am i a lesbian?

Question

I LIKE GUYS

but i french kissed my friend
i didnt exactly like it that much

i just wanted to know how to kiss because ive never kissed a guy... i guess it was just me experimenting and seeing what its like to kiss someone

but the girl who kissed like sat on top of me and it was a bit wierd

am i a lesbian or bi sexual

and do guys find it hot?? why??

BTW----------- im 15

Answer 1

if your 50 - not hot

if your 18 - hot

Your 15?! You are too young to do these things!

Answer 2

unfornately most young people do things because its cool, or perr pressure, well i believe that you are an individual and you are entitled to do as you wish but you will find out the right from wrong, if being sraight was wrong then you would never be here and rest assured being gay/lesbian is wrong becsause if it were right then God would create Adam and Eve, he would have created Adam and Steve if you get my drift, wether guys enjoy it or not is not important, is it what you want thats a difference, you must really love and experience life with someone before deciding wether sexuality has a bearing on your likes and dislikes. see how confusing the topic can get....now you need to decide what would you want, you are still young beautiful and wonderful dont rush into anything just enjoy life and take care...

Answer 3

~You are NOT a lesbian and you are NOT bi sexual. I think you and your friend talked about this and it turned into a kiss. It's easy to take things too far when you're so YOUNG. Besides, you like guys.
If men find it hot for a 15 year old girl to be kissing another girl, they need serious help.
Sex isn't everything, focus on other things kids do.~

Answer 4

it doesn't make you a lesbian or bisexual because you didn't do anything with her but kissed her to learn how to kiss. and you felt weird about it too. if you don't have feeling for her or any other women then your not a lesbian or bisexual. now if you like both women and guys then your bisexual and kissing doesn't make you a lesbian at all. it was just a experiment and nothing more. some guys might find it hot were others don't find it hot. your not a lesbian at all.

Answer 5

No it doesn't make you a lesbian or bisexual, just curious. I ask a guy friend why guys find girl on girl action hot and he said because if a guy finds one girl hot, then two is just double the heat. Men like visual stimulation. I guess it is just a guy thing. I may find looking at a hunk with a six pack abs appealing, but I wouldn't find guy on guy action a turn on.

Answer 6

When I was 13-15 we used to have slumber parties. About 10 girls, lotsa junk fod, music, and then we would practice kissing. None of us were gay (as far as I know, ) but it was great practice in kissing!! Then , when I had my first boyfriend when I was 161/2, I kinda knew what I was doing. Harmless fun. No, that does not make you a lesbian. :)

Answer 7

Well i think if you were a lesbian, you would know. So you kissed a girl? big deal a few of my friends are completely 100% straight and sometimes they kiss some of out friends. guys find it hot, its a turn on to them dno y tho it makes me sick when i see boys kissing:| haha but thats guys for you. but even if u realise u r a lesbian then thats who u r and u shouldnt question it :)

Answer 8

Isn't this question posed somewhere else? I just saw this question from another 15 year old. No you are not a lesbian and I would recommend taking a sex ed class or get the book Hooking Up by Amber Madison.

Answer 9

Maybe the girl who sat on top of you when you kissed is a lesbian. Just because she might be, doesn't mean you necessarily are, though.

I think you might be bi-curious, but I could never say whether or not you are gay, based on the little you've shared here.

Most men are excited by the sight of two beautiful women making love, particularly when they feel welcome to participate, but that certainly doesn't mean you have to do it, particularly if it felt weird french-kissing your friend.

Answer 10

oh my god, no way,my dear, its natural to experiment and be curious, but don't be sucked into that gay and lesbian thing, the TV makes it look cool, and makes it look like the in thing,well its not, your a girl, be a girl, don't worry about silly stuff like that. i wouldn't go around telling everybody you do this, its nothing to be proud of, but your , OK. your normal, so don't rush into all that kissing and sex stuff, go slow and enjoy being a kid. take it very slow