Regular contact past 3 plus years since bus trip to her city. Says all business related - she & her husband work in diff field. Contact is by sms, email & cell phone between them. All messages r deleted. Call registers r deleted. He got a separate phone. I picked up some calls by mistake and noticed contact id was listed as Lv1. Question was answered that this was business client. Recognised her number and spoke to him about it. He denied this. Since changed the contact details of this Lv1 contact to read a legitimate business number contact - but I still had the previous one. Got out all phone bills for that phone & matched to her number. Showed him. He is very sorry he lied but still insists it is / was nothing. Have told him I don't want any further contact with her or her husband - he has now started misplacing his phone, leaving it in his car or at his office.
Am concerned but am I wrong?
Keeps apologising for lying.
What does Lv1 mean - looks like Love One
2007-06-16 17:50:56 · 7 answers · asked by Susan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Marriage is based on mutual trust, for what ever reason, you no longer trust your husband. I think a little jealousy is good in a marriage because it lets the other know you care,but obsessive jealousy is not healthy. I'm not suggesting you are obsessive at all. I think you and your husband have issues that you should seek the help of a marriage councillor. I couldn't help feeling though that you may be approaching this wrong, so you aren't getting the right answers. why not present him with your interpretation of the evidence you have discovered, and don't ask for explanations, ask him to convince you that you are wrong.
2007-06-17 02:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The future of your family is precisely why you shouldn't let this go. Bring the phone bill and have a very serious conversation with him. Don't jump straight to accusation, but point out that surely if this woman is going through such a "difficult time," there must be something you as a mutual friend can do to help her. The fact that he's not willing to keep you in the loop and the fact that your child needs you to be a united, supportive, loving team is reason to put your foot down.
2016-05-17 14:51:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Love 1 that's what I see too. Yes he has been committing infidelity. I would say it is me or the phone, which do you choose dude? I would also read all his emails, IM's and anything else he does on line. It can be done. You have the right as his wife to know exactly what he is saying and doing with other women. Go to 'On line infidelity' there is a wealth of info about cheaters and what to look for and how to catch them.
2007-06-16 17:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he LIED it had to have been something worth lying about!!!!!
YES be suspicious, be VERY suspicious.
Don't accept anymore apologies, just demand to know the truth until you get it.
2007-06-16 17:54:21 · answer #4 · answered by B.B. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're really insecure. Trust me, you should save yourself the heartache and leave if you're that nosey.
2007-06-16 18:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
he might just wnna keep up with his old gf/friends
2007-06-16 17:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by jim j 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
blunt truth- he's cheating on you. i don't know how else to put it.
2007-06-16 17:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋