2007-06-16 17:27:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
how would you not know?! if you really don't know, then why in the first place you marry her?!
2007-06-17 13:25:08 · answer #1 · answered by Bront L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can know if you are still in love.
My point would be this. Marriage is a long term relationship. This means that there will be times when you are tested and when you feel like the love is gone or at least leaving. This is all a part of marriage (or at least it used to be).
Nothing in life is constant bliss. There is no such thing as a relationship that can keep a constant high level of loving, affection, attraction or whatever you want to call. Sometimes it's so wonderful that you can't hardly stand it. However, sometimes it's not so great.
A marriage should be defined by the fact that two people have made a committment to stay with each other through the good and the bad.
Too often we experience some of the bad and look to get out.....we miss out on the greatest part of marriage. dignity and the ultimate love of knowing that you stayed with your spouse for a lifetime. Not many people in our society will live to feel what that's like.
Many people will say, "If you can't imagine life without them" or "If you get all tingly when you see them". In every marriage there are timea when this just isn't the case. But it doesn't signal that the love is gone or you should just pack up and leave. It just means that two people are living together and it's not always gonna be "happy, skippy running through the daisies" kind of stuff.
I wise man once told me, "The opposite of love is not hate. The opposite of love is indifference."
2007-06-17 00:44:41 · answer #2 · answered by ∞ sky3000 ∞ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people can say they love they spouse, but can they say that they are in love with them. If you know that if anything happens to him and you can't live without him your in love. If every time you make love to him and still get chills you still in love. If just looking at him and reminding yourself why you fell in love with him in the first place you still in love. When he calls you from work and you know your mad at him and he try to talk to you and get you not to be mad and puts a smile on your face you still in love. If he doesn't do any of this well it's time to go your separate ways. Loving someone and being in love with someone is different. You can say you love them and not be in love, because without love there is no reason to be with them.
2007-06-17 00:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love is a choice. Read 1 Cor chpt 13 in the Holy Bible if you want to know what love is.
2007-06-17 01:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you go somewhere and all you can think about is them, or when you just want to go home cuz that is where they are. and if ur not in love with that person you should tell them so that u can know if the feeling is mutual.
2007-06-17 00:33:28 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki M. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you couldn't imagine your life without him.
When he walks into a room and your heart smiles.
When you're a better person because of him.
2007-06-17 00:31:22 · answer #6 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
For one thing you don't treat them badly.
2007-06-17 00:32:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you still get wood for them
2007-06-17 00:35:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
really as yourdelf
2007-06-17 00:36:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only your heart can tell you
2007-06-17 00:37:52 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋