like how to do things down there... or positions?
i feel sorta like a perv searching the web..i dont know what to put in the search tab.. any ideas or sites to recommend....please email me websites cuz i think its against TOS...
2007-06-16 17:20:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i want him to learn new things cuz i do all the work...i rarely ever get mine...he needs to learn how to eat...lol
2007-06-16 17:29:57 · update #1
he knows about how i feel & what i want...he just doesnt know how...& i cant show him,
2007-06-17 11:36:41 · update #2
I know it seems a little embarrassing, but tell him what you want. Or buy books, toys, videos for you to do as a couple. This will make it a little easier and little less embarrassing for him. I've got a website, I'll message it to you.
2007-06-16 17:26:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Down there?" If you can't say it, how are ya gonna ask for it?
Have you talked to him about this? Have you said "Sweety-poo, I love you so much and I'd just be so happy if you went down on me until I started babbling!"
Are you involving him in this, or are you just gonna hit him over the head with it?
First things first. Can you tell him what you want? A little of this, a little of that, a little more ot the left... If you aren't comfortable telling him exactly what you want, then you are as much a part of the unsatisfactory equation as he is! Nothing he learns is gonna help you!
OK, so you have no problem asking for what you want. Is he happy? Do he want to study the Kama Sutra?
You and he need to have a hear to to heart. Preferably with small amount of alcohol to get the conversation lubricated. This is a together project, not a "he needs to do this" kind of thing. Be gentle, be supportive, and highly praise the things he does well. Don't make him feel like he's the porblem or he really will be. Say you overheard two women talking about (pick something) and it made you curious. Has he ever heard of it or done it? That might be a decent approach. Just don't make him think he isn't satisfying you. Male egos are such fragile things, and if they get shattered, woe to the woman that does it!
Good luck!
2007-06-17 00:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by suz665 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your husband to try different things you have to teach him different things. Why not buy some hot oil and nice bubble bath, Give him a hot bath and a nice rub down to relax him and after he's relaxed proceed with what you want from him. He'll probably be so surprised that he will accept anything that you do. Start working from the bottom and ease your way up, It should take about 30 minutes and by then you will be sitting on his face. Please remember to take it slow. If he resists after that then put on a Chastity belt for about a week. Remember a good relationship starts at home. Stand up and be strong .
2007-06-17 00:32:56 · answer #3 · answered by Tom Thumb 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
buy him a prostitue or buy him a book called Kama Sutra in any bookstore. Books a Million or Barnes N' Noble sells this book and it shows sexual positions. Tell him that you want to experiment and pleasure him like he has never known and that will get him intrigued and want to do the same to you. Just don't tell him Hey You Suck In Bed You Need Help that would make him have a limp noodle for life.
2007-06-17 00:25:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I'm not sure about websites, but pretty much every issue of Cosmopolitan magazine is very helpful. They have tons of articles that men can benefit from reading in that area and vice versa.
2007-06-17 00:24:28 · answer #5 · answered by Kori spelled backwards is Irok 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the KARMA SUTRA
or something like that
isnt it some book, with all sex posititions
you can buy it in like book stores or something
it has like cartoons and stuff
2007-06-17 00:23:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.Tell monkey boy to wake up and smell the coffee. What the hell did you marry him for if he can't smell the coffee when its perking in the pot? Your fault not his.
2007-06-17 00:27:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd recommend the book "Joy of Sex"
http://www.amazon.com/New-Joy-Sex/dp/0671778595
2007-06-17 00:24:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Check out Adam&Eve.com. they have video sex manuals for sale.
2007-06-17 00:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you both can rent a movie a hot one or spell out what you want on your p/c and you will get it
2007-06-17 00:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋