Hi I'm Billy Goose and I think that I am a Gay. I never thought of myself as a Gay before and am not attracted to men. However, I tend to like to watch some movies classified as chick flicks, like to sing Broadway tunes, and don't wear jeans. I tend to wear cotton or woolen slacks. I have been asked if I was a Gay before. I don't know if it was a taunt or if they were serious. Also, when calling call centers I have sometimes been mistaken for a woman. Ah...the curse of a Tenor.
Should I see a MD to be tested to find out whether or not I have the estrogen level of a Gay man? Since, I'm not interested in men is there anything that I can do to correct this?
I have been to the drugstore to look for pain killers but there aren't any over the counter painkillers for psychological pain. I don't want to be a Gay. I am attracted to women.
2007-06-16 07:20:31 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Gay ain't on the exterior dude. Its how u feel inside. Just cuz a guy is maybe feminine acting don't mean he's gay.
If u are attracted to women and not men, then u ain't gay.
2007-06-16 08:44:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're attracted to women, you aren't gay. Congrats. You may want to get your hormone levels checked by a dr. if you are older than 16 and your voice still hasn't changed. They can help. There is no physical thing that can make you be gay. If you like those things (chick flicks, Broadway) that's just your unique personality. About jeans, girls and guys wear jeans, girls and guys wear business slacks. Just wear what you feel comfortable in. Yes, some of these characteristics may make it hard for you to get a girl, but if they can't see past stereotypes, they don't belong with you. Plus, a lot of gay guys have tons of friend girls, so you'll have fun no matter what. Just be yourself, and if you're really worried about it, talk to a doctor. Or make small changes that you are comfortable with, things that really macho guys like doing. Learn how to flirt with girls. (shouldn't be hard since you said you are attracted to them.) Work out. Go on a 'get big' campaign to bulk up and be more attractive to the girls. Use very masculine cologne. Try some sports. (Tennis might be a good fit) Grow some facial hair. I don't know, I've never heard of someone being in this situation before, but I hoped I helped. At least you aren't confused about which sex you prefer. Stick with that, and you'll be fine. I'm sorry about the psychological pain. I want you to know I'm rooting for you! Be happy!
2007-06-16 14:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Jessthemess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to understand that there is a difference between being slightly feminine and actually being gay.
Just because you have different tastes than the stereotypical "manly" guy, doesn't mean anything...
You say that you don't want to be gay. Well, if the reason for this is because you don't think that your family or your friends would accept you because of it... then there is a possibility that you are gay. But if the reason is because you are attracted to women... you can't possibly be gay.
This perceived gender role that you are confused by is simply a product of the culture in which you live. The media portrays men as being tough, strong, rough around the edges, etc.
But the truth is, not everyone is like that, and not everyone is able to fit that part.
Just be yourself and I'm sure you'll be fine...
2007-06-16 14:35:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well your not gay if you don't have sexual attractions toward men. There's nothing wrong with being a little feminine but you need to embrace your differences. Yes some males do have more estrogen than others so you can be checked for that. But it won't change your likes and dislikes. High estrogen in males causes low sex drive and no interest in sex. This is just what my doctor told my hubby. She said he needed to cut down on salts and eat more healthy.be happy with yourself and you'll find the things your looking for.
2007-06-16 14:41:33 · answer #4 · answered by buttercup30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are not attracted to men, well technically, you are not gay, maybe it's just the way you are, who cares if you like to watch chick flicks and don't wear jeans, it doesn't mean anything, and If you were mistaken to be a women, well that happens to everyone now and then. Don't beat yourself up about it. And even if you were gay, there is NOTHING wrong about that, if you are attracted to women, then I see no problem, just keep walking straight and live your life, nobody is perfect.
2007-06-16 14:29:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey relax, You are NOT gay. You are simply and open-minded man that likes certain clothes. Don't let people or circumstances influence your belief that you're on the deep end because you are not. There is no pain to feel, so just take a few deep breathes and look yourself in the mirror and say I am a hot stud and a ladies man.
2007-06-16 14:29:44 · answer #6 · answered by Firebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your not attracted to men, then your not gay. It doesn't matter if you don't wear jeans. That's just personal preference. You may have more estrogen than a majority of guys but that doesn't make you gay.
2007-06-16 14:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by secret 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off to be gay you have to like men... and never stop talking about them... And just cause you like those things doesnt mean your gay... guys like all different types of things and it doesnt matter what you like.... Secondly being gay isnt a choice, Your born with... Were you born with it? If not then your not!!!!!! And if they ask you that again... Tell them that your not gay and that you like pussy not penis!!!!!!!!
2007-06-16 14:27:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude , get a grip on urself and wake up
ur not gay and u should not be attracted to what people say to u , u have to have some self confidence in urself
their is no such proof that u can physicaly b gay by nature , its only thoughts inside peopl's minds and they are affecting you
2007-06-16 14:30:45 · answer #9 · answered by spikydaisy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
LOL...If you are attracted to women then you are not gay...Bi perhaps...
Yes go see a doctor. but make it a psychiatrist.
2007-06-16 14:27:22 · answer #10 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋