Family & Relationships - 1 June 2007

At my wits end, ladies! My husband and I have been married for 3 years, and ive always felt he is taking me for granted. I left twice, thinking he would realize what he had and change his ways... but everytime i come back its the same thing!

We havent had a constructive fight in years, but fight nearly every day. big fights.

what is it going to take for him to see things my way! Ive tried comprimising, but when im the only one trying, i cant meet him half way.

marriage counseling? divorce? what helps?!??

2007-06-01 10:06:09 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a young doctor at a prestigous hospital and he's the top chef at a mediocre hotel.. But I don't look down on him for it.. he makes great dinners and packs me lunch for work. What do u guys think?

2007-06-01 10:05:19 · 46 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating

Girl I am head over heels for just broke up w/ long term bf. I ended up being the rebound guy, though we have somewhat of a history together. She was very affectionate and dropped a lot of I love you and how she wished we could be together (don't live near each other). Since we parted she has kept in contact but has said she needs to clear her head of the old relationship. Will continuing to flirt with her and being affectionate just push her away? I want to be respectful of what she is going through, but it is hard to act like nothing happened.

2007-06-01 10:03:27 · 9 answers · asked by george1234 1 in Singles & Dating

i got into trouble today for making fun of my sisters having to wear pantyhose to this party thing, they looked funny in the bathroom getting ready in these things, i was kinda calling them mean names, and my mom caught me she was so pissed off, she got so mad she came back in with a pair of panties and pantyhose and told me to put them on! was this fair? i felt like such a girl!

2007-06-01 10:01:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My fiance paid off his debt(10k) with the bonus(13K) he got from work.Now this makes sence and leaves him with 3k.We have been engaged 2yrs waiting for his money situation to get better so we can get married.He talked about having a cheap wedding/honeymoon(like 5k total) and i told him i would pay for half of everything(which is only fair) so he would not get in debt again.Well instead of saving the 3k for the wedding/honeymoon he went out and spent 2k on a gun(he all rdy has 2) and i feel the other 1k will disapear too.How can he tell me he wants a cheap w/h then go out and spend that kind of money on gun?When we get married we want to get a house/new furniture too.now i have some money but i don't feel i should be the only one paying for everything(wedding/honeymoon/house)I have talked to him about putting money away together for these things but he does not want to.

2007-06-01 10:00:16 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My fiance paid off his debt(10k) with the bonus(13K) he got from work.Now this makes sence and leaves him with 3k.We have been engaged 2yrs waiting for his money situation to get better so we can get married.He talked about having a cheap wedding/honeymoon(like 5k total) and i told him i would pay for half of everything(which is only fair) so he would not get in debt again.Well instead of saving the 3k for the wedding/honeymoon he went out and spent 2k on a gun(he all rdy has 2) and i feel the other 1k will disapear too.How can he tell me he wants a cheap w/h then go out and spend that kind of money on gun?When we get married we want to get a house/new furniture too.now i have some money but i don't feel i should be the only one paying for everything(wedding/honeymoon/house)I have talked to him about putting money away together for these things but he does not want to.

2007-06-01 09:59:30 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

"I am ready to do anything for you coz I have deep feelings for you." He is from other country and is of another religion .. he is ready to come for me at any time and convert too ... is he falling deeply for me that way?

2007-06-01 09:59:04 · 5 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

I see a lot of Girls in my neighbourhood park
We cross each other
PROBLEM:-
My mom is also in the park & so i cant stop & say hello to anyone.
Is there any way to build connections without speaking a word.

Is there a way to use Eye Contact Test & move out of the park, so that if she is interseted she follows you & then you can make a connection with her.

Please explain A to Z of it. I want Step by Step Info pleaseee

2007-06-01 09:52:51 · 6 answers · asked by honey 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend said since we are not marry we can see or hang out with opposite sex. He said he sometimes hang out with some of his female co-worker. Does that means he is seeing someone else on the side?

2007-06-01 09:51:26 · 9 answers · asked by daisytct 1 in Singles & Dating

my husband will have custody of his son in the next month.....they have reach an agreement to stop child support in their california case....however, his ex is saying she doesnt know where to go to stop the case.....???????? wouldnt it be where she opened it in the first place

2007-06-01 09:48:19 · 3 answers · asked by Adeja 1 in Family

I should've worded my earlier question different, so I am now. I am 21. 6-0 200lbs average looking. I don't have a rock hard body, but I'm not ugly. Best compliment I've gotten is cute (so whatever that means? okay but not good enough I assume). Never really had a relationship. I've had g/f's for like 2 weeks. I've fallen for girls that don't share the same feelings. Never had sex. Last time I've had any affection whatsover has been like 3 years ago. I try. But I don't try too hard. I'm real chill, and laid back and let things come to me. Pursue what might seems interested but never any results. Its driving me crazy. Its more emotional than physical...like idk it seems like no one cares about you. You just want to be held and know that another person cares about what you do and who you are. I feel like I'm wandering lost. I know myself. I've got a grip on reality. Maybe I'm too honest and outgoing. I thought those were good qualities? People say be patient but its killing my soul.....

2007-06-01 09:48:04 · 6 answers · asked by uf_nationalchamps0607 1 in Singles & Dating

he said he i keep hurtin me and he rather not do it no more so he just wants tobe friends....well isnt breakin up hurtin me...idk

2007-06-01 09:47:46 · 6 answers · asked by vanity_bluegirl 1 in Friends

This guy that I'm dating is always mentioning about his EX...and telling me all kind of stories about her !
He is also ....like cold to me ...not showing too much affection ( but he insists he likes me a lot when I asked him)...
I don't know what to think ?

2007-06-01 09:47:44 · 8 answers · asked by Juliet 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-01 09:47:10 · 9 answers · asked by tafaye 1 in Marriage & Divorce

By "cuckold" I mean you actually play with another man in front of your bf or spouse... where your bf (spouse) is submissive to you and/or does not actually participate but has to watch.

Its a situation where the Woman has her cake and gets to eat it too!

2007-06-01 09:46:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A guy asked me out the other day. He's good-looking and seems really nice. The only problem I have is that I've found out he's only 21! When I said yes I assumed he was mid-twenties. I'm 31, should I cancel? I'm also worried that he doesn't know how old I am.

2007-06-01 09:45:21 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 3 months, but I admit that I love and miss my ex-boyfriend too much. We were together for 4 years, but my ex stalled so much and always postponed our plans for being married, that it was hard to really assume we would ever get married. I was always happy with him,but I just never knew if he would want to.

Well, I moved back to my country because of Visa issues, and starting hanging out with an old friend. After 5 months of dating, he asked me to marry him and I said yes. I really just didnt want to waste anymore of my life being single and "waiting" for my boyfriend to marry me.

Well, I know my ex is devastated (we never officially ended things anywyas, and I feel guilty for this) and he is so depressed and loves me so much. I love him too and miss him, and this is making my marriage so difficult. I am SOOO confused. I think I should have waited for my ex, but the reality is that I am married.
What should I do? Will my feelings change?This is terrible.

2007-06-01 09:44:59 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just found out that my niece is having a baby boy! I went online to research to see exactly what his "title" in the family is but I am having a hard time doing so. I have a son also and they are going to be second cousins ... but from an aunt to a niece and now to her son ... ???

2007-06-01 09:43:44 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How often do you think two people should have it? Should it really get in the way and cause fights? What happens if one person has a completely different sexual appetite than the other but they are totally in love with each other for who they are as a person?

2007-06-01 09:42:01 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Casually known a guy in passing for a while. Always stop to chat, he asks for my number, says he is going to call me but never does. Its been over a week. My flirting was subtle and I never dogged the guy bout taking me out. And I am NOT ugly...so what is it???

2007-06-01 09:33:04 · 28 answers · asked by jasmdasm 1 in Singles & Dating

I knew a girl in high school. I moved though. I never actually talked directly to her. She was not like other girls i met. She was pretty like them, but she was funny, outgoing, and very nice. I might back to that school in 1 year. I can't sleep or live through the day. All i do is listen to depressing music while looking at her pic in my yearbook. How can i get her? Im just not good with getting a girl?

2007-06-01 09:33:01 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and you tell the guy when he asks you out again...politelly said.."Oh, I am not interested"...Then he says why?...i just said ...because ..I'm not interested....WHY DOESN'T HE TAKE THE HINT when you are TRYING TO say it nicely???(he is really not your type)...but you do not want to say it...

2007-06-01 09:32:52 · 5 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Singles & Dating

Its just an idea, but think about it.
If a man or woman have an affair with a married individual that has a family and the marriage is terminated should they not have to pay support for the innocent children to whom family they helped destroy?
What are your thoughts?

2007-06-01 09:26:52 · 21 answers · asked by snack_daddy10 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I truthfully don't know why. After they found out I got a boyfriend, half of them started to ignore me. One of them looked shocked when someone told him and asked me about it afterward. Another guy asked me out right after it and wants to "talk" to him and has been asking for him, but won't talk to him while I am around. Many others just won't talk to me. It's not because I am a whore, I don't sleep or makeout with anyone I am not going out with. I heard a few of them liked me, but I didn't believe it. Do you think this is why they are ignoring me? If it is, what should I do? I hang out with only guys and life is pretty pathetic without them around, alot of them were like my brothers. (About 6 of them are "angry" with me.)

2007-06-01 09:26:07 · 25 answers · asked by Pilot 4 in Singles & Dating

I mean, just to raise his interest in you or to see how much power you have over him? Or is rejection only reserved for guys you think are gross?

2007-06-01 09:25:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my best friends *Stephanie & my friend *Joe are fighting. It all started when they found out they liked each other as more then friends. They've been friends for a long time w/in a big group of our friends. BUT somewhere along the line he decided she was crazy because she was texting him alot or something stupid. So now he's trying to brush her off and she doesn't understand why. He won't really talk to her & it's causing this akward vibe throughout the group.

Today is *Joe's big bday party & *Stephanie and our other close girl friend *Rose decided not to go earlier this week so I backed out at the last minute to be w/ *Stephanie cuz I know she's really bummed about everything. Well today *Stephanie decided "what the hell?" and wanted to go but when she told *Joe - he said he didn't want her to go.

What should I do?? I hate being in the middle.

2007-06-01 09:21:23 · 7 answers · asked by Niko 4 in Friends

want some good stories

2007-06-01 09:19:59 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Jeez...this may sound so dumb, but an elderly couple lives next door to us and their daughter (who is our age) brings her son over to be babysat a few times a week. She is an attractive woman...and I asked my husband one day, "Is she a woman you would date should we not be together,"...OKAY I set myself up with that one....and his reply was, WITHOUT hesitation, "Yeah, I'd date her if we weren't together,".....typical implusive response from a male regarding the opposite sex in my opinion. Now, I felt kind of awkward....does he look at her? What does he think? etc. etc.

So, lately, we've been having her son and our son play together when we're all outside at the same time. Now, I just feel wierd...and when they (my husband and this woman) talk, I almost feel defensive or a need to walk away because I get a little uncomfortable.

I do trust my husband, without question,...but still feel awkward...what do you think?

2007-06-01 09:18:06 · 43 answers · asked by Lovin' Life As Mama & Wife 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i need a prom date. its hard for me to find one because all of the cute ones were taking by popular girls and i dont want to take some one thats ugly. whats the quickest ways to find a boy i could take to the prom.

no, no one but people in my school can go. its a rule that they set up

2007-06-01 09:15:23 · 1 answers · asked by Beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

We have no kids together but he has 3 that we have 24/7. i just feel like he limited me for the future

2007-06-01 09:15:09 · 31 answers · asked by lilbitevans 2 in Marriage & Divorce