Please give me advice!!! =,( Im so upset?

Question

This arvo my boyfriend was over mine (we're 14) My mum trusted him and liked him heaps, I also have a horse, Mum was asleep at the time, so me and my boyfriend went in the horse shed and took our shirts off and kissed when mum walked in, she went absolutely furious and took me and my boyfriend down to my horse, we then fed my horse and my boyfriends mum was going to pick him up, I then got into the car to drive off and my mum was yelling at me saying "I HATE HIM!!!" and telling me how she doesn't care that we're in love and that it was disgusting what me and him did, I then jumped outta the car and ran back to him and mum drove around and started yelling at me to get into the car, my boyfriend came up and apologised to my mum and she just said "yep" and then we went home, she is still arguing with me now =( I wanna keep my boyfriend, he still loves me to bits but he wants my mum to like him, IM SO UPSET! What should I do!!! ='(

Answer 1

get a real ***** like me

Answer 2

Hi first sorry for my English I'm french ^^

So you are 14 ok. I had had the same problem with my girlfriend
she is 18 and I am 21 so we are little older than you but we were picked like you! her mother said the same things about me, while she don't know me ....doesn't matter.

She wanted my girlfriend leave me while we were(and are ^^) both in love.Her mother said she doesn't care about that and that my girlfriend didn't know what was love(F***K) I was furious and her very upset but there where only one solution.

So I think The only one solution for you is to speak with your mum be cool it 's very important if you want to look like an adult and if you want your words impact full.
say to your mum that first you love her(always working;) )and after having said that while she is angry you wanted that happen cause you both are in love.
You have to dialog with your mum and say even if she isn't agree for your story you want to stay with him and just ask that she lets you your chance.
but never do this again if it is risky because in this situation you only have one chance:if she picks you again it's the death of your story..
but don't worry you mother was furious and said words that she doesn't think(perhaps yes in my case ^^)
she doesn't know him and be with him is first your choice not hers.
but don't forget you are young and your mother is responsible of you wants to protect you but you are a human being and can have your own sentimental life and if you want this own sentimental life be sure that your mother can't come into so be careful.

hope my English wasn't to horrible
and good luck for your story
if you want more help or I correct some faults mail me
and be sure that the guys really loves you and not only want sex with you these things often happen at your age and at all ages ^^ .

Answer 3

I know it probably seems like the worst has happened, but that's only because you're sitting around waiting for him. I doubt he suddenly moved out without telling you. Maybe he's on vacation or is spending time with friends/family. Just keep yourself busy until you notice that he's back home and when he gets back, I think it might be a good idea to let him know just exactly how you're feeling.

Answer 4

First of all you should've never had your shirts off when u are kissing your mom maybe thought you were haveing sex and that is why she was upset to find her daughter and a boy she trusted in disposed (topless) now he is going to have to work very hard for her to trust him but she wont cause he already done the damage..what i advice start seeing eachother supervised til your mom trusts him again... love is good but what u did your mom didnt like so now the trust she had for both of you is no longer there...good luck

Answer 5

you should respect your mum for being so angry with you, your her little girl!! she is just finally realising that you are growing up now, although you are only 14, there is no need to rush into things with your boyfriend. i know you said you loved him but your still young, your mum is only looking out for you go and talk to her.

Answer 6

She does not want you to end up having sex, and getting pregnant, having to raise a child at your age. This would ruin your life, and your mother is trying to protect you from this fate. Tell your boyfriend that it is clothes on from here on out!!! If he really cares about you, he will respect what you ask him to do.

Answer 7

i THINK HE DONT LOVE YOU .
If he really love you then he have not APOLOGIZED your mom.

I think you are blind in love and innocent from world and living in dreams.

At last its on you, your mother ll not say you wrong anything.

R u sure he really loves you.

Will he keep you as his girl friend for a long time and make you wife.

Now days everyone changes his/her colour every minute.

Answer 8

well atleast you didnt forget to feed the HORSE... yeah i got to about there and stop reading sorry


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-[Serenity Now]-

Answer 9

see what u can do is don't get upset ha u can talk to ur mom about this to tell ur bf to impress ur mom