Family & Relationships - 1 June 2007

Be honest!

2007-06-01 06:14:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I would personally give up my dreams for my true love?

2007-06-01 06:12:55 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Several times I have found porn mags and pics that my husband hid. He says he will get rid of them, and then I find them again. I have cried to him and told him how much it hurts me and makes me feel like I am not enough for him. At first he said I wasn't having sex with him enough so I had sex with him more. This last time I found the pictures, before I told him I found them I asked him if he were still attracted to me and if he was satisfied with our sex life and he said yes. Then when I asked him why he was still printing porn pictures, he still tried to turn it around to something I am doing wrong. I am beginning to think he won't stop and I am just not enough for him. I am not unattractive, believe me I turn my share of heads. I can't trust him anymore and I am beginning to think this will lead to something else if it hasn't already. How do I handle this?

2007-06-01 06:11:59 · 23 answers · asked by tauremini_80 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-01 06:10:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i had this ex boyfriend and we were doing great but he end up knowing my older sister longer than me but one day she had found my boyfriend on myspace so she started tallking to him as well.. but he end up breaking up with me and end up with my older siter so a year past and they broke up and he started talkin to me telling me that he made a huge mistake of hookin up with my sister so im like wtf.. he's been talking to me for the past month and i told him that i will never be able to forget how much he meant to me because he hurt me so bad so he's also said that he is gonna try to do everything he can to win me back...so im scared of making another mistake

2007-06-01 06:09:41 · 7 answers · asked by boobshley 1 in Singles & Dating

he went drinking at lunch with some people from work. he came home drunk and i went shopping and took his phone with me. i got a text from a girl he works with i pretended to be him and texted back a few times to see what she would say she didnt text anything incriminating so i called her and asked her why she was texting my husband[after i told her i would kick her ***] she said that he told her that he was divorced and that he tried to kiss her. she said nothing happened that she has a boyfriend.when i asked him about it he said he doesnt know why she was texting him and that he didnt tell her he was divorced or try to kiss her he said she was a temp worker and she has only been there for a week and he doesnt even know her that well the reason she has his number is explainable im really hurt over all this but want to trust my husband he is not really the cheating type but i have trust issues my ex cheated not sure what to believe please help

2007-06-01 06:09:00 · 18 answers · asked by sunshinednmi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

this guy i have been messin wit for about a month t and he has clamydia and he gave it to me!!!how should i confront him about it and plus i thnk he been messing wit some other gurls but i dont know for sure and he swaers he dont den he blames me for ******* wit other dudes i dont one day he wants to see me the next day he is madd at me for no reason eerytime i see him i fall in love over again i cant stop thinking about it i want to end it but i dont what u think?should i quit seeing him

2007-06-01 06:08:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what do you do when your boyfriend says mean things to you but when i try to talk to him he says it was just a joke..what do i do....help!!!!

2007-06-01 06:06:28 · 16 answers · asked by co co 1 in Singles & Dating

that one of your friends was going to throw his life away by smoking pot and go out with a girl that looks like a fish (the way her eyes pop out is creepy) when he can do alot better. What would you do and say?

2007-06-01 06:05:22 · 12 answers · asked by Jak 2 in Friends

shouldn't he be married already?

2007-06-01 06:04:15 · 6 answers · asked by justme 2 in Singles & Dating

So this is a little wierd, but if you've kept up with me on yahoo answers, you know my ****.
Anyway, my neighbor raped me. He spent the next few days running in and out of his apartment and smoking and looking nervous. He called one of our mutual friends because he wanted to talk about what happened with her.
I reported him to our University and told our neighbors about it. He's still saying he thinks it was consensual. I was drunk. He admits that.
Anyway, everyone is saying he feels terrible.

I don't know what to think. I typed out a list, very unemotionally of everything that happened and he is reading it now (I presume). I asked him to fill in the blanks of what happened. I doubt he'll do it unless I put pressure on him again.

Anyway, does he sound like a first time offender? I really don't want to ruin his life, but I want him to face what he did and how wrong it was. And NEVER DO IT AGAIN.

What do you think?

2007-06-01 06:01:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What should I do if that happens?

2007-06-01 05:59:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a guy that has shown quite a bit of interest in me over the past couple of months, but he never verbalizes anything. He always initiates meaningless conversation. I think he may be trying to figure me out, and I've probably been sending him some mixed signals just because we've known each other for a few years, and his change in behavior took me by surprise. He recently went through a divorce, and I know that I would want something more serious than he is ready for right now. But I'm tired of trying to figure each other out and playing mind games, as we are both grown. I am definitely interested in being with him and know that if I never pursue him, I'll always wonder what could have been. I am ready to just tell him to give me a call once he is off the rebound! I don't know how else to handle this. Is this going to offend him? What would you do in the situation? Any advice is appreciated and thanks in advance.

2007-06-01 05:59:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I don't really keep in touch with our friends anymore because either they still want to party like rockstars, or they are married and too busy for us. Also, our sisters/brothers are all married with too many kids!! It would be too much on them. I also thought you had to have a bridal party for the witnessing of documents.

2007-06-01 05:58:46 · 21 answers · asked by ♥ 3 in Weddings

my partner and i live together , he is the only son and lives with his mother as well who is a widow.
since i came into that house ,she never handled me well like a "human being " which she even told me straight on my face.

My partner has a history of psychological problems and he has been adviced many times to leave that house and go far away from her but for the love of his mother he never did that.

every relationship he has ever had, she made sure that it could not last.

sometime she even insults my partner in my presence and says to him to most unspeakable things a mother could say to her child.

she said to me that her greatest wish is that her son stays single with no family and children for the rest of his life just like he made her stay single when her husband died.
for the sake of my partner i say nothing to her even as he watches her insult me .

Is this really normal? am i too quiet ?
someone help me please

2007-06-01 05:57:46 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my wife and me had an argument on monday at breakfast
we still havent spoke to each other all week she has went to her mothers after work to get the kids her mum watches them
she comes home around 9pm and goes to bed ive txt her phone today to fix things an ive had no reply what should i do
its not fair on the kids we have been together for 10 yrs 2kids
and 1 on the way im honestly ready to call it a day advice welcome realy truly frustrated

2007-06-01 05:57:17 · 4 answers · asked by jackmeeko 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am the maid of honor at my friend's wedding. What would be a good gift I could give them?? I want to get them something special but am a little strapped for cash with the dress, shoes, upcoming bachelorette party, and hair & makeup for the big day. Any suggestions????

2007-06-01 05:54:37 · 20 answers · asked by legends_chick 3 in Weddings

Ok I am seprated My X still pays all the bills. Imean everything.. Even if I want to go out with friends.He does this because we have three young children at home 2,4.8. I have never work once I had children.. I am stay at home mom.... We didn't want to change their lives so much. It was already messed up with us fight all the time and him leaving.. We thought for now this was better for our children not going to court right away..So my question is I went out with two differnt men and both of them had a promblem with my x still paying for me... We are not friend we do not hang out.. We only talk for the kids or about bills..Both of them said they felt funny that another man was still so involed in my life... What do you think and why...No mean answers like get a job,,. We have a disabled son I am home to make a better life for my kids.. Thanks...

2007-06-01 05:53:26 · 16 answers · asked by Mamabear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-01 05:48:25 · 6 answers · asked by L 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy 2 weeks ago. We went out on 3 dates and on each one he took me out to dinner. Now he wants me to come over his house and watch a movie. Do you think he's being cheap? Do you think I should say no if he doesn't ask me to go out? Do you think he's just trying to get lucky?

2007-06-01 05:47:43 · 22 answers · asked by pink lady 2 in Singles & Dating

Well it's like this. We have been together for almost 4 years now...yet recently her feelings to explore have taken over her and she is going to study abroad this summer and has started liking this guy in her work place. She wants this summer after studying abroad to try to find out how she feels about me but says currently that all her feels toward me have become those of being a best friend rather than a boyfriend. I really miss her and feel that she is the love of my life. Weird thing is though that when i try to hold her and stuff she and I both feel happy and safe but by the next day it's like how it was before again...anyone have an idea of why this is and should I wait for her and keep hoping that she may come back for me after the summer?

2007-06-01 05:43:27 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We R secreatly married.I can't stay without him,But How 2 make him understand?I LOVE HIM...........

2007-06-01 05:42:11 · 10 answers · asked by sush 1 in Marriage & Divorce

question was self explanatory

2007-06-01 05:40:19 · 8 answers · asked by Jak 2 in Singles & Dating

Potential friendship in the making?
I have a friend that was my former college teacher... we talk alot on email since the class has been over and today we met for lunch. We aren't good friends yet but it would be nice to really get to know her. (we are both female by the way). Like when she saw me she greeted me with a hug and said "Hey, Girly!" I was just wondering if this means she sees me as a good friend like I see her as. She told me that she wanted to go get pedicures soon. She is pregnant also and about to have her 1st child and I feel that when she has her baby in a month or so she will forget about me. Does she seem like in a way where she wants to get to know me more and hang out and all... What do you think? Also.. I tried to give her my number and told her to call me but she says email would be best for her right now.. so that makes me think shes not comfortable enough with me like she doesnt know me enough yet.

2007-06-01 05:34:38 · 2 answers · asked by pink_flamingo1211 1 in Singles & Dating

what is the one thing you would miss the most

2007-06-01 05:33:16 · 18 answers · asked by L 3 in Singles & Dating

For your friends wedding?
As an invited guest...

2007-06-01 05:32:29 · 15 answers · asked by 90304 4 in Weddings

My husband doesn't work while I do and he stays home to look after the kids. He leaves them in their rooms for quite a large portion of the day which I know isn't right and arrangments have been made to stop this but is it normal for children's fathers to want to spend as little time with them as possible as "they fry his brain" by going on all the time.

Any experience is much appreciated as I am actually at the point of leaving him as I don't see it can be right.

2007-06-01 05:32:16 · 25 answers · asked by Yoga Wifey 3 in Family

i always thought it was gross before - but now that i am in love with him - i actually think its sorta cute and fuzzy. besides, if he shaves it - it will be all stubbly and ouchy! am i the only one??

2007-06-01 05:29:40 · 12 answers · asked by sweetikins 2 in Singles & Dating

what would you do?

2007-06-01 05:27:59 · 12 answers · asked by sunshinembf 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is to soon, I would'nt on the first date! but what would be considered to soon for a guy to not have respect for you & consider you easy?.

2007-06-01 05:25:40 · 41 answers · asked by on-point 5 in Singles & Dating