I mean, just to raise his interest in you or to see how much power you have over him? Or is rejection only reserved for guys you think are gross?
2007-06-01 09:25:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not reject a guy if I liked him or had "high romantic interest" in him or whatever. I only reject people who are
a) rude
b) gross, or
c) really really unappealing.
I hate when people reject other people just to see how far a guy will go for her affection or to see "how much power they have over him".
2007-06-01 09:39:28 · answer #1 · answered by Cookies 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the situation. I would never reject anyone just to see how much "power" I have over him as you put it. That's not cool. It's mind games, and it's definately not a fun thing to be on the receiving end of, so why put anyone through it? If I was interested in a guy, I'd have to look at whether being with him was good for me. Does he do drugs? That sort of thing. If you are interested, but he's only going to cause you trouble, there's no point in being with him.
2007-06-01 16:29:54 · answer #2 · answered by elizatash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't reject a guy that I have high romantic interest in. I like some control but not like that. I like control in the bed. I don't want to control anyone or play games with anyone that I'm interested in because I don't want someone to do that to me. Now, some control in the bed is good but not too much. Besides playing with a person's emotions or heart is just wrong and it comes back on you because what goes around does come back around so you treat a person the way you want to be treated at least I do anyway.
2007-06-01 16:30:53 · answer #3 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes rejections are only for the guys i think are gross and it kind of depends on the girl's personality but i would not reject a guy to see if i have power over him ,although i know some girls who might do that.
2007-06-01 16:28:34 · answer #4 · answered by Julie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm no girl, but I can answer your question. Rejection does nothing to raise interest. Only people with personality flaws are attracted to people who reject them. Girls will not reject someone they are very interested in . . . if they would, that's another kind of personality flaw. Good night!
2007-06-01 16:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
different girls different points of view. in addition, the whole rejection word is kinda strong. i don't know if i'll ever reject a guy for whom i "have hight romantic interest" in. however, i will not through my self to the guy, rather i'll like for him to show his real interest in my. thus, yeah i guess i could give him a bit of struggle before giving him my heart. and comple rejection is totally for those guys whom i have no interest in.
2007-06-01 16:32:42 · answer #6 · answered by All_real 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are rejected for many reasons. When you grow up and mature, you learn that high romantic interest is not enough. He could be ignorant, a liar, immature, broke, etc.
2007-06-01 16:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rejection could mean she's not ready to date right now. Maybe she's still uncomfortable around you. Keep talking to her as a friend..that will warm her up to the idea of being around you like on an actual date.
2007-06-01 16:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by justwonderingwhatever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would a girl reject a guy she had interest in??
2007-06-01 16:27:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, Im not into playing games, because thats a good way to risk losing the guy. I think rejection is only for those who merit it.
2007-06-01 16:27:31 · answer #10 · answered by newlywedgirl9304 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋