Family & Relationships - 1 June 2007

I am a 25 year old and a new father and soon to be husband. Me and my fiance met about a year ago and she just gave birth to our daughter. We are not getting married because we have a child but because we love each other. It just so happens that I am in the military and I will be getting out soon. I am orrigionally from Pennsylvania. She is 19 and just graduated high school ayear ago. I live in a state (Arkansas) where good paying, skilled jobsare very scarce. The majority of jobs in the area are low paying factory/warehouse jobs. I am forced to look out of state for decent paying jobs. My wife to be grew up in a small town and has lived a very sheltered life. She says that shes willing to move away with me if we have to. Her parents never said it was a bad idea but I can tell that they are not to crazy about the idea of me taking a job out of state. What should I do?

2007-06-01 05:25:04 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok..if one day,u want to make friend with a group of people.when u talk to them nicely,they will scold u...after a while u heard from them gossip behind ur back tat they hate u alot.... but u didnt offence them at all,u just want to make friend with them...moreover they used to make fun of u when someone made u cried..will u feel despair and sad???

2007-06-01 05:24:14 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

The reception hall has basketball goals that I am wanting to cover up....I am wanting to know where I can by draping for the ceiling and how to actually make a ceiling canopy.....thank you so much for your help!

2007-06-01 05:17:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-01 05:15:17 · 32 answers · asked by dawn t 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-01 05:15:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm turning 30 this year and had a major meltdown. I have been drunk everyday for the last 6 months, hated my job, wanted to end my life, lost our baby and had a couple of affairs on my wife. I recently came to terms with what I did and sobered up. I also told her everything and she is confused on what to do. How can I gain her trust again?

2007-06-01 05:14:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

When using this site, you build up quite a mental history of users. Actually you can be psychoanalyzed by anyone and analyze others, at least it’s fair. Someone left a comment on one of my questions and I decided to track this guy. This is a breeding ground for extreme people, nuts. So, I followed him throughout the world. It’s fun to find the real you.
Who was it...?
Come to find out, if you have a very unique ID, you will show up in Google and it will also try to match your ID with relevant words... interesting? Check yourself before you wreck yourself. Your postings, lead to your REAL identity. You can be pin pointed by your Q&A.
Anyone can see through a lie because you build up patterns.
I didn't mean to freak anyone out. Just be careful.
If someone wanted to get carried away, they can identify when you are home, away, in your car, walking down the street… any demographic they choose to label.
Now, you are going to look at my record... if you do, at least answer

2007-06-01 05:12:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-01 05:11:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I look? I'm just really down on myself lately and need to get some of my confidence back.


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2007-06-01 05:10:04 · 5 answers · asked by Jen_n_TX 3 in Singles & Dating

I am thinking about moving into an apartment and live alone. Would that be a great Idea?

2007-06-01 05:08:45 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the boyfriend says he understands the situation and that I was weak. But that he can't trust me not to get in that situation again. And that I always do things without thinking.
Fair? Unfair?

2007-06-01 04:58:00 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-01 04:57:00 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I know I had great advice from all of you out there... I am wondering if I should be lowering his child support payments if he cannot afford food, gas, rent, car payments, bankruptcy payments, 1000.00+ in parking tickets and numerous pay day loans..I know he can file with the courts to have child support reduced ,,, if this happens should I comply before it goes to court or see what a judge would say???
As of yesterday the father of 3 will not see or speak to his kids until he straightens out his life... blaming me for taking his blood away etc. etc. acts like he is the only person who has separated from his kids... he had plenty of money when we separated to live on ... he blew it on bad choices and now can't afford to see his kids because he has no money for gas etc. food for them etc.

2007-06-01 04:53:11 · 32 answers · asked by Realistic 1 in Marriage & Divorce

he s girlfriend is pregnant. I don t like that girl, i dont know how to be happy for him. I dont want to make contact with her... i know im wrong if he choose her i should be happy for her a like her but i dont, instead i feel really sad and im even crying.... is he s girlfriend but i know she got pregnat unpurpose. please some advise.

2007-06-01 04:52:07 · 42 answers · asked by lissy 3 in Family

Next week it's going to be our 1 year anniversary that my boyfriend and I are going out and I want to do something special and I want it to be a surprise but I don't l know what? Can anyone give me any advice what I should do and tell me what will make my guy really freak out? Thank you I really looking forward to your answers

2007-06-01 04:45:33 · 6 answers · asked by Red_Rose 5 in Singles & Dating

she doesn't want to see me happy. i'm 22 years old and a born again christian but with what she is doing am sure that even if Jesus came back today, i would not go to heaven. when i was 9 years old old, she left me with my grand mother and never came back until after i was 16 years old. i have now lived with her for about four years and all i do every day is wish that she never even came back because she has brought hell in my life. she treats me like a dummy because i don't argue back with her (when she is shouting at me i just keep quiet because i don't want to disrespect her - even though she does'nt love me). she took all my banking information and my credit card the moment i started doing work study in school and i don't even have a clue of what she does with my money. she is so difficult and self centered, short tempered and difficult to talk to. please help me. all i'm thinking is running away but i have no place to go. i still value my salvation and want to exercise my faith.

2007-06-01 04:41:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm forty -- five years old, and I've never been married . I feel insulted and offended that not one of the women I've known has wanted me to be her husband . Am I wrong for feeling this way ? If I shouldn't feel this way, why not ? Why is it wrong ? I don't have what it takes to be single . The single life is a big fat zero ! If Jimmy Jerk and Andy the Abuser won't let themselves be unattached, why should I ? I hate being single .

2007-06-01 04:40:00 · 5 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Singles & Dating

me and my husband been together since we were teens we are now married with two kids. should i be the wife of the year and have a three some. it would be a surprise for my husband. i think he would enjoy it. lol

2007-06-01 04:37:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK.Well this guy I sorta like,I liked him alot bofore he was a jerk to me.I was laying on the couch,and he come over there with me and started making move's on me and tried to kiss me the deal is ive never been kissed!!! omg! im only 14 and I feel like a late bloomer cause everybody else has been kissed.But that's not what's bothering me,it's why doe's my whole body overcome with fear and butterflies? Is it cause I like him or it's cause ive never been kissed or is it the fact he want's to have sex and Im not ready (and I want to wait till im married) Thanks so much for your answers and God bless.

2007-06-01 04:37:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well a couple of days ago a girl, who had a sexy voice started calling the house and thought i was somebody else(she looked my name up in the phonebook and thought i was another John Sacro) the John Sacro that was her boyfriend, so i decided to play the part, of course i didnt tell my wife, because she is a very angry person, untill one day the girl called my house and left a really long love message, and my wife heard it, and i said "its not what it looks like" then she said "ha like you would cheat on ME" and she said it in a smug way.... i am a little heavy and my wife is way better looking than me and i have happy to have her and i would never be unfaithful, but its was just the smug way that she said it, i talked to her about it and, she said it was because she trusted me, that's bull s hit!!!! she said it because she is better looking than me, i wouldnt think that it would hurt so much that she DOESNT think i would cheat on her, should i get a bunch of friends that are girls?

2007-06-01 04:37:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he is always yelling at me for something.it seems like i always cop the blame and everyone else who does the same things never get told off. The other people at my work have noticed him picking on me in particular aswell. what is his problem?

2007-06-01 04:35:13 · 7 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Your bf/gf told you a person of the opposite sex that they used to work with tried to crack on to them, but it took them 5 years to tell you about it? And when you query it further at a later date (say the next day) they say oh I just made it up.

2007-06-01 04:32:34 · 11 answers · asked by Angielicious 1 in Marriage & Divorce

to a friend you are worried about? She quit a high power job and has nothing to pay for her expenses. Her mate left her yesterday and she says she doesn't trust anyone and feels hopeless. I'm really worried she may hurt herself. We live hours apart....what can I do??

2007-06-01 04:32:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

into the basement with me. The dog sheds a lot, but I clean it up pretty good. My workshop is there, but she never comes down to see me. It makes me kind of sad.

2007-06-01 04:30:33 · 22 answers · asked by Sausage Fingers™ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm 20 years old and was kicked out of the house @ 18. I've been struggling ever since as far as basically everything goes; because my parents just threw me out without having taught me a thing.

my mother is a very strong alcoholic and my father a very big enabler in her life. my mom is very emotionally abusive and my sister and i have taken the brunt of it most of our lives.

anyway i guess i just need some advice. my sister is 14 and already headed for trouble. she's already not passed the 8th grade, and i was the same way only i didn't graduate high school (i went to summer school.)

I have very significant anxiety problems, as well as issues with msyelf. I don't want my sister to turn out the same way. i wouldn't by any means give my parents the parenting of the year award...it gets so much more complicated than that but this is all i can fit so it will have to do. I'm just very torn.

2007-06-01 04:29:44 · 5 answers · asked by Nicole Britnee [live.laugh.love] 1 in Family

My ex was abusive and tried to hurt me physically and scare me when I left the marriage. He was arrested and is on a year of probation. He is now calling me and asking for me to go to counseling with him for a month once a week. I am about 8 weeks away from my divorce being final. He says that he wants to show me now that he has changed and his priorities are better now. He says he has had 9 months of counseling and is a different person. I don’t believe him. Everything in me says NO to this. But then there is a very small part of me that wants to give him this chance in counseling. I am not moving back in with him or anything. But I just do not want to open that door again. Of course there is small part of me that still loves him and all the good memories. But I have changed so much. I am stronger , more independent and vocal. I can’t go back to being passive and allowing someone to control me. He says that he would not control me but I just can’t trust him. I am afraid that if I say no he will do something. I do not want to live in fear any longer. I was just wondering if anyone has ever been here before?

2007-06-01 04:24:58 · 13 answers · asked by renee125 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex has recently said that all he can offer me at the momemnt is us talking once in a while and he doesnt think we should see each other? It is hard but I m now deciding to move on with my life. I usuallay call and txt etc but I have decided not to any more and just cut my losses. We usually speak like every day and have not really gone a day withjout speaking or txtn do you think he will notice and will he miss me?? But I have decided to be strong and not give in to him

2007-06-01 04:24:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My cousin is graduating from Loyola High School and is going to be going to USC. I originally thought to get him something from his college but I'm not sure, their clothing and items are expensive, and being a college student myself, i cant really afford it. Any ideas? It would be greatly appreciated since i have to give it to him tomorrow, haha.

2007-06-01 04:19:43 · 4 answers · asked by Andrew L 1 in Family

When we started going out she just broke up with her ex but he kept disturbing her. Many a times i had to deal with this emotion trauma bcos she is my first and i didn't know if she might want him back. Right now i'm emtional tied to her but she cares little. When we even started she told me not to put my whole heart in it in case we don't work. Right now i don't know what to do, bcos it's like i'm being wasted on her. Is there hope or should i just tell her i want to leave.

2007-06-01 04:18:18 · 10 answers · asked by Kiddo C 1 in Singles & Dating

want any of my male colleaques to call me!sohe think m cheatin him so how can show him my innonces,i've tried so many times but to no avail .plizzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help m really stressed

2007-06-01 04:18:18 · 6 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Friends