This guy that I'm dating is always mentioning about his EX...and telling me all kind of stories about her !
He is also ....like cold to me ...not showing too much affection ( but he insists he likes me a lot when I asked him)...
I don't know what to think ?
2007-06-01 09:47:44 · 8 answers · asked by Juliet 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's a really bad situation to be in. Believe me, I know. Sounds to me lyk he's not fully over his ex. He might lyk you but he still WANTS her. And if he's treating you wrongly...lyk being cold to you, why are you still with him? Talk to him about it. About how he makes you feel lyk youre not good enough because youre not HER. And if he cant accept the truth, he isnt worth your time.
Good Luck!
2007-06-01 09:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by Kaylie Reanne - Born 08-06-09 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how long he has been away from the ex. It sounds as though he is still not over the ex and is using you for security. He can't bare to be alone and he needs someone to cling to. Let's face it, you are the rebound. It might be best for you to let him go and even though he might care for you, I am sure you would prefer to have someone that is going to give to you completely. Good Luck! :o)
2007-06-01 09:54:25 · answer #2 · answered by !~!~Edward~!~! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to be up front with him...ask him if he is over his ex? if he says he is....then tell him he should quit bringing her up because it makes you feel like he still have feelings. Maybe he doesnt realize he is talking about her so much, or maybe he doesnt realize it is bothering you...so talk to him about it...if you find out he still likes her...then at least you found out before the relationship continues on and goes any farther
2007-06-01 09:51:30 · answer #3 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a good indication that people who mention their ex's a lot are not over them.
2007-06-01 09:55:05 · answer #4 · answered by Max 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it bother's you that he talks about her all the time, you need to tell him. If he cant stop then that is a given. He has not gotton over her.
2007-06-01 09:52:31 · answer #5 · answered by stormey_84074 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to come back when he's over her if you are still waiting around.
2007-06-01 09:51:08 · answer #6 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is why we date....to sort out the bad ones....hopefully.
2007-06-01 10:07:04 · answer #7 · answered by dawnb 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's not over his ex...
2007-06-01 09:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by juda75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋