me and my husband been together since we were teens we are now married with two kids. should i be the wife of the year and have a three some. it would be a surprise for my husband. i think he would enjoy it. lol
2007-06-01 04:37:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
only if you keep it to a one time thing. Remember if you let him taste blood, that will only make him want more. You might become the coolest wife one time and if you never do it again you will become a *****. Your husband will probably give her more attention and you will feel ignored and that will make you angry and so forth.... Fantasies only sound good in our head or in books.
2007-06-01 04:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am sure you both would enjoy it but you both need to communicate before it happens. communication is first and formost in adding spice in a couples love life. If you are both open minded and feel there will be no remorse, set it up as a suprise but I would not just spring it on him without at least talking about the possibility first
Good Luck. And yes you would be the wife of the year.
2007-06-01 05:20:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jerry garcia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have always said that what consenting adults do behind closed doors is THEIR business! If that includes the neighbor and her husband, then knock yourselves out!
PS: Make sure that if you do this, that it's ONLY about the sex. Do NOT invite over one of your friends that your husband has always had the hots for, or somebody he's always been attracted to. Find somebody he's never met and won't ever meet again. And ALWAYS make sure that he knows that it will ALWAYS be more fun to do this stuff with you than with anybody else!
2007-06-01 05:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tricky one. If it were me I would say yes. Go for it. There are some things you might want to check on first. Try to see how he would feel about it without asking him. Maybe grab a penthouse or something that has questions in it about threesomes and just ask him what he thinks about it. Then check with the girl to make sure she is into it. You could invite her over and leave some magazines in sight for her to see. If she is repulsed she is not your girl. Good luck
2007-06-01 04:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by dave n 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are both OK with it...why not? Good luck finding the extra girl....
Just a word of advice though, we dabble in the same types of things and niether of us feel like surprise is a good idea. Talk it over first. Many times people dont react the way you think they will.
2007-06-01 04:50:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What a way to go out on top!
Your husband falls in love with your threesome partner and your left with three kids. good job!
as I remember my vows I don't remember the third person to hold and to keep?
put this silly thought out of you mind and you may live to see mom of the year and not lastest divorce woman on block!!!!
2007-06-01 04:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by kiphyn b 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wife of the year LOL! Cook a good meal, I think you will come closer :p
I think you should read previous posts regarding threesomes, you are playing with fire if you go for it, and run the risk of your hubby liking the other girl more than you....
2007-06-01 04:43:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Glad that my wife does not think that would be the perfect gift or surprise for me. She would not win wife of the year, she would win "ex" of the year for a stunt like that.
2007-06-01 04:44:30 · answer #8 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are a little to freaky msfreaky. something tells me this would be more for you than your husband.
i would venture to guess that you're prone to thoughts like this and other infidelities. and maybe have acted out some of your crazy asinine thoughts.
for you i would advise telling him your idea. that way he can know just what type of wife he has. my response to something like this would be to send you promptly on your way to lala land which is apparently where you reside if you think this is a good idea.
2007-06-01 04:56:10 · answer #9 · answered by tejanomoreno 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't know about wife of the year part. you should talk to your husband about it. i have tried once with mine and i have been with mine since highschool. we also have two kids together.
2007-06-01 07:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋