Be honest!
2007-06-01 06:14:05 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think BK has it about right. If a woman tells you the relationship is "equal", it means she's calling the shots.
2007-06-01 07:50:15 · update #1
She bossed me around, so I divorced her a**
2007-06-01 06:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Dude - user names follow people around. Spouses can check here on what people write. Duh!
No man is going to tell the truth - that his wife calls most of the shots, and no woman wants to look like the somewhat bossy little bit of a control freak that she is.
So the men will puff up their chests and swagger, and the women will say they are in an "equal relationship."
2007-06-01 06:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
We do not boss each other around.
Mr. leaves his work at work. Here at home if something needs to be done, it gets done. He does it or I do it. No bossing around needed.
Since I have some medical problems I do not handle money, and I have to write everything down for my memory is not good from a accident. I do not drive anymore. People look at us real weird out in public when I hand him cash or when they see him reminding me of something.
Just the way it has to be....I admit when Mr. talks myself and the boys listen, but he does not "boss" us around.
2007-06-01 06:21:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does any one have to be the "BOSS"?A relationship should be 50/50.I have been married 18 yrs,grant it,it has been rough at times,But respect and honesty is the best recipe to a happy marriage.We communicate NOT boss.He does stuff for me, I do stuff for him,,,,,and when asking always say please,,then it doesn't sound like bossing.
2007-06-01 06:21:00 · answer #4 · answered by Mother of 2 girls 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, neither of us bosses the other; it's just not our way. I guess we were mature enough when we married, and have a wonderful relationship, because we do pretty much everything in mutual agreement. Boring maybe, but it works. We each have our strengths and weaknesses!
2007-06-01 07:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither, we have an equal relationship. We might suggest things to each other but bossing people around is demeaning and you don't do that to someone you love.
2007-06-01 06:18:29 · answer #6 · answered by Mark and Allie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, neither should really happen, but, hey, who lives in that perfect world. Right?
There were times when I bossed him around, but most of the time he felt the need to boss me around. So that is why I divorced him and have met the man of my dreams!
2007-06-01 06:18:59 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Enamorada♥ 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't say I necessarily "boss" him around, but I generally make the decisions and plans in our home. I leave the finances to him, but when it comes to making plans- he's a mess and always ends up double booking us or not following through with plans he's made so it's better left to me. Marriage is about compromise and sharing responsibilities not control.
2007-06-01 06:19:26 · answer #8 · answered by terasa425 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Neither one of us bosses the other around. We share the household chores and we both take care of our kids.
2007-06-01 06:23:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on who feels strongest about the issue at hand. It's usually a shouting match.
2007-06-01 06:21:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋