Ok yes i am gay... If you dont want to read this do not... but i need someones advice.. ok theres this boy we've been good friends for the past 2 years... But i have this wierd feeling in me that this guy is like a little different than a straight type of guy... im not sure if i should like mabey ask him..... Or should i not!!!!!
2007-06-16 06:49:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly what you mean. I'm bisexual myself so I've been in this situation several times. Sometimes you could just be over reading certain signs because you actually want the guy. Or the guy could actually be hiding "in the closet" and is throwing hints your way so that you would ask. Its hard to say. So maybe you should just ask him. Don't freak him out or anything just ask as a friend. And you've been friends with him for 2 years so waht do you have to lose? Just ask.
2007-06-16 06:55:50 · answer #1 · answered by jacarig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ask. If he's rational, he won't get offended by it.
"i have this wierd feeling in me that this guy is like a little different than a straight type of guy"
You need to understand that there are alot of "individual" types out there. Not everyone fits into a single category. So, you can't just assume that he's not "the straight type". Do you know what I'm saying?
2007-06-16 13:54:22 · answer #2 · answered by LaissezFaire 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are friends it should not be a big deal. Just say " hey are you into guys at all? " and he'll say yes or no, but I caution you as the straight man friend to gay men: They ALL think men are secretly a little bit ( or not so little bit) gay. The same way straight women think gay men must like girls a little. Its so common that it's a joke for us
2007-06-16 13:55:28 · answer #3 · answered by zeroambition 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think first you need to get an idea about how this boy feels about gay people in general. Does he tell anti-gay jokes? Or you could ask general questions to see if he responds in a positive or at least neutral way. My opinion is to proceed slowly. And, Good luck.
2007-06-16 14:02:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some straight guys are just more open and accepting of gay guys than most. Some guys just don't feel that pressure to fit within a certain "norm". It doesn't make them gay, but it does usually make them good friends.
Rather than asking him anything outright, consider opening up about yourself more with him. Trusting your genuine feelings about life with a friend will generally encourange them to entrust their feelings to you as well.
2007-06-16 14:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by Tom K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him open up to you if and when he feels ready. If you ask him and you end up being wrong, it will make for a very awkward situation.
2007-06-16 13:52:39 · answer #6 · answered by manatee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are the same whether male-female, or female-female or male-male. It won't hurt to ask...and at least then you know and aren't going crazy over indecision!!
2007-06-16 13:56:40 · answer #7 · answered by ~♥ Easily Amused Dijinn ♥~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should ike throw out hints or ask other ppl if he is first because u dont wanna make a move then him not be it that would be sooo embarrasing!!
2007-06-16 13:53:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's possible you're getting that feeling because you are attracted to him? Does he know of your sexual Preferences?
2007-06-16 13:54:57 · answer #9 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ask him and he isn't that may change your relationship a little..may make it strange
2007-06-16 13:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋