2007-06-16 02:38:08 · 18 answers · asked by geet2222 s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It’s easy then done. You are not the only lady in such situation but I know two more divorced ladies who were in the same situation, one had to leave her daughter who is 16years now with her old widow mother & she herself about 35years got married to a single man who was not prepared to keep her daughter & even tell his parents that she is a divorcee & has a daughter. Her marriage is not sailing smoothly as it should be, but still on for how much time can't say. Second case this American lady married 44 years this Indian man leaving behind her two children girl 16 years & boy 14 years back home in USA again with her old mother in this case too, got married to this single guy, who kept her for only a month or so now filled a divorce case against her. I was helping her for drafting her reply for the divorce petition. These are two cases that I know personally, now take a deep breath & start thinking what you should do now? What you look forward from him? How he will behave regarding your daughter & you after marriage? Keep these two cases in mind before you make any decision.
2007-06-16 03:47:18 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have issues.
You need to get divorced first. Then make sure your daughter is ok with the present situation. You just cannot bring anyone in her life.
When you were alone, you married this man. Now you are not alone anymore.
Loves comes from the heart. What comes from the mouth is just emotions and sexual feelings.
Hope you will not make a mistake of hurting yourself and your innocent daughter again.
2007-06-16 14:38:57 · answer #2 · answered by feysunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both are loving each other you should have talked about the future and married life also talk about your daughter and make sure the safety of your daughter that is the only thing.
2007-06-18 01:17:01 · answer #3 · answered by suja kumari.b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a mom to your daughter. If this guy loves you back, then you will find each other. But getting hung up on some guy who isn't your kids father can have a horrible effect on your kid. So I'd be very careful about your next step.
Keep your daughters needs at the forefront of your mind...
2007-06-16 09:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by Aron1968_30 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first think u have seperated/divorced becauz of urgrudge then what is gurantee that ur this marraige will be successful.
respect the marraige ,spread love,cure ur mind and then ask this question again to urself.
if u get peace of mind then get married.just think of ur daughter also.will u accept the same story if repeated in future.
2007-06-19 05:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by rajeev k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im divorced too, and got 2 daughters, if i remarry again, i only married to the man who really love me and my daughters, not love only me.
so if he accept the fact u got a daughter and he can take care of her like his own, then marry him.
2007-06-16 09:44:06 · answer #6 · answered by moonrider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
asper your information . you are seperated means judicialy seperated.if so you are eligible for second marriage. still lot of questions pending before us. what is your age? your daughter's age. that man's age. and about his family background ,social status, religious aspect etc., if consider positive for all the above querries then you have to think over suitability of the desired marriage. please bear in the mind that if your daughter is minor you must take care about her atleast up to attaining the majority.if you satisfied with this and if you were enjoying the property of your husband that also will take vital role.you first decide it asper law.
please confirm your self that, that man loves you but can you able to respond him properly in all respect. since you are senior in this respect and how you are going to respect the conjugal rights? put all questions before you and find the answer then you decide what to do?
2007-06-17 06:52:28 · answer #7 · answered by civil servant 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The man loves u, he will accept u and I am sure he will also accept your daughter. Talk to him, and I am sure he will accept and u will have a happy married love life.
2007-06-18 02:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by wizard of the East 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are divorced before you go making committal decisions again. Give yourself and your daughter a break from relational drama. Be fair.
2007-06-16 09:44:11 · answer #9 · answered by kyle g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go on dear
u will get love only once
dont miss thiss opportunity
and make ur daughter understand tht how much that guy means to u in ur life
dnt b afraid
everythin will b finednt run from urself and from love
2007-06-16 09:43:27 · answer #10 · answered by Nazar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋