relationship in crisis dating this guy for 3 years and he?

Question

want any of my male colleaques to call me!sohe think m cheatin him so how can show him my innonces,i've tried so many times but to no avail .plizzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help m really stressed

Answer 1

He thinks you are cheating because your co-workers are calling you? Are they calling after hours, late at night? Or during business hours?

People believe what they want to believe. You can't change his mind. You can suggest counseling and ask him what he needs to 'trust' you. Sometimes people that accuse their partner of cheating are actually doing the cheating themselves. Have you thought about that?

Answer 2

When you go somewhere tell him exactly where you're going and call him when you get there. Only do this for a few weeks. Tell him you're going to do it so he doesn't think you're checking up on him. It sounds like he's just insecure but sometimes when a guy is cheating he thinks that if he's doing it than so are you. Also confront him about it, find out his reasons for thinking you're cheating and tell him how you feel.

Answer 3

Sorry to say but you need to get out of this relationship. There is nothing you can do to keep her from thinking you are cheating, it's just the way she is. If you fix this one problem, a different reason for her to think that will will come up. You don't need this in your life, find someone else.

Answer 4

stressed about a guy who doesn't appreciate u? omg grow up, show him a little bit of Ur dark side and he will come to his senses if he really cares about u.

Answer 5

He cant love you that much as there's no trust. It's a shame because it sounds like the loves all one way. try to arrange to spend more timw with him.

Answer 6

get out..he is controlling and abusive and most likely is cheating ..many men will accuse of cheating if they are doing it. good luck