I'm a married guy,33, I love my wife. but I still I'm physically attracted to sexy girls?

Question

Is this Normal??.. I even fantasize two girls and me in the bedroom!???please answer me there.dont laugh.

Answer 1

Of course it's normal. You're married, not dead or blind. Attractive women are still attractive, and of course you notice and appreciate them. Perfectly ok, as long as you aren't stupid. Staring, drooling, whistles, etc. merely reveal either low IQ, or a juvenile personality. What counts is that you love your wife. Fantasies are fine, as long as they stay fantasies. As long as you remember that your wife is the most important thing, enjoy your life any way you please.

Answer 2

Yes, it's normal. Just because you are married, doesn't mean that your eyes can't wander off once in a while. As long as your physical attraction doesn't turn into infidelity. Everybody fantasizes, so it's normal. Just as long as you're not serious about going through with it, unless your wife gives you the green light.

Answer 3

Just because you are married doesn't mean you will not be attracted to other women, but being married means you have to deny yourself other women, so that you make sure you do not defile your marriage bed. Adultery is a sin, that has dire consequences. You have free will, but you can not decide the consequences. Let your own wife intoxicate you. What God joins together let no man put assunder. You are treading on dangerous ground.

Answer 4

So ?! as long as you dont act on your fantasy so what?! Dont be unfaitful or stray, if you love your wife then thats it. Looking at someone attractive isnt a problem and attractive person male or female is atractive we will look, we are human,as long as you dont pursue them or only think of them and still find your wife attractive and dont have to fantasize to be aroused then you are okay.

Answer 5

I am pretty sure all married people still have fantasies and a good portion of those fantasies don't include their spouse. So, my question to you is, have you told your wife about the things you think about? Do you automatically assume she would be against it? I would want my husband to tell me. I don't know if I could fulfill his every wish and desire, but certainly would want to make him happy if I could.

Answer 6

It's normal, all right. You'll probably still feel the same way when you're 100 years old.

Fantasies don't usually play out as well in real life as they do in your mind. If you test out your fantasy, it won't work as a fantasy any more, and then what would you do?

Answer 7

You will never stop being attracted to sexy girls. Thats why theryre sexy. Im single. I notice married girls never stop flirting. Guess what your wife is probably attracted to sexy guys.

Answer 8

if your married you shouldn't be fantasycing about the two random girl that you wish you could get in the bedroom. its not ganna happen, so quit wasting Ur time and start concentrating on your wife.

Answer 9

I am married, and I know my husband has his "other" attractions. I assume most/all men do. (Have brothers too, lol). It's your imagination.
Don't worry about it. As long as it is not an obsession that is interfering with your marriage, job or life in general. Most importantly - no infidelity.

Answer 10

So your wife is chopped liver? She won't have what you don't give her. Your confession to loving her won't cut it and sounds hollow. Passion will make her feel special, beautiful and sexy. It will make her feel wanted. If you truly love her and are in love with her, you will want that for her. The perks will make you feel as if you died and went to heaven.