One of my best friends *Stephanie & my friend *Joe are fighting. It all started when they found out they liked each other as more then friends. They've been friends for a long time w/in a big group of our friends. BUT somewhere along the line he decided she was crazy because she was texting him alot or something stupid. So now he's trying to brush her off and she doesn't understand why. He won't really talk to her & it's causing this akward vibe throughout the group.
Today is *Joe's big bday party & *Stephanie and our other close girl friend *Rose decided not to go earlier this week so I backed out at the last minute to be w/ *Stephanie cuz I know she's really bummed about everything. Well today *Stephanie decided "what the hell?" and wanted to go but when she told *Joe - he said he didn't want her to go.
What should I do?? I hate being in the middle.
2007-06-01 09:21:23 · 7 answers · asked by Niko 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I don't know.
2007-06-04 02:13:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you drive?
If you can I have a plan to get out of the middle!
First get Stephanie to go with you somewhere.
Or atleast just tell her that.
then take her to the party and tell her to stay in the car you have to get you ________ you left with Joe or another friend that is at the party. Then get Joe to get in your car some how and make them work it out!
Don't lety them leave!!!!!!!!
2007-06-01 16:26:16 · answer #2 · answered by starbucksxbabe10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop putting urself in the middle. Seperate the friendship until theirs is rekindled. Dont talk about one to the other. Make plans by who planned what first. Enjoy the friendship u have w/ them but keep inmind they need to be apart for a lil n keep urself from gettin involved in their dispute
2007-06-01 16:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by Sick of F*ckwits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in the middle! Do what you want to do - don't try to appease either of them. Someone is going to be mad no matter what you choose to do so choose which one you want and don't worry about the stupid stuff they are going through. They should have never crossed that friendship line in the first place. Don't feel guilty either. Friends don't last forever so don't try to please them. Again, do what YOU want.
2007-06-01 16:28:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go to the party.stay with yer friend and talk 2 joe and let him kno u dont appreciate the way he's been treatin yer friend and he needs 2 talk 2 her.
2007-06-01 16:27:31 · answer #5 · answered by Vanilla Latte 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you either ask them if they will allow you to play therapist for a while and talk to them both together to smooth things over or you butt out and let them solve their own problems. Both takes skill and tact.
2007-06-01 16:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by freebird31wizard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to sit them down together and explain that u dont want to be friends with to ppl that hate each other...
2007-06-01 16:28:11 · answer #7 · answered by sirkygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋