do whatever she wants. She makes friends with everyone and buys her friends gifts with my parents money. I told my dad to give her a fixed amount of money per week and let her do anything she wants with that money but he said no because he thinks there shouldn't be "separation of money" between parents and their kids.

What should I do!!! I rarely spend my parents money on my wants. I spend my own money on clothes, other things that I don't need. And my parents are being pushed over by my sister and they let her do what she wants and she doesn't even help much in the house. HELP!!! I wanna show her that money is not free.

2007-06-16 17:51:42 · 4 answers · asked by RockiesFan 2 in Family

Regular contact past 3 plus years since bus trip to her city. Says all business related - she & her husband work in diff field. Contact is by sms, email & cell phone between them. All messages r deleted. Call registers r deleted. He got a separate phone. I picked up some calls by mistake and noticed contact id was listed as Lv1. Question was answered that this was business client. Recognised her number and spoke to him about it. He denied this. Since changed the contact details of this Lv1 contact to read a legitimate business number contact - but I still had the previous one. Got out all phone bills for that phone & matched to her number. Showed him. He is very sorry he lied but still insists it is / was nothing. Have told him I don't want any further contact with her or her husband - he has now started misplacing his phone, leaving it in his car or at his office.

Am concerned but am I wrong?

Keeps apologising for lying.

What does Lv1 mean - looks like Love One

2007-06-16 17:50:56 · 7 answers · asked by Susan 1 in Friends

like in the mid 20s and early 30s, they are becoming older and unattractive because of their age.

2007-06-16 17:49:06 · 6 answers · asked by Peter 4 in Singles & Dating

My freshman year i told myself that i would not have sex untill i was out of high school because i dont feel like right now in high school having sex is best so i want to wait till i am at least in college and more mature. My b/f since freshman year is saying he is going to end our relationship if we dont have sex. What should i do?

2007-06-16 17:44:47 · 23 answers · asked by southern belle <3 4 in Singles & Dating

i would like to know if i turn on any of you girls, dont think im weird its just to see where im at so please ladies give me a straight answer:

I have honey brown eyes
black brownish hair
im not all muscle but im more on the muscle side i play on my schools football team so im pretty big, im 5'11 inches tall and weigh 198ibs. i dont have a 6 pack yet, more of a 4 pack for now, im working on it, have had 3 girlfriends in the past, but had to break up with all of them, i love to wrestle, im on the wrestling team also, im really into sports, and im a bit cocky, i think my relationships were bad with my GF becuase of my *********, idk that might turn some girls on, what do you think is the problem?
Only girls no guys, if your a guy and you answer that makes you gay so dont answer if your a guy!

2007-06-16 17:42:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I can never go to the bathroom without having my 4 yr. old, 18 mo. old, AND CAT follow me in there. I swear there must be one of those chimes go off in their head whenever I walk through the bathroom door! Why is that?

2007-06-16 17:42:01 · 5 answers · asked by Amber 2 in Family

Whenever I'm meeting new people or doing something as simple as ordering food, I feel the urge to play the nice guy and act really respectful. I can't help it, it's automatic. Since I actually am friendly I get along with everybody. But this nice guy thing is killing my opportunities to flirt. Is this something I should be trying to change?

2007-06-16 17:39:39 · 7 answers · asked by Matt 1 in Singles & Dating

i am having a 15 in September 20,2008 and i was wondering what color would be appropied for my damas in that occasion
also my mom and i are having a hard time were to start
we already have the hall and catering done but we need the rest and if you have any ideas for a theam please let me know
i also want to now what happens in the church and what order does the party go in also i was wondering like what decorations i can have

please help conntact me on: shofys@juno.com (for email)

THANK YOU

2007-06-16 17:38:07 · 4 answers · asked by sofia 2 in Weddings

I LIKE GUYS

but i french kissed my friend
i didnt exactly like it that much

i just wanted to know how to kiss because ive never kissed a guy... i guess it was just me experimenting and seeing what its like to kiss someone

but the girl who kissed like sat on top of me and it was a bit wierd

am i a lesbian or bi sexual

and do guys find it hot?? why??

2007-06-16 17:34:15 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not sure what to do here. I found out a few months ago that my husband has been masturbating to internet porn at least a few times a week. Now, this wouldn't normally bother me except for the fact that we now have NO sex life. I'm lucky if I get it once a month - it's that bad. I confronted him last night about it - and he was thoroughly embarassed...he thought I had no clue. He told me that men are visual and look at porn women as objects. There is no emotional attachment. Just a stress reliever. Additionally, he told me he was bored with our sex life. We were each other's firsts as well, and he told me he was curious about being with other women. I am extremely nervous about this. I tried to play it cool and understanding, but my mind is spinning out of control. We have a very loving relationship outside of this issue. He truly is a wonderful husband otherwise. I'm not sure where to go from here. Any ideas?

2007-06-16 17:33:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After 20 years he tells me that someday he will have a GF that will be bothered by the fact that he is freinds with me....we dated for 6 years, 5 years ago....

Is there something going on between his ears that I'm not guessing.....

I'm feeling kind of shocked at a loss for words about it

2007-06-16 17:32:53 · 3 answers · asked by freshbliss 6 in Friends

We have been together for 17 long, beautiful months now and i don't think i can live w/o her, honestly. After graduation i want to take her to hawaii, but w/a christian family when is it acceptable to ask for her hand in marriage. when we go to hawaii, or sumtime after? Am i too young to even be talking about rings even?

2007-06-16 17:28:57 · 27 answers · asked by blue collar 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-16 17:27:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

so what was that thing that she did and everyone said it wasnt like to do that and then some guy said something!

it really bugging me!

2007-06-16 17:26:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

"i hate you i hate you!" and kind of growls and grunts....... in the morning i ask her and she has no recollection... should i be worried?

2007-06-16 17:22:13 · 7 answers · asked by bust15nutz 3 in Singles & Dating

like how to do things down there... or positions?
i feel sorta like a perv searching the web..i dont know what to put in the search tab.. any ideas or sites to recommend....please email me websites cuz i think its against TOS...

2007-06-16 17:20:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Help I’m a married Christian woman of 5yr. my husband and I are currently separated because of his selfish ways to start my husband has been unfaithful in our marriage he is local pastor/elder it hurt so badly. All I do is think about why me…what cause this I feel that I keep myself up to part mind body and soul I look the same when he married me. With that it cause so much anger and not able to trust him that one day I found out that he was cheating again with out thinking I flip out I push him to the wall he call the cops and I left to go to my mother when I return back he pack up all his clothing and left me and our 3 kids I was so shock and hurt … what do I do no money nothing with 3 small babies lord it hurt with that I ask him later why did you depart from the house he said this to me you will found someone who will love and treat you better then me…… what the hell I said with that I try to move on with my life I try to talk to guys online from time to time to take my mind o

2007-06-16 17:18:31 · 8 answers · asked by LadyKai 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-16 17:18:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In a way that she will actually be able to understand.

2007-06-16 17:03:37 · 14 answers · asked by princesstanty2000 2 in Family

I'm just wondering
A) if you have been?
and
B) what age you are....

Because y'know, if your 11 thats different than if your 31 - - and enquiring minds want to know....

Feel free to provide an explaination....

I just read the answers to another post and it kind of blew me away...so now I'm curious

2007-06-16 16:58:22 · 11 answers · asked by freshbliss 6 in Singles & Dating

Alright I've basically had it. I'm really tired of getting my heart broken, and feeling used, and I'm also tired of the drama that seems to surround my love life. Any ideas on how to minimize drama and to lead a happy healthy life without constantly worrying about boys/ romance?

2007-06-16 16:56:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u look someone in the eyes for 5 seconds can u fall in love with them???
tell me what u think

2007-06-16 16:48:34 · 33 answers · asked by Swan. 2 in Singles & Dating

I hv a question why do mens beat on women my mom always told me if he beat on you then he don't care I hv a friend her man beat on her and her mom and he have her hook on drugs why do you think he do this if he suppose to lv her?

2007-06-16 16:48:31 · 17 answers · asked by Lady J 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this guy but when ever I talk to him I get really shy and nervous because I am afraid he wont like me and he thinks that means I am not intrested. So how can I be less nervous when I am around him.

2007-06-16 16:47:25 · 10 answers · asked by shepp959 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-16 16:46:29 · 23 answers · asked by anne 5 in Singles & Dating

im 15, i like guys at school and ive never hooked up, but i slept over at my friends house and we pashed like alot and she sat ontop of me,
i got up in the morning and i dont know...could i be a lesbian??

2007-06-16 16:42:08 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating