2007-06-01 08:03:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Well...i've been to a Witness wedding, but not a reception. Im currently doing research on whats proper and what not, but does anyone have suggestions on how to blend your non-witness family, and et.al....
2007-06-01 08:07:24 · update #1
Just dont have imporper music that would make anyone offended. And make sure you have plenty of help from the ushers, as far as meal cordination. Ummm... If you have any more specific questions, u can send them to samz_25@hotmail.com
And in reply to the other answer, yes there is dancing at witness weddings, Im am one of them, and have not been to a wedding that didnt have any dancing. Like I said about the music, just dont have any innappropriate music to where ppl can get out of hand.
2007-06-01 08:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by Redbull 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
First of all, congratulations!!
I would suggest looking up the articles in the October 15, 2006 Watchtower. There are some good Bible principles found in the study articles that will help you and your future husband plan out your reception. Also, the index will have some good suggestions for you as well.
Much success!
2007-06-02 17:10:28 · answer #2 · answered by izofblue37 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
From what I've always heard, there is no dancing at receptions for Jehovah's Witnesses. That might be why you've never been to one. A lot of couples forgo them altogether. I would suggest a cake and punch reception with light background classical sacred music. Don't spend too much money and make it flashy, just a simple gathering of family and friends to celebrate your new lives together. Simple decorations and plain white linens should do it. I doubt that could upset either your Witness guests or non Witness guests. Everyone can respect a simple, elegant, low-key wedding reception. You could even have it in your church's fellowship hall if they have one. Makes it easier for guests to get from the ceremony to the reception. Good luck with your planning!
To the above poster, wasn't trying to offend anyone. Must have gotten some bad information. That's good to know, and thank you for correcting my misinformation so I don't seem rude or ignorant in the future. =)
2007-06-01 15:25:46 · answer #3 · answered by tehuskey513 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Congratulations!
2007-06-02 14:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by achtung_heiss 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask members of the congregation to see their wedding album. You'll get some great ideas from the pictures.
Older sisters usually LOVE to help with stuff like this.
2007-06-01 16:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by Carol D 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Keep is simple and inexpensive.
We don't do the toasts or the throwing of bouquet or garter, etc.
Or money dances with the bride, or freak dancing or bachelor parties, or other stupid stuff.
2007-06-01 21:25:24 · answer #6 · answered by sklemetti 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They have weddings? I thought the whole idea about the religion was not to celebrate anything. Do not give a gift because they dont believe in gift giving.
2007-06-01 23:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋