(that's a song for those that don't know .. you fill in your own blank) Okay, so my husband left me a month ago today & is already with another girl, who has a track record of going from guy to guy to guy. Her ex-husband has told me before that she is VERY superficial & loves it when guy's spend tons of money on her. Well, I found out he has maxed out his credit card (which had a ZERO balance 3 weeks ago) on taking her out to lunch & dinner, & buying her flowers (yesterday). Now that it's maxed out, he's pretty much BROKE! there's nothing in his bank account, & he has no more credit cards. When him & I were together he bought me extravagant things on special occasions, & I always told him "you didn't have to!" (I REALLY meant it too!!) & when he left, one thing he said he was tired of spending tons of money on me! so why is he being so STUPID & maxing out a credit card on this girl?!?!? Any bets as to how long before she dumps him now that he's broke?
2007-06-01 08:06:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
no, my name is not on the credit card, and i filed for separation a few hours ago ... in our state, we have to be separated for a year.
2007-06-01 08:15:08 · update #1
geeze, a few people took this a bit too seriously. I really wanted to know what's wrong with him, but the bet on when she'll dump him was a joke! Thanks to those who played along and GOT it!
2007-06-01 09:40:32 · update #2
Please consider yourself LUCKY - and for two reasons - not being on those "maxed" out accounts which invariably damage your own credit and secondly, for having such a flakey guy depart from your life.
ANY girl or guy who BELIEVES love is ABOUT MONEY and the careless spending of it, needs their head examined big time.
He's probably been dumped by now, or on the verge. Sweet justice? maybe. Watch out he doesn't slither back to you, and hon, if you have a backbone, you'll move forward and past this loser of a guy.
Sincerely,
Grace
2007-06-01 08:11:25 · answer #1 · answered by bunnyONE 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-24 22:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So if he left you and she's almost broke him, what difference does it make how long they'll be together?
Let him get what he deserves and since he's no longer in your life and the credit card isn't in your name, move on and get your own life without the drama.
2007-06-01 09:12:23 · answer #3 · answered by lwheavenlyangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, all I have to say is PRAY that you don't live in a communal property state AND that your name isn't on the credit cards...otherwise, YOU will be paying for your husband's whore's expensive taste too.
2007-06-01 08:12:12 · answer #4 · answered by Brutally Honest 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm have you started divorce proceedings yet? Cuz if you haven't, he could stick you with all these credit card bills. If you're still married, you're still legally responsible for such things. Also, make sure you don't have any money he can access ...
2007-06-01 08:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by LB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the first poster. He's an idiot. Wanna guess who the bigger idiot is? YOU!! Why? Because you are keeping tabs on what the ex does. You are wasting time and energy on what he is doing instead of using that time and energy to move on with your life. Who cares what he does? He left. Let him be gone. Move on with your life and don't bother yourself with what he is up to and who he is with now.
When the divorce is being finalized, make sure he is made responsible for paying his debts in writing on the divorce judgement. Otherwise, you will be sharing in his "brokeness".
2007-06-01 08:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
hmmm....how much do we win?? :) lol, i'll give it another week or so when she finds out he's broke and then she'll go find herself another sugar daddy, and your x will come crawling back realizing what he had, and you can happily slam the door in his face :) Good Luck!
2007-06-01 08:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh don't take him back. You'll be paying for his credit cards.
2007-06-01 08:14:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when she dumbs him and he comes 2 u tell him dont let the doorknob hit u where the good lord split u
2007-06-01 08:21:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT DOES IT MATTER HOW HE SPENDS HIS MONEY OR WHOM HE SPENDS IT ON...YOU ARE NO LONGER A PART OF HIS LIFE! GET OVER YOURSELF AND MOVE ON! STOP BEING PETTY AND NOSEY AND GETTING IN HIS BUSINESS...IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH YOU. IF HE WANTS TO SPEND HIS MONEY...LET HIM...IT'S NOT LIKE YOU ARE PAYING HIS BILLS! YOU SOUND VERY JEALOUS OF THIS OTHER WOMAN...DO YOU REALLY WANT TO PRESENT YOURSELF TO BE S PATHETIC THAT YOU HAVE TO CLING TO HIM AND ACT SO CHILDISH AS TO CALL HER NAMES AND BLATHER ON ABOUT HEARSAY THAT CAME FROM HER EX??? WHAT WERE YOU THINKING???GO OUT AND FIND YOURSELF ANOTHER MAN AND FIND HAPPINESS FOR YOURSELF...LET HIM GO...HE'S MOVED ON...THE ONLY WAY YOU ARE EVER GOING TO BE HAPPY IS TO GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE, STOP BEING SUCH A SMALL PERSON AND DISHONORING YOURSELF BY DISRESPECTING THIS OTHER WOMAN - AND FORGET ABOUT HIM AND LEAVE THEM ALONE!
BEST WISHES TO YOU!
2007-06-01 08:16:58 · answer #10 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋