We R secreatly married.I can't stay without him,But How 2 make him understand?I LOVE HIM...........
2007-06-01 05:42:11 · 10 answers · asked by sush 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What’s the proof of your marriage? Where it took place? Who preformed your marriage? Who were all the witnesses to this marriage? If you have answer to all these question then go & catch hold of his collar & enforce your right of a legally wedded wife & make him clear about your any extramarital affairs to him. As a wife you have right to live with him & provide you a home & maitenance, failing which it will amounts to domestic violence on his part. Hope you understand your legal rights as a wife!
2007-06-01 19:39:02 · answer #1 · answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Diegest the following Facts
1. He is not a man, caz he is afraid of so many people. Otherwise he'd have declared your marriage open. Cowards cannot be lovers / Husbands.
1A. Out of this panic situation, he is throwing his frustrations on you and he is not able to console himself for lost dowry, lost glory of dignified marriage, etc., etc.,
2. U made greatest sacrifice in keeping your marriage a secrete and still shared bed with him.
3. Still this PARANOID fellow is not trusting you.
if one trusts that the other can harm him he can become an enemy.
if one trusts that this dog is capable of biting him, the dog becomes dangerous.
if one believes that with another a benefit can happen, such another can become friend of him
if one believes that the other is "LIFE", then only the other can live as LIFE PARTNER
This fundamental is defeated. You are no more his life partner as per the "TRUST" theory. What if you talk like him to him? Goes mad and talks about leaving you.
If this goes right either he is a PARANOID (Pity him, if you can love him) or HE IS preparing a ground to leave you. (You may leave him before he tains your future 40 years)
You are the best judge of your own situation, based on the above analysis.
2007-06-04 03:57:16 · answer #2 · answered by auditorsudhakar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is suspicious about your having an extra marital affair though you don't have one, then your claim that you love each other madly can not be true. If he is accusing you without reason, you have to confront him with the truth in order to remove the wrong impression from his mind. Shedding tears would do you no good.
2007-06-01 13:24:28 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In order to be married you are going to have to trust each other. If he does not trust you, it is not going to work. Talk to him and let him know how it makes you feel to have him say that you are being unfaithful. Good Luck!
2007-06-01 12:47:26 · answer #4 · answered by frawlicious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that u really loves him and if he dont understands u then tell him to bring a proof of your affair
2007-06-02 05:45:50 · answer #5 · answered by neeru 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thisll sound lyk d most common answer, but i think u shud just tok it out wid him n tell him tht u love only him n no1 else, n hes gota trust u; or else theres no use of getin married...n if he keeps trackin u around(whr r u, wat u doin kinds)...thn ask him t give u ur own space....well, wish u luck!
2007-06-01 13:33:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple... Speak out what ever it is and sort it out.
All the best.
2007-06-04 20:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by Monster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get him another wife, and then he will understand your worth.
2007-06-01 12:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spelling is one of your problems, but you have much worse ones...............WHY would you be secretly married. If you expect someone to help you, more details are needed.
2007-06-01 12:47:43 · answer #9 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to trust you or its not gonna work out.
2007-06-01 12:45:34 · answer #10 · answered by Watch. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋