well a couple of days ago a girl, who had a sexy voice started calling the house and thought i was somebody else(she looked my name up in the phonebook and thought i was another John Sacro) the John Sacro that was her boyfriend, so i decided to play the part, of course i didnt tell my wife, because she is a very angry person, untill one day the girl called my house and left a really long love message, and my wife heard it, and i said "its not what it looks like" then she said "ha like you would cheat on ME" and she said it in a smug way.... i am a little heavy and my wife is way better looking than me and i have happy to have her and i would never be unfaithful, but its was just the smug way that she said it, i talked to her about it and, she said it was because she trusted me, that's bull s hit!!!! she said it because she is better looking than me, i wouldnt think that it would hurt so much that she DOESNT think i would cheat on her, should i get a bunch of friends that are girls?
2007-06-01 04:37:21 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
well that depends....do you really want to be married to a hot woman??? dont be an idiot!!!! if it really bothers you that bad go to a counselor or loose weight or something but dont put your marrige on the line.
2007-06-01 04:50:31 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I answered the one about your wife not renewing your vows, and now this..
You KNOW she is angry and you still asked her to renew your vows.? You have to have ice in your veins or be completely clueless.
And now you think the answer is to give her more reason to be pissed at you? make her jealous? She should dump you on your "little heavy" ****.
You feel inadequate to the task of having this woman in your life, so you do things to knock her down a peg. VEry childish and insecure of you.
That is not romantic and proud. That is a recipe for divorce.
She married you for some reason. Why not REMIND her of what that was-like being kind and loving-helping around the house---not playing games with some girl on the phone.
You are palying a very dangerous game. If she already feels like she "married down", you have to remind her everyday that you think she is wonderful!
And get yourself in shape and good health, so you can keep up with her. No more excuses, work on yourself first.
2007-06-01 06:17:44 · answer #2 · answered by Lottie W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you purposely be an a.s.s like that to the woman you love?
Why would you purposely try to hurt her or make her angry if you love her?
I don't think you should do that, marriage is not about trying to make your wife or husband jealous or angry.....
You should be glad she thinks you would not cheat on her?Obviously she trust you, don't try and ruine a good thing...Just let it go and be the hones,t faithful man you are and love your wife for who she is..
If you have a problem with what she said or how she said it just talk to her, don't make matters worse because that will run your marriage right into the ground..
Good luck!
2007-06-01 05:17:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kasja 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious?
Okay...first of all, quit playing childish games on the phone. Seems like she does trust you - and your words of how "happy you are to have her" makes it seem as if your wife settled for you.
Stop with the games - leave the girls alone and try dropping a few of those pounds...
I cannot really believe that you are complaining that your wife trusts you enough to believe that you would never cheat on her.
and by the way...I certainly do hope that your wife is better looking than you! Aren't all women better looking than their husbands?
2007-06-01 04:58:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you want to be the victim in this but you just aren't.
i think she was masking what she really felt when she said "like you would ever cheat on me" she may have felt hurt and maybe a little insecure.
so you talked to your wife about her trusting you and your problem with that?
you need some help bubba. your wife to the high road. me i would have been pissed know my g/f or b/f or wife or husband was playing on the phone with someone or chatting online with someone. you should thank your wife, apologize for your mistakes and stop being a whiny baby.
2007-06-01 05:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by tejanomoreno 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe you need to work on you self image because you seem a little insecure to me! Maybe your wife does trust you,so why does that bother you! Especially when your *** was the one in the wrong! now if you were my husband we would've called that number back and then you there would have been more problems! SO you need to be grateful she didn't look further into the problem! Be you have trust in you relationship!
2007-06-01 05:02:06 · answer #6 · answered by erica k 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you want too? and why play with that girl? and being angry or smug as you say is a defense mechanism. it hurt your wife to hear the message and she had questions in her mind about the situation. you better start talking to your wife and get this situation ironed out before it gets to be a bigger problem.
2007-06-01 04:46:35 · answer #7 · answered by crazicowgirl 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Don't compound the mistake with the girl on the phone with another mistake by trying to "prove" something to your wife.
You know now that you shouldn't have let that girl think you were someone else. If she calls again, you have to tell her the truth.
So far as your wife, she sounds pretty full of herself. Don't let her make you feel inferior. If YOU think you are "heavy", then do something about it for you, not for her or anyone else. Good luck!
2007-06-01 04:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
a million. Marry somebody who does no longer have confidence in cheating. (to illustrate: Does your date admit to having cheated contained in the previous and then make excuses for it? that could desire to be a pink flag.) 2. do no longer cheat your self. (some women folk cheat in retribution after their husbands cheat.) 3. paintings on your marital subject concerns, do no longer in ordinary terms forget approximately them if she is gloomy. This having been reported, i think of #3 is truthfully much less considerable than #a million. truthfully everyone is going by dating united statesand downs, no longer truthfully everyone cheats.
2016-10-06 10:55:44 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Please!!!
What you should do is go on a diet and start working on building your self-esteem!!!!!!!
Your first assumption is to believe that your wife doesn't think you'll cheat because you are overweight and not as "good-looking" as she is?????? She loves you and she married you - there is a better chance that she trusts you!! Huh, what a concept!!!!
2007-06-01 04:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by Kailey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the one episode of The King of Queens.
2007-06-01 05:24:41 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋