Family & Relationships - 1 June 2007

Follow up to my questions:

What should i do?
What would you do?

Well, went round his last night ON the condition that he wouldn't try and argue, make sarcastic little comments etc etc. he promised me.

hahaha BIG MISTAKE.......as soon as i got round he was bellowing at me......saying he doesnt believe a thing i say, and he doesn't like the person i am (funny when he's the one that's been like this for the week without giving me a reason) !

When i said 'If you carry on, i'm walking out that door til u calm down' he smashed a glass.......and that just sparked something in me so i hate to admit that i threw one too.....

I have always been a placcid person, calm and compassionate but damn, does this guy bring something out in me i've never felt before.

When i called a taxi he was coming up and shouting and sneering RIGHT in my face, i kept poking him away with my finger to keep him away but he just kept coming closer and was even spitting (not deliberately) on my face

2007-06-01 01:31:45 · 40 answers · asked by Hayley 3 in Singles & Dating

and she thinks you work as a night watchman. but you've been making about five hundred dollars a night and have been saving the money to buy her a new house.

2007-06-01 01:27:27 · 26 answers · asked by Gary M 5 in Marriage & Divorce

About 18 months ago, my cousin (who I grew up with closely) got engaged, and asked me to be one of her bridesmaids. I obviously said yes, l was honored to. Today she told me that she has become very close friends with one of her workmates (who she's worked with for a year), and that she's like her to take my place! I couldn't believe it, is this so rude or is it just me? She didn't even offer to still fit me in, although she said she would try and find some other role in the wedding for me. But I'm so upset that l said no, and now her mother and mine are both angry at me for ruining her day! What should l do?

2007-06-01 01:26:26 · 15 answers · asked by Weeme 2 in Weddings

2007-06-01 01:26:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'd been with my boyfriend for 2 years but we had alot of problems - he was irresponsible with money and drank too much and we argued alot. I moved to my mum's and let him stay in my house until he found somewhere else to live. I know it was stupid but we carried on texting each other, I did really miss him but cant decide whether we should give it another go or not. I had to come back and stay at the house for a couple of nights to sort my stuff out (as my mum's is 250 miles away) and we both ended up crying and said we'd try again, now we've started rowing again. I feel like I cant live with him and I cant live without him

I've decided to go back to my mum's and not stay in touch for a couple of months then see how we both feel, but I know I will be desperate to ring or text him. Its so complicated and I'm devastated and so is he. Any advice would be much appreciated

2007-06-01 01:24:41 · 13 answers · asked by monkeynuts 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend that I've known for 15 years. I had always thought that we were close, but over the last few years I've been having my doubts about her. The final straw happened a couple of weeks ago. My partner's mum died of cancer in January and we decided to run a 10K race for a cancer charity in her memory. When I asked my friend if she would sponsor us, she said 'No, I've already been stung for that race by someone at work.' In other words, she sponsored some other runner - which is great! - but as a result she wasn't going to give me a penny. She is very well off, in fact she bought a sports car only two months ago. She knows why we were running the race, that it was very personal for us. Is she a selfish *****? I never want to see her again. Am I over-reacting?

2007-06-01 01:22:26 · 20 answers · asked by Emmie S 1 in Friends

i moved in with my boyfriend back in feb,i just met his mom last weekend.ofcourse she knew about me but not that we live together.she has a mental disorder and he wants to protect her,i do understand why but i feel like i am being hidden....if anyone knows about this disorder please let me know what you think.is there anything i should be doing or he should be, i really dont like decieving her!!

2007-06-01 01:21:04 · 4 answers · asked by cupcake37379 2 in Family

How do you tell your so callled friend that you want them to share the joys and sorrows of life together but when she was not there when I really needed her I felt hurt. I want to be friends but her not being able to be happy for my accomplishments really brings me down.

2007-06-01 01:18:30 · 6 answers · asked by Lisa P 1 in Friends

Also when is a good time to register for gifts for a bridal shower?

2007-06-01 01:15:09 · 27 answers · asked by Trish L 1 in Weddings

ok I have really pale/fair skin, dirty blonde hair, and blue eyes. I'm either going to make my hair darker or my skin, which do you think (in your opinion)?? thanks : ) FYI - tan would not be real, but I'd try to make it look real...

2007-06-01 01:12:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We both want to leave our partners but are very concerned about how our children will react.

2007-06-01 01:11:57 · 24 answers · asked by In the same boat 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have recently split up with my boyfriend because of various reasons. He still owes my sister money. My relationship with my sister is at an all time low.

How can I get the money off my ex? I have tried phoning him and texting him but ignores my calls and texts.

What can I do to get the money the he owes?

2007-06-01 01:09:11 · 39 answers · asked by Carly D 1 in Family

2007-06-01 01:07:04 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive met a guy and hes 36 and hes great but is he to old for me (im 17).

2007-06-01 01:03:38 · 65 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said it's his way of dealing with his emotions by burying them , but why does he have to crush me more? what kind of logic is this?

2007-06-01 00:42:53 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner of 3 years who i am soon to marry drives me crazy at times. He cannot seem to communicate with me, he never remembers anything i have told him or shows an interest in my life.Example:i had made mistake at work was really worried about it couldnt sleep etc. next day get text from partner - hope you slept well (he knows i didnt!) and all jokes. no mention about my problem and if it had turned out ok. At times he seems superficial. have been referred to hospital - does he ever ask me about have i got appointment yet or how i am feeling - nope!. i could go on and on about it. I feel like all he wants is a house keeper, he does nothing in house, cant work washing machine and goes in a huff if i ask him to help!
I was depressed yesterday as it hit me that i will be spending my life with a man who takes no interest what so ever in my life or my problems.
Am i expecting too much from the opposite sex?
When i pointed out about the text all he could say was well i wont text you

2007-06-01 00:36:47 · 38 answers · asked by cottontail 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-01 00:29:23 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-01 00:28:39 · 20 answers · asked by only_lil_kez 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you love them for that, or for the person they are. The reason i ask is that there is a guy who fancies me and spoils me rotten, but i dont know if i love him for who he is, or because of the way he treats me ?

2007-06-01 00:28:04 · 13 answers · asked by Emma 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my husband for 7 years and since the birth of our first child things have been very stale, despite many chats about trying to spice things up. I'm feeling really guilty because I've kissed two guys on separate occasions and went further with one, although not all the way. This was about a year ago and I haven't been able to get the guilt out of my head. I just wanted to feel attractive again but now I totally regret it. I want to make my marriage work and don't know whether to confess to my husband in the hope that he'll forgive me and we can make a new start. I hate myself for what I did and there's no way I'd do it again.

2007-06-01 00:24:28 · 61 answers · asked by cathy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-01 00:23:22 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every time someone new is nice, I think the worst! I like men but recently two old neighbours have come one to me and I hated it! I just don't trust anyone not to have an ulterior motive! The innocent get the same suspicion the guilty get!

2007-06-01 00:18:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

This arvo my boyfriend was over mine (we're 14) My mum trusted him and liked him heaps, I also have a horse, Mum was asleep at the time, so me and my boyfriend went in the horse shed and took our shirts off and kissed when mum walked in, she went absolutely furious and took me and my boyfriend down to my horse, we then fed my horse and my boyfriends mum was going to pick him up, I then got into the car to drive off and my mum was yelling at me saying "I HATE HIM!!!" and telling me how she doesn't care that we're in love and that it was disgusting what me and him did, I then jumped outta the car and ran back to him and mum drove around and started yelling at me to get into the car, my boyfriend came up and apologised to my mum and she just said "yep" and then we went home, she is still arguing with me now =( I wanna keep my boyfriend, he still loves me to bits but he wants my mum to like him, IM SO UPSET! What should I do!!! ='(

2007-06-01 00:17:00 · 9 answers · asked by // Jodie" 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-01 00:15:20 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what can i do to stop an infatuation with a man at work, he is a security guard ,sooo hot , all i can think of when i pass him by is how much i want him ,and what i would do to him if i had him in the bedroom.

2007-06-01 00:14:13 · 6 answers · asked by angelica h 1 in Singles & Dating

AT SCHOOL MY NICK IS BARBIE BECOZ I HAVE LONG BLOND HAIR AND IM ALITTLE SLOW!HEHEHE BUT I AM NOT I LAUGH THEM OFF BUT AM I REALLY A BLONDE BABIE? IS IT AN INSOLT OR COPLIMENT? i wish i was barbie the bich has everything

2007-06-01 00:11:49 · 8 answers · asked by princess 1 in Family

I have been sent pictures of somone i loved so much carrying on as though his life has not been affected by me in any way and its hurting so much to realise i fell for this guys lies!
Need help feeling better any ideas!

2007-06-01 00:01:48 · 15 answers · asked by willowwonder 1 in Singles & Dating