Family & Relationships - 1 June 2007

Happy mad or sad?

2007-06-01 11:27:12 · 15 answers · asked by the_beautiful_e 5 in Marriage & Divorce

there is this girl I loved with all my heart since I was 11 and now i'm in my mid 20s and I still got storng feelings for her in my heart, but not in a sex way its in a care way and i still true love her whys that ? i can't get her out of my heart

2007-06-01 11:25:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am married and was on a business trip with a woman I work with who is also married. Since we were travelling together, we naturally went to dinner together and also stayed out drinking that night. At the end of the night she stopped by hotel room. She proceeded to strip to her bra and panties, lay on the bed, and start to masturbate. She invited me to help her out which I did. Since nothing else occurred, I am wondering is this cheating and if so, at what point is it considered cheating?

2007-06-01 11:22:16 · 23 answers · asked by cane130 2 in Marriage & Divorce

what is wrong with me wanting to sacrifice 12 months to get a nice career? guys can you explain?

2007-06-01 11:17:44 · 11 answers · asked by genesisone31 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-01 11:12:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy but he said i want go out wit you unless you ask me so how do i do it!!!!!!!!!!????????? i always thought the guy was suppose to ask the gurl out this is kinda weird to me!!!

2007-06-01 11:11:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

..........considered yourself a nice/good person??? I ask because even a bad person will say they are good> so who really is good/nice? or bad

2007-06-01 11:05:35 · 35 answers · asked by uno 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Contemplating marriage with a man with a child already. He is the NCP with a steep child support payment. How much money he brings home isn't an issue for me, but what I am concerned about is how my income will be used to calculate child support payments. The mother chooses not to work and her live in boyfriend supports her. Since the mother doesn't work my b/f is responsible for 80% of what the state says it costs to raise a child each month. The mother's b/f makes a considerable amount more than my boyfriend so their household income is a lot better than his. I am concerned b/c when I finish school I will be starting a 6 figure salary job and I don't want to financially support a child that isn't mine...especially since her own mother chooses not to do anything to financially support her child. Can a court use my salary and assets to determine a child support order in Indiana?

2007-06-01 11:04:57 · 5 answers · asked by justcatch13 1 in Marriage & Divorce

but he is really nice to everyone at school and hes really cute i'm in 8th grade but he doesn't seem like a player to me but everyone says he is

2007-06-01 10:58:32 · 21 answers · asked by sillyoldbear93 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 and I feel that I should be married because both my parents were married at that age. My dad was 24.

2007-06-01 10:51:59 · 25 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Marriage & Divorce

For example: he will call you because he needs something, but if he don't need you, you will seldom here from them!! Worst... if you need them, they will be always unavailable!!

2007-06-01 10:48:54 · 5 answers · asked by BumbleBee 1 in Friends

2007-06-01 10:47:20 · 15 answers · asked by peak033 1 in Marriage & Divorce

women seem to want well hung men, especially married women who cheat, but are they just curious about what it is like with something very different from what they have?

2007-06-01 10:46:10 · 14 answers · asked by fade_2_black 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if u have read my other questions then u already know that i liked my bro's friend and he liked me but told his little bro to assk me out and now his little bro and me are dating. but now that i keep going over to my bf's house his oolder bro keeps flirting with me and calls me now so what should i do i have feelings for both of them but i don't want to dump my bf hoping his older bro will ask me out! so please give me some good advice!!

2007-06-01 10:37:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm going to make this short... I'm 19 years old and I come from a rich family. I'm careful with who i get involved with. I met this girl from my school who is amazing but i did a background check on her and found out her parents are pretty poor... I'm not against that but Id like to date people with a sort of standard. Its not her fault that her parents are poor. I just met this girl recently and dont know if i should go out with her... what do u think?

2007-06-01 10:31:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am married to a man who when we make love wants to make me orgasm 2 or 3 times. I know his heart is in the right place but it's like that is all he is focused on is making that happen...and the truth is - it never actually happens (unless I am helping out). I don't want to hurt his feelings and I don't want him to doubt himself but I just don't think I am ever turned on enough - but how do you tell someone that?? The problem is, I have been doing this for 3 years so how can I suddenly say oh by the way - I've been faking it the whole time? I love making love to him and orgasms really don't matter a great deal to me as I just love the act itself with him, but it's so important seemingly to him. Can someone relate or help me? Or have any of you guys been told the same thing? How could you hear it that wouldn't affect your sex life - only make it better???

THANK YOU EVERYONE :D

2007-06-01 10:31:12 · 20 answers · asked by emmablue32 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you looking for caterers, florists, photographers, planners, invitations, dresses, tuxes, accessories, rentals, designers, lighting, etc. Which ones do you gravitate towards first? What's the most important to you? What's the least important?

2007-06-01 10:28:08 · 7 answers · asked by Rainer 4 in Weddings

I met him 4 years ago.Were officially dating in Jan 04 but in April 04 he said he was moving away but it was really bc he was getting married. But he was w/me the night before his wedding, he called me the day of his wedding & kept in touch with me atleast 2 to 3 times a wk everyday after that. We became a couple a yr ago. He met my family & I met his & everything was fine. I found out 3 months ago he was married! I had no clue that his mom & dad thought i was a friend but his sister's knew who i was. He left his wife @ the beginning of the yr & is now seperated & is in the process of getting divorced. Now we're always together.I don't know how to present myself w/ his parents now bc @ this point, i'm technically his lover.I find it very hard 2let go of him bc he's been there w/me thru all my hardships.My mom is currently diagnosed w/ malignant cancer & was told she has 2 yrs to live.I don't know if I love him or I just need him as my security blanket. What do i do?

2007-06-01 10:25:54 · 30 answers · asked by Sviera0105 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi .. this may sound silly, I hope not. I'm what I consider to be a pretty outgoing, thoughtful, sincere caring person in my 40's - female. I try and treat folks how I want to be treated; and have been called by many "one of the nicest people I know - to everyone." My question is .. why don't I seem to have any friends? I mean .. I have a couple of close friends I've had for years - but not the kind (and amount) someone like me would have - I would think. I'm married.. but my husband and I are separated right now. I do volunteer work .. I don't get it. What's wrong with me - what am I doing wrong?? Noticing this, especially on top of my current separation from my husband; I feel quite lonely. thanks :)

2007-06-01 10:24:48 · 10 answers · asked by DCD 2 in Friends

Ok hey guys...iono wht to do...Im not allowed to date until im 18 or so...but the only problem is im boy crazi! i talk to bout 5 or more guys a dai on the phone through txt msgs etc..i kinda do wanna bf buh the only problem is is that im kinda unfaithful...n everything! n i like this guy alot n i dont wanna break his heart becuz i tell other guys i love thme what do i do?

2007-06-01 10:21:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I what to have a boyfriend but then I just what to hook up with people.

what is better being single or dating ?

2007-06-01 10:20:51 · 2 answers · asked by zoe b 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my boyfriend for a little over 3 months now, and with our slightly conflicting schedules, it's been more difficult to keep in touch over the summer. During the year, we are both full-time college students who work part-time. I recently found a new job so I will be working more over the summer, while he works and takes a summer course. I want to send him something, by UPS or Fedex, just something rather small and sweet, to say that I'm thinking of him even though we can't always see each other as much as we want. I think it'd be a nice surprise, but I have no idea what to send! We are both in our 20s. Any suggestions?

2007-06-01 10:20:46 · 5 answers · asked by Sassi 3 in Singles & Dating

my niece wants to get married but her parents said no

2007-06-01 10:18:42 · 17 answers · asked by babydsgrammie2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Lately I have been feeling down, all my friends have boyfriends (they have all been with their boyfriends for years!!!) For some reason I can't seem to keep a guy around. It seems that I am usually sitting at home by myself. When we all do go out, they always have to go home to their boyfriends by a certain time, and if that's not the case then we can't do certain things that I want to do like talk to some cute guys, go to parties, etc. because of their boyfriends. Where do single guys hang out? What should I do about my "married" friends?

2007-06-01 10:18:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He's really nice and sweet to me, and he really likes me and I'm trying to see him that way but I just can't get past his looks and his weight.

2007-06-01 10:15:23 · 30 answers · asked by Wildflower 6 in Singles & Dating

...Some relationships are good when boyfriend and girlfriend, but as soon as they start living together, months after they end up hating each other.....even when they had an excellent relationship before

2007-06-01 10:11:58 · 16 answers · asked by uno 1 in Marriage & Divorce

even if I'm at work?

2007-06-01 10:11:54 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he no's that i like them big and i think thats the reason he doesnt want to tell me! and if he does i dont no what to say because i dont want to hurt his feelings

2007-06-01 10:09:42 · 12 answers · asked by b-girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Senario - A woman who is interest in you tells you point blank how she feels, well more like shows you (kisses you) you kiss back. However, due to her being married, you advise her that this might not be the best situation to get started. Things continue on picking up pace as time goes on. You admit to her daughter that you care about her and would treat her better than she was being treated by her husband. You bring her and her daughter presents, look out for both of them. You tell her things like there is nothing you wouldn't do for her. Things progress until finally the both of you can't control things anymore. One thing leads to another, and you end up with eachother one night, even though you know that there is a good chance of getting caught. & do. Now, she is being kept from having any contact with you, but she tries. You have backed off, but still smile and light up when you see her. Have you given up or are you just being respectful waiting for the right time?

2007-06-01 10:08:29 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and what can happen to them later on in life?

2007-06-01 10:08:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family