Family & Relationships - 1 June 2007

My boyfriend and I have a very good relationship but whenever it comes to his ex, I always accuse him of talking to her and I start to nag ALOT...he told me that if I kept doing that, he will get tired of me and wont want to be with me anymore....do you think he's right for saying that? or should I just relax and enjoy him?

2007-06-01 08:09:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm an adult, & he asked me to move in with him, only so he can use someone to pay all his bills while he's hardly ever here. Also, I'm beginning to see patterns of his abuse again. When I was a toddler, he used to beat me with metal clothes hangers, lock me up in a hot laundry room in the summer time with the clothes dryer running, & he used to shake me a lot. That might be why I'm partially brain damaged.

I thought that over the years he would've changed. I've done nothing disrespectful to him & he yells at me & he's starting to beat on me again. He steals from me & invades my privacy, as well.

I talk to my counselor, & she sees nothing that he's doing wrong, & she blames me for this problem & expects me to ALLOW him to continuously dog over me, just because it's HIS house. I want to move out, but I don't have the money & nowhere else to go. By people keep blaming me for being innocent, should I get a little naughty & stand up for myself, JUST for an excuse to get him to

2007-06-01 08:08:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband has just finished his job and his collegues have taken him out for drinks. Should I be annoyed that he hasn't invited me out? I'm just sitting here by myself. I would invite him, we only live 10mins walk from where he is. Please tell if I am just being silly!

2007-06-01 08:08:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-01 08:08:29 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend been out of employment for about 6 months. I've been paying all the bills so she just been home at our crib doing nothing. She still went to go visit her people's once a month for a week at a time! We got tired of waiting for all the good jobs to call her back. So she decided to go apply at Mcdonald's which hire her on the first day. Everything in our relationship is great, but now she in the real world again. Is there a chance that she would cheat on me. If so please explain why. I preferred somebody who experence this so please help.

2007-06-01 08:07:23 · 11 answers · asked by life 2 in Singles & Dating

(that's a song for those that don't know .. you fill in your own blank) Okay, so my husband left me a month ago today & is already with another girl, who has a track record of going from guy to guy to guy. Her ex-husband has told me before that she is VERY superficial & loves it when guy's spend tons of money on her. Well, I found out he has maxed out his credit card (which had a ZERO balance 3 weeks ago) on taking her out to lunch & dinner, & buying her flowers (yesterday). Now that it's maxed out, he's pretty much BROKE! there's nothing in his bank account, & he has no more credit cards. When him & I were together he bought me extravagant things on special occasions, & I always told him "you didn't have to!" (I REALLY meant it too!!) & when he left, one thing he said he was tired of spending tons of money on me! so why is he being so STUPID & maxing out a credit card on this girl?!?!? Any bets as to how long before she dumps him now that he's broke?

2007-06-01 08:06:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a wife who has been ignoring me when I needed a sholder, she spends all her time talking to her new online friends. Each day when I am really upset I try to get a hug, or some other form of affection from her when she's online. when I do she gets angry and tells me "to stop bugging her". At night when I try to cuddle with her she just pushes me away. I've been upset to the point of before I used to sleep 'oh natural' (not trying to be a perv here.... this is an actual request for help)
now I sleep almost fully clothed because I hate my body. When she needs help or a sholder to cry on I am there for her, but I hate doing it when I get sh*t in return. Am I wrong for feeling that way? What should I do?

2007-06-01 08:05:51 · 24 answers · asked by Anon 2 in Marriage & Divorce

does anyone know if romance has ever happened on here? im a bit of a romantic and i love stories like that!

2007-06-01 08:04:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-01 08:03:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-01 08:02:58 · 27 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf weighs more than me but i'm a couple of inches taller than him. This is weird? Or makes no difference to most people? I usually prefer the guy to be taller but doesn't seem to matter so much with him?

2007-06-01 08:00:53 · 19 answers · asked by sunshinegirl802 5 in Singles & Dating

my bf just recently was caught making out with my bff. can i trust guys anymore? idk i really need help with this one.

2007-06-01 07:57:21 · 28 answers · asked by chewbaccaaskedmeout!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

watta yall guys like in girlz????

2007-06-01 07:55:46 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the worst thing you said to your wife and you wish you didn't say it as you was so angry with yourself

and what did she do

2007-06-01 07:53:55 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and a half now and I work with his step-mother.
His older brother's wife has been expecting and had her baby today, a little girl. His brother called his dad, his dad called his step-mom, his step-mom told me and I was very excited for them because they really wanted a girl as they already have a little boy. After a while, I sent a text to my boyfriend congratulating him for getting a niece and he sent one back saying "that's f'ed up". I said "what is?" and he said "that you found out before I did". How was I supposed to know he hadn't found out yet? Now, he's upset and I don't know what to do. Can you help?

2007-06-01 07:53:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i have this rash on my leg that wont go away and it gets worse when i shave,i have tried everything.except for the womens shavers that work wit out water.the one i want to try is remington does anyone know if that will work.plz help i would love to where a skirt for my husband.

2007-06-01 07:52:25 · 5 answers · asked by babyphat.1984 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I asked the question on how to help my brother whose wife is a crap starter to the point he'll probably end up in jail.Most responses I got were to mind my own business and I would probably end up the bad guy. Why are people so afraid to become involved when the situation is hurting someone they love? I already know its a possibility I could come out the loser but I don't care. I love my brother and I'm tired of this ungrateful witch jerking him around.

2007-06-01 07:50:11 · 21 answers · asked by darowdomo 6 in Marriage & Divorce

A man is like a cat,chase him and he will run
sit still and ignore him and he'll come purring at your feet.

2007-06-01 07:37:24 · 33 answers · asked by Gõlden angel 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-01 07:36:31 · 19 answers · asked by espirit_2000 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18, Im really attracted to older women more than the girls my age....why?

2007-06-01 07:33:01 · 11 answers · asked by Don Juan 1 in Singles & Dating

I am named after Bucks Fizz (yes... the 80's pop group), Cheryl Baker and Jay Aston- Cheryl Jay. Very sad decision on the part of my parents. Maybe they got carried away as i was born the year after they won Eurovision... sad!! Anyone else got any funny stories behind why they are named so??

2007-06-01 07:30:25 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Who tells the biggest lies? Men or Women? Men lie about their own whereabouts, whereas women lie about paternity. Men lie more often than women but women tell the biggest lies. If you agree state your case and if you disagree state yours. PEOPLE DON'T LET ANYONE GET AWAY WITH JUST SAYING RIDICULOUS THINGS ABOUT YOUR GENDER! i WANNA SEE WHO CAN MAKE THE BEST ARGUMENTS.

In conversations with women I have found some of them to agree but the female BIGOTS who are still out there could not prove their point, they just make BIAS statements that come out to be lies.

2007-06-01 07:27:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've been in love with my best friend from the moment i met her at uni two years ago, however i've always been too shy to let her know. i've wanted to, but i've always bottled it at the last moment. Trouble is she's about to go to argentina for a year as part of her degree and she leaves in three weeks. She means the world to me and i can't loose her but have i left it too late to tell her the truth? if so is there any other way i can stop her from going? Please help!

2007-06-01 07:27:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well he hits me on the *** and grabs my boobs and touches me down there well i like him but we dont go out so i dont like him touching me but i when i go to tell him to stop i cant what should i do

2007-06-01 07:26:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

him about certain hang-ups (alcohol/drugs/strip clubs/porn) I had due to a past abusive relationship. He accepted that. He has a standing guys night every Thursday which he knows is hard on me (ex would go to bars/clubs after work on Friday and wouldn't home til Sunday) but I'm trying to deal with it. Due to circumstances (my brother passed away, my daughter graduated and I had to have surgery) he hadn't been to guys night in about a month. I know he deserved this night out and I wasn't going to make him feel bad about going. However, he got really wasted and stayed out really late. Flash backs for me!!! He also said some things he wouldn't normally say that were kinda of hurtful to me (negative comments about marriage in general and a reference to his ex-wife). We didn't argue or anything but now it seems as though my guard is up. Just need perspective, should I talk to him about last night or just chalk it up as a well deserved night out and just let it go?

2007-06-01 07:26:22 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dont, but if I did would u be impressed, even if was an old one? or would if have to be a Ferrari Enzo to impress you?

2007-06-01 07:25:02 · 82 answers · asked by CoolGuy 1 in Singles & Dating

hi everyone!
you may know me because i asked you guys soo many questions. this guy that i told you about last time, well the story went furthur and i wanna make sure i am not wrong.
here i go: ok today i talekd to him in the queue for the resteraunt in our school and then i went and ate on an empty table with my friends and suddenely he appears in front of me with his food sits down and says my friends table does not have place so i am eating with you. we talked and then i finished so i went away.. anyway what reallly stops me from flirting back is that with his friends they did a deal, and he had to act like he loved her and she asked him out and he said that he was only acting and that he does not love her at all, but this girl is a complete loser and everyone makes fin of her, i am not popular or loser i am in the ''middle class''... anyways i wanna know if that guy may trick me or just fooling with me to upset me coz they talked of a deal and he did not want to tell me wat it is

2007-06-01 07:23:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my daughters middle daughter has been staying w/my cousin and his wife for approx. 2-3 months on what was agreed to be a temporary situation due to financial/physical reasons & both my cuz & wife are obsessed over this child. Child had hair to her butt & they (cuz &wife) cut her hair w/out consulting my daughter. They feel since they pay for her daycare, etc. they have the right and my daughter should not have had a problem with it, but she did & they got into a huge dispute & my daughter won't let her daughter go back to their house. What do you think is right.

2007-06-01 07:14:38 · 9 answers · asked by sissytwo 3 in Family

I really, really like this guy.. but he has bi-polar and is on several medications. Is this a horrible idea? Should I run or not judge him right away. I don't know much about the illness... thanks. oh, he's on 3 different meds. one of his meds is lithium... is that extreme or is it normal when you're bipolar to take lithium??

2007-06-01 07:10:34 · 33 answers · asked by Sophie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-01 07:08:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating