Family & Relationships - 1 June 2007

What age do you start thinking of marriage
why do you feel the need to get married
when do you pop the question
How do you prepare yourself
How do you know she is the right girl

2007-06-01 04:17:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

After two years of being together,he explains it's not as when we first met. everytime i try to initiate sexual intercourse he claims to be tired or not in the mood. He also says, he's getting old. When i ask if there's someone else, he reasures me that's not the case and that he's just tired or he has moods. it makes me feel that he's borde of me in a sexual way or perhaps he is seeing someone on the side. but i am not sure, cos it's possible that i am parronoid too, as i am also a sensitive person. Otherwise, he's 38 and i am 31, we just got married and the love is definitely still there between us, so any advice from you lovely people out there?

2007-06-01 04:16:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is constantly checking the computer and my myspace and going to every one I knows pages to see what I leave them for a comment.... and just in general whose page I look at.... I do have a lot of guy friends but I have never cheated and never considered cheating and never will cheat on him... I really do love him with all my heart and I wouldn't want to do anything to compromise our relationship.... but all my life I have had more guy friends than girl friends... I have even remained friends with a couple of my ex boyfriends... I see how the ex boyfriends could be a problem... because I realize that I wouldn't want him talkin to his ex... so I have slowly cut that out....He also checks my phone bill to see any numbers he doesn't know and where I made calls from... like what city and so forth... I'm talking to my friends and yea some of them happen to be guys... BUT everyone knows I'm HAPPILY married... is he trying to control me??? Or just start trouble??

2007-06-01 04:16:46 · 16 answers · asked by luvsick143 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Can someone help? I have a Bruno scooter wheelchair that I got from my Mother in law. She only used it a few times before passing away and now we are paying for her burial. The family wants to sell the scooter and put the money towards the burial. Since my husband and I handled the arrangements we have to sell the scooter. Everyone in the family has a different price in mind. I figured someone out there should be able to help us agree on a price.
The scooter is in excellent shape, like brand new. It also has a brand new battery.

2007-06-01 04:14:26 · 4 answers · asked by KennerKitty812 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Dont get me wrong im all for womens rights but i opened the door for a lady the other day and she looked at me as though she wanted to spit on me and didnt say thank you - so my question is this -
does a man being chivalrous offend you?

does it make you feel inferior somehow letting a man help?


My intention was to simply hold the door open for her and had she have been a man i would have held it open anyway.

2007-06-01 04:14:02 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

For the women...Do you consider sex a chore or a joy? And why...

For the men...Do your lovers want sex or do they tend to try to avoid it? And why do you think that?

I'm curious because so many women seem to not enjoy sex, I wonder why??

2007-06-01 04:13:52 · 42 answers · asked by curiously*asking 1 in Singles & Dating

My history teacher just had a baby and is bringing her baby to school in a couple days. I am really close to my spanish teacher because we tell eachother everything and she knows my history teacher so I want her to come with me. I asked her and she said she cant because she doesnt trust her next class to be alone for a couple of minutes. How can I persuade my spanish teacher to come with me?!?

2007-06-01 04:13:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my mom is in home care hospice ta home with me thee are nurses here 24-7 she may go at any time now - my question is this -

should i stay in the same building and get a 1 bd room when she does pass -- this is a not very nice section 8 building in a downtown area - it would be hard to budget it out every month but it could be done - i am on disability for severe migraines and only get 600 a month rent would be 150 or a tiny bit less -

i have a sister and father who also live in the same building
they are both very screwed up he is 78 is a manic depressive that doesnt take any meds for it and is also a compulsive gambler she is 47 and is a very bad drug addict that uses about 100 dollars worth of drugs every day with her one friend that buys it all

i have no real great prospects here but at least i would have my own place and not be at any ones mercy and under their rules and their roof i am 32 and single no children never married

the other choice is to go and live with

2007-06-01 04:13:21 · 6 answers · asked by Medusa 4 in Family

What are the lyrics to Around The World by ATC???

2007-06-01 04:12:17 · 6 answers · asked by $#^@*&$^(% 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-01 04:11:18 · 10 answers · asked by Brezzy 2 in Singles & Dating

After having our first child 4 weeks ago and our 3 year aniversary approaching, my wife would like me to upgrade her .5K diamond with a 1K diamond. Should I do this?

2007-06-01 04:10:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I believe they do it because they are men that woman don't want and because they don't want women to enjoy sex. They are jealous that women enjoy it more than them!

2007-06-01 04:10:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i ran out of money so i borrowed 10 pounds from a guy and he said you have to pay me back 30 pounds or else i asked every one i know but they said no what should i do

2007-06-01 04:09:09 · 10 answers · asked by speedy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-01 04:05:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex split up with me a few mths ago. For about 2 mths after I tried to get her back, told her I wanted to still be with her etc. She resisted all attempts to get back together and didn't want to meet me.

When I rang her 3 wks ago she wouldn't meet up as she said she was seeing someone.

About a wk ago I tried a different approach. I dropped her an e-mail and told her I was fine with things ending, was seeing someone else (I have been but ended it) and would like to stay friends. She called me within a day of reading it. She hadn't called me herself since we broke up.

She didn't mention our relationship. She asked if I was seeing anyone, I said yes. She said that was not seeing anyone. We agreed to meet up for a drink shortly.

Is this a case of now I am acting like I am not interested she is wanting to chase me again or is it about just being friends?? In my experience, staying friends is rare!

How do I play this people? I think I need to be cool? I want her back!

2007-06-01 04:05:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Yesterday, I saw a text message on my boyfriend's phone from some girl who kept asking if he would take her to the movies. She was calling him "sweetie" and telling him things like, "Don't forget about us."Then, another text message said, "I had a great time at the movies...etc." She also sent him another text message saying, 'I'm glad you are happy with your girlfriend.." When I asked him about who the girl was, he told me that she was a friend from school.

This would not have been a huge deal to me if he would have told me he took her to the movies, but he tried to keep it a secret, and that's what's bothering me the most. I don't think he is cheating...BUT I'm keeping an open mind...and the secrecy is not my ideal relationship. We have an "appointment" to talk about this today...but just trying to get some good advice, and see what you all think about this.

Thanks for your insight!

2007-06-01 04:03:23 · 21 answers · asked by Chanel 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok well im 14 and when i was 13 i made a HORRIBLE mistake by going out with this jackbutt lol and we had oral sex. YEAH I know I shouldnt be doing that! I know! And weve been broken up for 4 months maybe now and ever since then hes been telling the whole school and all his friends about what happened and what we did and stuff. And were going to highschool next year and he has an older brother there...and you know he probably already told his brother what happened so they can both harrass me!
Sooo...last night i had a dream that i was somewhere at a table playing cards i think with my friend and my ex and all of his STUPID friends who make hand gestures like oral sex hand gestures...yeah lol... and they sat done on the table and when i saw my ex i did what i always do and roll my eyes and quickly look away. Well i let my friend see this book ( i think i dont really remember) and she was reading it then my ex asked to read it. So he took it. Then he saw me reaching for it since it was

2007-06-01 03:59:41 · 7 answers · asked by coconc93 1 in Friends

2007-06-01 03:54:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is the nicest guy, and his friends talk about hi behind his back, make fun of him and choose him last for their team in sports. It hurts me AND him and I wish he could live a normal life. But no one understands..no one knows how hard it is for him. What can I do?

2007-06-01 03:51:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband is constantly checking the computer and my myspace and going to every one I knows pages to see what I leave them for a comment.... and just in general whose page I look at.... I do have a lot of guy friends but I have never cheated and never considered cheating and never will cheat on him... I really do love him with all my heart and I wouldn't want to do anything to compromise our relationship.... but all my life I have had more guy friends than girl friends... I have even remained friends with a couple of my ex boyfriends... I see how the ex boyfriends could be a problem... because I realize that I wouldn't want him talkin to his ex... so I have slowly cut that out....He also checks my phone bill to see any numbers he doesn't know and where I made calls from... like what city and so forth... I'm talking to my friends and yea some of them happen to be guys... BUT everyone knows I'm HAPPILY married... is he trying to control me??? Or just start trouble??

2007-06-01 03:48:21 · 26 answers · asked by luvsick143 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm friends w/ this girl, who use to know i had a crush on her. i really love her now, but she has a bf, who isn't very supportive of her so she comes to me with her emotional issues. i asked her for advice about this girl i found out likes me. the girl i like said
"go for it, just make sure u aren't involved with anyone else first. It's amazing how much someone can like another person but not be willing to make the move. It's amazing how many people you might be able to get with who you won't get with because you think you have no chance. But actually you do have a chance. Take those chances :)"
then i said what if u like a person who is inv. with someone else, she said "so what if they are in a relationship? maybe they aren't happy. u should at least tell her."
does she know that i am talking about her? what should i do?

2007-06-01 03:47:51 · 7 answers · asked by the w 1 in Singles & Dating

I"m getting married in Oct. I was thinking about the wedding bell favors for our guests. I"m not exactly sure when you give them to the guests and when do they ring them. I know for a kiss, but I don't want to do that cause I think I might get annoyed. I thought it would be nice to do as we leave the church or ?? I need ideas. Oh! and I don't want to give them before the ceremony because there might be children who will ring them during the ceremony.

2007-06-01 03:45:05 · 13 answers · asked by ♥poppy honey♥ 4 in Weddings

what kinda hair style would u consider attractive, long or short?

2007-06-01 03:43:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why do men become unstable when it is time to make a commitment?

2007-06-01 03:42:46 · 25 answers · asked by Donna S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he served me with divorce papers? We have been separated for 5 months - he walked out - and treated me like crap. I tried very hard to save the marriage but he does not want it.
He went to the lawyer to get advice - but when I went to see my lawyer he flew off the handle. He opened up to his friends about separation, but when I did he was very angry again.
And now I am hurt after getting served, so my tone of voice with him is of anger and disgust. He insists that I be friendly with him. WHY DOES THAT MATTER TO HIM?????

We'll be divorced in a few months anyway! Is there something I am not seeing?

2007-06-01 03:40:01 · 8 answers · asked by Centered 4 in Marriage & Divorce

We are looking for a place to go that will marry us on a saturday. Like a justice of the peace sort of deal. I dont know where to begin looking, any suggestions? Thanks for the help!!

2007-06-01 03:37:25 · 24 answers · asked by afireinsidexxx77 3 in Weddings

When breaking up with me, my last girlfriend told me that one of the reasons for the split was that my p3nis was too small for her.

I did ask her if she was happy with our physical relationship, so I sort of opened the door....

so mean!!! so embarrassing....

Is such honesty really necessary? what should I do?

2007-06-01 03:35:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i dont what to do with the girl couse,i stil love her,and my freindy too,i'm desparade guy's,help me,girl opinions accerptade

2007-06-01 03:33:03 · 2 answers · asked by KNOX 2 in Singles & Dating

these answers are not one of them bars-- hospital -- church -- clubs -- internet -- online -- starsbucks -- coffee shops -- beach

2007-06-01 03:31:24 · 24 answers · asked by Effie 2 in Singles & Dating

Are they older or younger?
How do you put up with them- I'm a middle child (age 35) and I can't stand either of mine (a younger sis and an older bro)?
What makes an ideal younger/older brother/sister?

2007-06-01 03:30:26 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships