i bought my fiance 2 nighties last xmas, one was black and an xmas one is red and white. she hasnt worn them yet. do girlfriends and wives not wear these for their men?
2007-06-16 03:34:36 · 18 answers · asked by bobmelweber 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I wear silky nighties all the time. I like the way they feel, and since my hubby likes the way I look in them, it is a bonus!!! I also am just as comfortable in a t-shirt and boy shorts etc., and I love the attention that he gives me in anything that I wear.
Some women don't get the reaction from the men that they are looking for. Some women also are too tired to wear them--having been a wife, mom, and employee all day long, and at the end of the day a t-shirt and sweats seem like the most comfortable thing going!!!
Make sure that you admire her, make her feel sexy when she does. Take her shopping with you when you buy one next time, and get her one that SHE likes, her comfort level may not be garter belts and leather (not saying yours is, just that you may have different tastes). Also remember, a lot of women have a complex about a flaw they think they have in thier body--even if it doesn't matter to you--it does to her, letting her help to pick it out will alleviate that for you both. Just remember, show her as much love and affection in t-shirt and sweats, as you do in lacy nighties. Good Luck!!!
2007-06-16 03:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by Austins Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I do (not at the moment because I'm pregnant and the pregnant lingerie is ugly). But not all women feel comfortable. Or maybe she doesn't like the ones that you pick out. Take her shopping with you next time and get an idea of what she likes. She can try them on and model them for you.
I know that there are certain types of lingerie that doesn't look good on me.
Oh, sometimes those stripper heels can really make a difference in how a woman looks in those things. Nothing like a pair of clear 6" stilettos....and yes they are VERY comfortable. I used to wear them all night long on my feet.
2007-06-16 03:42:37 · answer #2 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about most women but I do were them for my man. but the only time I didn't wear them is when I was pregnancy with my children and not until after I lost the baby fat because I didn't think I would look good in them a little over weight. but I know some wear them on only on like birthdays or Anniversary's. so it really depends on the woman.
2007-06-16 05:53:54 · answer #3 · answered by thydarknight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Interesting, I never really thought about what HE should wear. I guess I didn't really care as long as he's clean. LOL. He usually wears PJ pants but ends up sleeping in his boxer briefs most of the time. I think silk PJ pants would be hot or some tight boxer briefs. LOL
2016-05-17 08:06:46 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its funny......... women will complain about not getting affection from their husbands...but they dont seem to connect what a turn on it is for us to see them in that sort of stuff. Sorry, bro... maybe she is uncomfortable wearing them. Next time take her to Victoria's Secret and let her pick out some things. Offer input... have fun in the dressing room... see if maybe she'll wear that stuff more often
2007-06-16 03:38:36 · answer #5 · answered by Aron1968_30 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I LOVE MY SEXY GOWNS! I can't wait for hubby to get home, so I can throw one on and bend ove,r without the underwear, mind you, and give him a show. I have had the best sex after teasing him! Like in the kitchen or bathroom or back porch...only to name a few.
My little chemise barely cover my large breasts and my tail hanging out, gets his motor running! Oh, honey, you have got a frigid girl there. She should want to do this to please you, Lord, she doesn't know what she is missing!
And this, they only come off anyway...Honey it how the package is wrapped that makes the present!
Good luck and God bless....
2007-06-16 04:09:02 · answer #6 · answered by Midnight Winter WOLF 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends, some are very uncomfortable. You should take her and let her pick out what she likes and you can have some input.
My man would rather see me in a tight tank top and short shorts than a nightie
2007-06-16 03:46:02 · answer #7 · answered by glbenner 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think they're fun, especially if I'm not the one buying them! Maybe she's just not comfortable wearing them. I don't know how you could bring up asking her why she doesn't want to wear them without it possibly turning into something more. I think some people just aren't into them as much as other people.
2007-06-16 03:39:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always do
I wear satin nightgowns that are very silky and shiny every night. which my husband loves seeing me wear (I do love how I feel in it) It works well because it is easy to pull it up when we want to have sex.
I feel it's my job to look sexy feminine for my husband
2016-07-14 18:34:35 · answer #9 · answered by Ruth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes women do still wear these for their men. Maybe she doesn't feel comfortable in them. Have you suggested that she go put it on?
2007-06-16 03:40:55 · answer #10 · answered by Trisha 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋