Family & Relationships - 1 June 2007

it is ok we care for each other in our own way and it more a duty than anything as there is no sex anymore we have saperate rooms as I dont even want him to touch me as he is not looking after himself I dont fancy him any more he has erection problems and that is just one of the problems,
I want to be hugged, kissed and have sex and yearn for that part of life
I found someone that will give me that but dont want to upset my hubby in any way shape or form,i dont feel quilty at all as i have a life and my hubbys selfishness that i need that life
my dilemma is i am married .

2007-06-01 21:36:20 · 8 answers · asked by jeya2c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

However, lately a certain girl from my past has been on my mind. I find myself thinking about her quite often. So often in fact that I almost feel ashamed. There never was any kind of an intimate relationship between us. I am totally devoted to my wife and have no intentions of straying but I am still haunted by her memory. I feel like, well, I miss her and have a strong sense of urgency to find her. Is this wrong or should I just let it go? And if so suggestions would be deeply appreciated.

2007-06-01 21:33:23 · 12 answers · asked by Scooter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been trying to figure this one out all night. Please help?
2+1=???

2007-06-01 21:32:15 · 17 answers · asked by Clare P 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 41 and this hottie, Jenni, wants to go out. She is 19. I told her my age and she doesn't care. Any advice??

2007-06-01 21:10:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-01 21:08:24 · 11 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Singles & Dating

when i said that i was super jelous i didn't mean that i was telling him that he wasn't allowed to hang out with his friends and the reason why i'm so uptight about it is because i have lost guys that i really cared about the same way and i also didn't jump down their throat about it. My boyfriend also liked this girl before and this girl has a different boyfriend every week (and i'm not over exaggerating). Also when my boyfriend came to pick me up from my girlfriends he brought her with him and when i went to sit in the front with my boyfriend(because i didn't see him all weekend) she wouldn't move and i asked her nicely if i could sit in the front because i missed him and she told me to sit in the back or they were just gonna leave and she said it in the snotyest way ever. she has no concideration of anyone's feelings but her own and shes nothing but a stuck up snob. she got all pissed at me that day because i called in the middle of her and my boyfriend's time.

2007-06-01 21:05:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Awhile back, when i was sleeping, i would wake up thinking that i was talking to my girlfriend on the phone and that we were having like a conversation... but we werent... and the conversation would seem so real.... and i hear her voice, and i would have the phone or some other object in hand near my ear..... sooo.. then i would "fully awaken" at the end of the conversation by asking her "to go to sleep"... then realizing that phone is off and its like 4 or 5 in morning... it would always put this wierd "deathly" feeling in my stomach and i also felt like someone/somthing was watching/near me (kinda like a paranoia)... can anyone explain to me what was happening???

2007-06-01 21:04:26 · 6 answers · asked by vangelofsorrowii 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 5 years, I have two children by a previous marriage. My husband is leaving, he is adamant that he loves me deeply, the sole reason he is going is what he considers to be the intolerable behaviour of my children. He gets upset about them having untidy bedrooms or having to ask them more than once to do chores. In the past I have tried to talk with him about management/difficulties with the children but he has always completley frozen me out saying he can't talk it makes him too angry and sometimes hasn't spoken for days when he has been upset. I have become emotionally drained and given up trying to talk to him. I feel that our different attitudes towards the children has led to irreconcilable difficulties and now his leaving is something of a relief. So why do I feel such a failure. I feel I have tried really hard only to be abandoned. I feel I am a bad mother and a useless wife. I don't understand what is going on in my head. Help

2007-06-01 21:02:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for over a year i been in love with my soulmate but we couldnt be together and i cant live without my soul. we are in different state and that person did everything to get over me and its live cancer eating away at me inside and its killing me all i do is cry. i wonder if my love cares. i wanted to spend the rest of my life with that one person and no one else. i need my love.i worship my love. do any of you feel like that for anyone and should i fight and keep trying to get my baby back??

2007-06-01 20:58:24 · 11 answers · asked by lonely4u 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my boyfriend for 5 months and it's like we knew each other for years now. We always agree on stuff and we love each other so much. He loves my 3 yr old son too(Not his son!). Last month he asked me if i want to marry him and i said i want to think about it. he said he was sure about his decision because he doesn't want to lose me since I'm leaving for Canada next month. He wants us to get married before I leave. Should i say Yes? I have the fear of losing him too if I'd say no. But I'm still confused. What should I do? 60% of me wants to say yes!

2007-06-01 20:47:23 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-01 20:42:36 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I love a girl who is older then me by 11 months.She also loves me a lot.But her parents are not supporting our relationship because of this age factor.Since I am from India and in my country usually Boy should be older then the girl he is marrying.Now Since her parent had raised this age issue so even she is in dual
mind about our relationship.She is afraid that we may have to face some personal problems in our relationship because of this age factor.I just wanted to know is there is any such issue related to age that might creep into our lives if we marry each other.I am pretty confident that she will be happy with me but she is not able to decide.
Does age really matter if two person's love and understand each other and can keep on well with each other.Is the age gap of 1 year really significant?
I would also like to mention that presently she is 26 and i m 25 years old.
Answers from Indians would be really helpful as they would understand our culture.Others views will also b helful

2007-06-01 20:38:28 · 22 answers · asked by Prakash v 1 in Weddings

To be owned and controlled by a woman? Is this what you call fun?

Somebody always getting bent becuase:

1. You check out other women
2. You would like a little variety after say...20 years of same ol same ol sex
3. Plenty of hot single women dig married guys
4. The wife gets bent about everything.

So tell me again why I would ever want to get married? It seems like nothing but a drag to me....pure hassle. NO FUN.

2007-06-01 20:31:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Let me tell you what happened today. I was out with a couple friends and this girl that i know for a while but because she lives a bit far we did not see eachother for a while. She took the seat next to me when we were sitting down and she was kind of flirting but she is a little bit shy by nature. What happen was during the movie she was touching herself she was getting horny and touching her boobs. I did not know what to do so i did nothing because first it did came a bit as a surprise and second there were other people arround friends of mine if i would have done something. Well my question is what would you have done if you were in my position. And how do you explain her reaction would you say she likes me or she just got horny and was masturbating since there were no lights. So basically what do you think she expected me to do there if there was something that she wanted me to do. what do you all think.

2007-06-01 20:30:17 · 4 answers · asked by Best_Answer 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-01 20:21:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-01 20:17:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He stop paying attention to me about one year already no intamacy between us until i discover he was into heavy porno when i asked him he just picked up and left i have not heard from him since it going to be 3 months. I still love him but i feel abondend and rejected. I wonder and hope if he will ever come back and ask for forgiveness and then i ask my self if i should forgive

2007-06-01 20:07:55 · 16 answers · asked by karen c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just started a new job and i only get around one weekend off a month. This is awful because I am a pathetic loser who only get to got out on weekends about one every 6 weeks. I thought this through and it means that I only about once every 24 weeks (6 months) will it work out that I have a chance to go do something and be able to do it! son now I am sad :( I can't sleep because I am crying.

2007-06-01 19:52:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Will you always love me no matter what?

2007-06-01 19:51:00 · 19 answers · asked by ~ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Or any thing Sexual,,,And he told me he was only with me to get in my PANTS!

2007-06-01 19:47:51 · 29 answers · asked by cheerbaby1312 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this Normal??.. I even fantasize two girls and me in the bedroom!???please answer me there.dont laugh.

2007-06-01 19:47:29 · 22 answers · asked by mybonky2000 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband who use to be the best guy in the world started drinking just months after i found out i had cancer. It really hurted me to see him not come home from work smiling and telling jokes but instead drunk and angry. we have three kids and it's really hard to explain to my daughter why he's so different now. I confronted him tonight when he finally came home, we got in fight and he slammed me against the wall and left. What should i do now? i don't think i can take it anymore but i still love him! Help?

2007-06-01 19:34:03 · 27 answers · asked by puppylove 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to explain the best I can. Details would fill volumes. My fiance and I are having trouble. It's not like us to act like this. I know planning a wedding is stressful but that's not it. I have an abnormaly high level of stress right now (financial, DMV, work, boards, medical(skydive crash), moving and more. I just moved myself into the new house (until married). Last night we had an "argument". Truth is I wasn't arguing at all. I wanted to find out what bothered her to help fix it. She said I was blaming her for not renting a truck for the move. I couldn't care less about the truck. I found another way. I told her many times I wasn't blaming her for anything. She drove off despite my attemps to flash her over to talk. She avoided my calls all day. I don't even know what I "did". I can't concentrate on the other issues bc I can only think of her. Can I just show up at her house?Theres not much to work with I really want to resolve this. I am trying to be a good husband

2007-06-01 19:32:05 · 11 answers · asked by whatever 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-01 19:27:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Okay, so lets say thease two just got married, guy doesnt want kids..but he's not extrodanarily firm about this want.. the girl REALLY REALLY wants kids...What happens? should they?

2007-06-01 19:17:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm monogamous & use protection, while they're promiscuous & risky. We were discussing about planning to go get checked for STD's, & one of the guys had the nerve to tell me that I need to get tested more than anyone of us. He's so promiscuous that he has to have relations with other guys & teenaged girls. I don't have anything against bisexuality, but he has his nerve to tell me I need to get tested more than anybody.

2007-06-01 18:55:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My husband comes home every other day from work and drinks 12 pack of beer and plays and talks with women friends he meets on game sites. He knows that the drinking is affecting the relationship because we have many disscusions over this. He says he is going to do what he wants to do. I just feel that this is taking away from us and I am am about to leave him over this. I don't like that he is talking to women on these game sites ...when he could be talking and spending quality time with me. I am asking this question for my sister and she is here and wanting some advice.

2007-06-01 18:47:28 · 19 answers · asked by Lindsey 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont know what to do about this.He doesnt touch me anymore and if he does, right after that he starts blaming me for one thing or another right after romance.he makes me feel bad about myself all the time.Its like everything i do is wrong to him, and he just want me to do what he wants without taking any consideration.

2007-06-01 18:45:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does everyone do it? even if you've lied about it have you done it? i hade to ask, i'm bored & have wondered.

2007-06-01 18:43:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

While my hub & I were out w/ friends, he asked me a couple times to dance, & I turned him down. I'm pregnant, so I was the only sober one & not having near as much fun as everyone else (even though I was trying to fake it). Plus earlier I got hit in the ankle by a dang pool ball (lol).

This skanky girl was totally getting on my nerves, playing the "drunk, stupid, oops my boobs are hanging out" role. All over everybody. Next thing I know my hub is dancing with her! I was mad, and a tad embarrassed. But I tried to play it off and just give him a "that's not cool" look. A hint. Apparently he didn't pick up on it, cause he kept dancing w/ her. I ended up storming out like a 12 yr old.

I know he didn't have any intentions of cheating on me or anything like that, but it still upset me for some reason. Have I turned into the over-dramatic, crazy jealous wife? Or maybe it was because he recently told me he likes going to bars because all the women flirt w/ him? Maybe I was out of line?

2007-06-01 18:40:17 · 16 answers · asked by Lyndsey G 3 in Marriage & Divorce