When we started going out she just broke up with her ex but he kept disturbing her. Many a times i had to deal with this emotion trauma bcos she is my first and i didn't know if she might want him back. Right now i'm emtional tied to her but she cares little. When we even started she told me not to put my whole heart in it in case we don't work. Right now i don't know what to do, bcos it's like i'm being wasted on her. Is there hope or should i just tell her i want to leave.
2007-06-01 04:18:18 · 10 answers · asked by Kiddo C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds like you're worth more than what she's giving to you. I'd find someone else who really loves and appreciates you for who you are. I'm sure there's someone out there for you. Keep looking. Don't settle.
2007-06-01 04:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by Sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like an unbalanced relationship. You give give, she takes. You never get anything back.
If she told you not to put your heart into it from the beginning then that should of been a red flag for you. When ppl do that they are just making sure they are letting you know they;ll do you wrong later but for now just be warned.
If she is not willing to work for the relationship I don't see why you should be the one doing everything. You know what's best for you , even if it hurts, you will find a better person out there for you.
2007-06-01 04:30:38 · answer #2 · answered by Samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel like your wasting your time on her, you probably are. She's got issues to deal with & you don't need to get caught up in them. The first red flag went up when she told you not to put your whole heart in it in case it didn't work. That should have been a giant clue of what was to come. Find someone who is truly worthy of your love & attention & who hasn't just broken up with someone. Good luck!!!
2007-06-01 04:27:51 · answer #3 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump her and find someone who will love to spend time with you they say a good meeting place for men to find women is barnes and noble how old are you
2007-06-01 04:22:23 · answer #4 · answered by Effie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
leave..it's tough but your a rebound for her..get a grl who actually want a bf..not someone to replace the old bf
2007-06-01 04:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by mon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON BEFORE IS TO LATE FOR YOUR HART
AND MINE!!!!
IS GOING TO BE A BUMPY ROAD UNTIL YOU FEEL ANY BETTER WITH OUT HER
BUT YOU WORTH IT TO HAVE SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU AND TO BE THERE FOR YOU.
SHE NEVER GOING TO BE YOURS.
I AM SO SO SORRY!!!
2007-06-01 04:25:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
time for the dump truck
2007-06-01 04:21:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her u wanna leave and find yourself a good woman
2007-06-01 04:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Susana M. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her.
2007-06-01 04:20:26 · answer #9 · answered by Moondog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you breaking up with her will show how much
she lost...
think about it...
2007-06-01 04:21:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋