I'm going to make this short... I'm 19 years old and I come from a rich family. I'm careful with who i get involved with. I met this girl from my school who is amazing but i did a background check on her and found out her parents are pretty poor... I'm not against that but Id like to date people with a sort of standard. Its not her fault that her parents are poor. I just met this girl recently and dont know if i should go out with her... what do u think?
2007-06-01 10:31:46 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just because she isn't rich doesn't mean that she is any less of a person that you are. The only time a background check should even be considered is if you're looking for a CRIMINAL past on someone you just don't trust.
Despite how it might seem - money doesn't make the world go around. Consider someone like Paris Hilton - she is worth billions, yet her empty and shallow "party lifestyle" is really quite pathetic.
If you would rather date someone who has money (but little else) instead of someone "amazing" (as you describe the girl you're interested in) - then more power to you...
Now if she (the girl from school) insists that you buy her the world - then I would dump the gold-digging tramp immediately.
2007-06-01 10:42:47 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok can money buy you happiness? The answer is no. You can't buy love. Situation status should not be a factor on who you choose for a girlfriend/lover. To go by money is very shallow and if people find out that you want someone 'up to your level' then they will think little of you for it. It is not like you just met and are planning on popping the question, yet if ever in that situation there are always prenups.
To some even though they have very little they consider themselves rich because they have everything that they need...family, support, jobs, and love. Money is never in the mix.
2007-06-01 10:45:58 · answer #2 · answered by scrappy537 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stop being so shallow and give her a chance. I don't mean any disrespect but in my experience people with money put less value on relationships and family. This girl may open your eyes to something great. She has probably been through a lot of experiences that you may never see and she knows how to get by in life. To her money probably doesn't matter just being with you and having fun.
2007-06-01 10:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by al l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-06 11:24:19 · answer #4 · answered by heusel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say dont go out with her because she deserves better than some guy that looks down at her just because she came from the "other side of the tracks". Get over yourself.
2007-06-01 10:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is very inhumane of you to date or not date someone because of their family's financial status. how does that affect either one of you? she can still go to college and make just as much money as you, if not more. why the hell would that girl ever want to date you if all you do is mooch of your family and get your crap fed straight to your mouth. i bet that girl has way more heart and drive in one finger than your lazy rich *** does in your whole body. you probably don't deserve her
2007-06-01 10:37:14 · answer #6 · answered by muscle bound hunk 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow you have to think twice.. if you really care about her then that should not matter, if i were you i wouldn't do background checks, trust is everything..wow kind of odd.. some of my family is very rich, but not very happy.. like it goes money isn't everything... you dint live forever, you cant change your family, do you want something as trivial as money holding you back...
2007-06-01 10:51:48 · answer #7 · answered by nickydig9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you're going to marry her, it shouldn't be an issue. You shouldn't judge her family until you actually know them. Maybe you should try getting to know her better before you date or not date her because of her status.
2007-06-01 10:39:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck. You will need it. You will live a very lonely life with that attitude. Money has nothing to do with a person's quality.
2007-06-01 10:38:13 · answer #9 · answered by A-man-123 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just because you dont come from money doesn't mean you have no standards, dude, you need to get a life, get over it. she's never gonna make you happy. you will always hold it against her. you need ******* help.
2007-06-01 10:36:25 · answer #10 · answered by precious 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋