OK.Well this guy I sorta like,I liked him alot bofore he was a jerk to me.I was laying on the couch,and he come over there with me and started making move's on me and tried to kiss me the deal is ive never been kissed!!! omg! im only 14 and I feel like a late bloomer cause everybody else has been kissed.But that's not what's bothering me,it's why doe's my whole body overcome with fear and butterflies? Is it cause I like him or it's cause ive never been kissed or is it the fact he want's to have sex and Im not ready (and I want to wait till im married) Thanks so much for your answers and God bless.
2007-06-01 04:37:31 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok do u have or ever had a boyfriend before? which is probably no cause u've never been kissed but if u did'nt its just u think now u r his girlfriend which is quite possibly what he thinks....
2007-06-01 04:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok... your 14... since you have the thought of having sex after married then take it..!
focus on this... stay on what you think you want...
14 isnt a late blommer.. i got mine at 18... then i must be a later bloomer right ?
when it come it comes... that guy just come over to u and start kissing i mean without you saying you are ok with it or what... does he knows u like him ? and are you sure he like you ? is he the kind of guy who is very easy ?
its up to your own opinion...
your whole body comes with fears and butterfiles is most likely because its the 1st time you experience kiss.. and you do not know what to do.. and also because you have feelings for him definately...
about him kissing you.. do you think that your relationship is up to another level ? anyway a guy sometimes being a jerk to you is actually because he likes you unless he is jerk as in playboy or so... else.. like mouth-war and sort of bullying you is trying to get your attention..
so good luck.. and think well.. and i believe u do..
2007-06-01 14:21:57 · answer #2 · answered by Daydream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The butterlies might be that your nervous, or you like him, or a combination of both. It's normal to feel this way, and I'm sure some of your more "experienced" friends still feel butterflies as well. If he wants to kiss you, this doesn't mean he wants to have sex with you (whicyou're way to young for anyway). He may, believe it or not, just want to kiss you. He probably shouldn't have tried while you were laying down though -- that was definitely pushing it.
2007-06-01 11:45:12 · answer #3 · answered by Stephen L 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋