He's adorable, funny. smart. cute, and you can talk to him about anything for hours. But he has this opinion... he hates people outside your race. Would you still stay with him?
2007-06-16 07:13:17 · 11 answers · asked by Ting 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm a racial boyfriend, so if he sees you talking to someone outside your race he'll be pissed with you. Why are racial people still in existence?
2007-06-16 07:20:14 · answer #1 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think of it this way. This guy chooses to hate people for no other reason than the color of their skin. How long do you think it will take for him to find a reason to hate someone for choosing the wrong restaurant or type of drink they chose.
Anyone who hates people they do not even know. Is full of hate already and not capable of loving in my opinion.
My advice: There are lots of adorable, funny, smart, cute and easy to talk to men out there. Find one who is not filled with hate. Life will be much better for you once you do.
Good luck
2007-06-16 14:21:23 · answer #2 · answered by Jim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, love is not blind. You can choose who you want to love. And I am glad 'he' is adorable, funny, the works. But there are MILLIONS of boys like that. Go find another. That can't be true love, because he'll never want you to talk to another raced person. Your life would be misrable.
I know it is hard, but do it: break up.
2007-06-16 14:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by marisabf07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
absolutely not... the majority of my friends are outside my race, and if he were racist then he would not be willing to accept most of my friends... that is unacceptable to me. I'm not saying any guy would have to like them or be friends with them too (though that would be nice) but he should at least know how to be cordial and polite. like Jim had said, how long will it take for him to not like things that you do or try to ridicule you for any of your little flaws if he automatically programs himself not to like anyone outside of his race? there are plenty of other guys who have the "adorable, funny, smart, cute" and other qualities who are better for you. if you are racist yourself then you would make a perfect couple, but I am guessing you are not since you chose to ask this question so you don't need that.
2007-06-17 14:13:51 · answer #4 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would piss me off, and I think we'd probably fight over it so much that it wouldn't work.
But on the other hand, if I loved everything else about him, and he wasn't openly racist (that is, he treated others of other races well, and wasn't rude to them in conversation), then I might. With the hopes of changing his racist beliefs probably, though--a lot of people seem to "inherit" racism from their parents, because they're just taught it as they grow up, so it's hard to change, but it could be possible.
I really just don't think the relationship would work out though.
2007-06-16 14:20:23 · answer #5 · answered by Adrian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. But this is me. I have no tolerance for racism and wouldn't date anyone like that. Obviously, you see this issue as a problem. Is it something you can deal with?
2007-06-16 14:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. As long as you are in his race it doesn't effect you... try talking 2 him about y he is like that.
2007-06-16 14:17:29 · answer #7 · answered by Veruca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, i would drop him the minute i found out.
2007-06-16 14:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you want to be with a racist person?
2007-06-16 14:16:47 · answer #9 · answered by NORTHERN PRIDE!!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i wouldn't.
2007-06-16 14:16:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋