if u have read my other questions then u already know that i liked my bro's friend and he liked me but told his little bro to assk me out and now his little bro and me are dating. but now that i keep going over to my bf's house his oolder bro keeps flirting with me and calls me now so what should i do i have feelings for both of them but i don't want to dump my bf hoping his older bro will ask me out! so please give me some good advice!!
2007-06-01 10:37:54 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the older bro is my bro's best friend and they're 4yrs older than me
2007-06-01 10:52:43 · update #1
To be fair to your boyfriend and to yourself, if the little brother likes you and he asked you out then stay with him right now. Since the older brother obviously knows you like him then he might just being friendly or could be testing your fidelity toward his brother. The little brother could also asked his older brother to see if you are a faithful person. I believe if you dump the little brother at this time you might come away empty-handed..Anyway in dealing with two brothers you could be playing with fire and could get burnt.It could also cause a heated rivalry in their home and you do not want to have a reputation as a homewrecker hanging over your head. It takes along time to get rid of this type of reputation. Be careful. Play it straight down the middle. If he keeps on flirting with you , don't you think he may also be hurting the other one's feelings and fo you really want a person like that as a boyfriend one who is callous toward one's feelings.
2007-06-01 10:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Dave aka Spider Monkey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like to me that the younger brother is more of a man than his older brother for asking you out .
Older brother may have thought that it was a joke until the younger brother asked you out, now he's jealous.
2007-06-01 17:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by james 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont even go there with that its too damn dangerous if you really care for your recent boyfriend stay with him and as for the other brother just let it go its just not right and if it doesn't happen well at least they will have each other as family and you will have a clear concious.
2007-06-01 17:47:05 · answer #3 · answered by Nancy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just date both of them and have them fight for you..
or you can just break up with the younger one for a while and reinitiate with the older one when things are in the clear.
2007-06-01 17:42:04 · answer #4 · answered by ReppinSC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋